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Kissing is an act that brings excitement and pleasure to both parties. If you want to arouse your man during an intimate moment, you can try various methods to enhance the experience for him. Combining both your lips and body will help create a heightened sensation while you're kissing.
Steps
Start with a kiss on the lips
Freshen your breath. Intimate moments usually happen after a dinner date. If you've just finished eating, it's a good idea to freshen your breath for a more pleasant experience.
- If you're at either your house or his, step into the bathroom and rinse your mouth quickly.
- You can also use Altoids, mint gum, or breath freshening strips available at pharmacies or supermarkets.
Increase the intensity gradually. Pleasurable intimate moments often unfold slowly. When you begin kissing, let things happen naturally. Pay attention to your partner’s responses and try to understand what he likes and dislikes. Start with a slow rhythm, and as the intensity rises, you can switch to using your tongue, hands, and other parts of your body.
Use your tongue. Many people enjoy using their tongue during intimacy. If your partner likes it, don't hesitate to incorporate your tongue when the moment is right.
- If you want him to take the lead, you can gently part your lips to signal your interest. Observe whether he starts using his tongue as well.
Tease him. Sometimes, a gentle teasing gesture can excite your partner. During a kiss, you can pull back and gently push his head away. Pause the kiss for a few seconds, then resume. Most men find it stimulating when their partner teases them lightly during an intimate moment.
Kiss his neck and ears. Just like women, men have sensitive spots on their bodies that respond to touch. The neck and ears are areas rich in nerve endings. You can gently kiss or suck on his neck or ears during intimacy to bring him to the height of pleasure.
Caress his face during intimacy. The face is a sensitive area for men. While being affectionate, you can gently caress his face. Lightly rub his beard and cheekbones. Most men enjoy head massages, so you can try massaging inside his hairline with your fingers.
Using your body
Smile and maintain eye contact. Before starting to caress, you should slowly engage in eye contact. This action signals your interest and can stimulate your partner. Smile while kissing. The man will feel excited when he pulls back a bit and sees you smiling.
Touch his body. Integrate your hands during intimate moments. The man will feel aroused when you gently touch his head, back, and arms.
- Lightly trace your fingers along his back. If he’s not wearing a shirt, you can use your nails. Some men enjoy light scratching.
- You can also touch his arms, legs, chest, and any accessible areas.
Use your whole body. Don’t limit yourself to using just your face and hands during intimacy. Engaging your whole body can bring pleasure to him.
- Lean toward him during intimate moments. You can lie on top of him or pull him on top of you.
- Try wrapping one leg around his or gently rubbing your foot against his thigh.
Communication. The best way to engage in healthy physical touch is through open communication. Talk to him about what he likes and dislikes. Being open about your physical desires can make intimacy more exciting and passionate.
- Many people initially feel awkward discussing sexual desires. However, remember that open communication is a key factor in a healthy sexual relationship.
- Try starting the conversation with something like, "I care about you and want you to enjoy our closeness. Is there anything else you’d like during our kiss?"
Advice
- When kissing or engaging in intimacy, you should only do what feels comfortable for you in the moment. While it’s good to be aware of some advice, it’s best to relax, follow your emotions, and act naturally.
- An effective yet seductive way to communicate is by asking, "Do you like it this way?" if you’re unsure of your partner’s reaction, and/or saying, "I really like this," or "Do that again," or similar phrases. People often avoid communication because they fear losing the mood, but that’s not the case. In fact, it can make both of you more enticing.
- To maintain the sensual energy while kissing, avoid overly intense movements. Be slow but sure.
