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You deeply care for your girlfriend and want her to feel special, but is it possible to truly express your love through text messages? Absolutely—and we're here to assist! We've put together a selection of the best texts to help you convey just how much you love her.
This guide is based on insights from our expert dating coach and licensed social worker, Julianne Cantarella. Read the full interview here.
Top Ways to Show Your Love to Your Girlfriend Over Text
- Don't forget to say "I love you" often.
- Show you care by paying attention to the small details.
- Engage her with thoughtful questions about her life and passions.
- Share something specific that you love about her.
- Seek her advice to demonstrate you value her opinion.
Action Steps
Simply say, "I love you."
Sometimes, simplicity is the key. There are many ways you can express how much your girlfriend means to you, and it’s great to mix it up from time to time! However, those three simple words can carry incredible weight. Most likely, she would love to hear you say, "I love you."
- If you're fluent in another language, saying "I love you" in a different tongue can be a romantic gesture—try saying "Je t'aime" in French, "Te quiero" in Spanish, or "Saranghee yo" in Korean.
Give her a compliment.
Point out something unique about her that you love. The most meaningful compliments are personal and sincere. Consider what makes your girlfriend one-of-a-kind. She’s undoubtedly beautiful, but go beyond that—what are the qualities that make her truly stand out? You could say something like:
- "I love how you're always eager for an adventure."
- "Your style is simply the best!"
- "You always listen to the coolest music."
- "It's impossible not to smile when I'm with you!"
Engage her with thoughtful questions.
Curiosity helps you connect with her on a deeper level. Asking questions gives her the opportunity to open up and share more about herself, which is an excellent way to build a stronger connection. For a fun twist, you can turn it into a game like 21 questions, where you alternate asking each other random questions. Some examples include:
- Is there anything exciting coming up for you this week?
- What’s your biggest fear?
- What’s been your best day of this year so far?
- Do you have any memorable childhood moments?
- If you could become any animal, which one would you choose?
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- Whether it’s 20 or 21 questions, she’ll love playing along.
Pay attention to the little things she mentions.
Paying attention is a way to show you care. It’s easy to rush through your girlfriend’s texts, especially when life gets busy. But when you have the chance, slow down and really absorb what she’s saying. Take note of small details that you can bring up later.
- If she tells you about an important math test on Tuesday, check in with her on Tuesday afternoon to ask how it went.
- If she mentions her love for Thai food, consider surprising her with a date at a Thai restaurant.
- You might want to use your phone’s notes app to jot down the things she enjoys so that you can pick the perfect gift for her birthday, Christmas, or your anniversary.
Send sweet texts in the morning and at night.
Make her feel special by starting and ending your day with her in mind. Once you’re up and about in the morning, send her a text like, "Good morning, babe!" or "Got any big plans today?" It’s a simple way to give her day a great start and show her she’s the first on your mind.
- Similarly, wrap up your night with a text like, "Dream of me! Love you" or "Sleep well, beautiful."
Ask for her opinion or advice.
This shows you truly value her perspective. There's no need to ask for her opinion on major life decisions unless something significant is happening in your life. Even asking about something as small as choosing what to wear or which show to watch next can demonstrate your respect for her judgment and interest in her thoughts. Try asking questions like:
- "I’m looking for a new band to listen to, got any recommendations?"
- "What do you think I should say when I meet your mom?"
- "Do you think my red Chucks will match this shirt?"
- "I think my boss is confusing me with my coworker. Can I get your advice on what to do?"
Let her know she’s always on your mind.
Tell her she’s occupying your thoughts. You’re so distracted thinking about her that you can’t focus on your homework or work tasks. Why not share this with her?
- For example, you could text, "I can't concentrate on anything because I just want to text you all day."
- Or, send a message like, "I miss you so much, it’s becoming a problem. How about a date tomorrow night?"
Offer comforting words when she’s going through a tough time.
She'll feel cherished when she knows you’re always there for her. If your girlfriend is having a rough day or feeling stressed, step in to support her. Remind her that you’re always available to listen and that you believe in her strength. Show her you’re there for her even when things get tough—this will let her know how much you truly care. You could say things like:
- "I know balancing school and work is tough. How about I grab some take-out for us tonight so you don't have to cook?"
- "You’ve got this interview in the bag! Don’t stress about it."
- "I hate seeing you upset. Is there anything I can do to help brighten your day?"
Talk about plans for the future with her.
Show her that you see her in your future. Drop a casual text mentioning something you'd like to do together down the road. While it might seem simple, hinting at long-term plans can actually communicate that you're taking the relationship seriously. You might say:
- "How about we go on a road trip next year? Any dream destinations you'd like to visit?"
- "When we graduate, we should look for an apartment to share!"
- "One day, when we have a place with lots of land, we should get baby goats."
- Having the same long-term dreams is a solid sign that you’re meant to be together.
Bring up your favorite memory of her.
Make the moment unforgettable by adding special details. Do you recall how she looked when you first saw her or that special moment when you realized she was 'the one'? Send her a message about a memory you cherish, and she’ll feel deeply loved. You might text something like:
- "Remember the time we visited the museum? I have to confess—you looked so stunning in that blue dress, I couldn’t focus on anything but you."
- "I was just thinking about the day we met. Your smile lit up the whole room, and I knew I had to get to know you. I'm so happy I did."
Send her something that makes you think of her.
It could be anything from a song to a picture, or even a funny meme. When you come across something that reminds you of her, send it her way! It could be something romantic, playful, or even quirky—the point is to let her know she's always on your mind. It’s sure to bring a smile to her face.
- If you hear a song with lyrics that instantly make you think of her, send her the link.
- If you find a funny gif, share it with a note saying, "Thought of you!"
- Found a stunning picture of her while browsing through your gallery? Send it with a message like, "You’re so gorgeous!"
Tell her how much she means to you.
Express your gratitude for her impact on your life. You love your girlfriend, and chances are, you feel like your life has gotten better since she’s been in it. Let her know what you appreciate about her—whether it’s something she does to make your day easier or just how she makes you feel. You might text something like:
- "Thanks for making breakfast this morning! You always help me start my day off right."
- "I admire how hard you work. It’s something I truly appreciate about you."
- "You make me want to be a better person."
