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Adorable ways to let your crush know you like them without directly saying "I love you."
"I love you." These three powerful words carry deep meaning, but when conveyed through text, their impact can sometimes feel diluted. If you've been wondering whether there are other ways to express love via text, don't worry – we've got you covered! Below, you'll find numerous ways to express affection without sounding repetitive or losing sincerity.
Sweet Ways to Tell Someone You Like Them Through Text
- “You were the first person I thought of when I woke up this morning. I hope you had a restful sleep!”
- “Every time my phone buzzes, I can't help but smile because I always hope it’s you texting me.”
- “The movie was awesome, but it would’ve been perfect if I was watching it with you.”
- “I used to be anxious about getting older, but now I feel completely at ease knowing I have you by my side.”
How to Proceed
Send a "good morning" message if you wake up before them.
Share a sweet message to brighten their day. There’s nothing more heartwarming than receiving a text from someone who cares about you when you wake up. It’s a lovely way to express affection and ensure your special someone starts their day on a positive note. Here are some examples to help you begin:
- "Good morning, sunshine! I hope your day is as wonderful as you are. 😘 "
- "You were the first person I thought of when I woke up today. I hope you slept well!"
- "Every morning I wake up with a smile. I’m pretty sure it’s because of you. 🥰 "
Ask them to text you once they arrive.
If they’re traveling, this message shows how much you care about their safety. Whether your loved one is on the road or flying high, you’re likely to feel a little anxious until you know they’ve made it safely. They’ll know you’re thinking of them and their wellbeing when you ask them to update you. Here are a few messages to consider:
- "Travel safely on your way home!"
- "Send me a message when you’ve made it home safe."
- "Let me know when you arrive so I can breathe easy knowing you're okay."
Send a song that reminds you of them.
It could be a song that you recently heard or one that holds significance in your relationship. A song is a powerful way to show someone they’re on your mind. Whether it brings back a special memory or simply expresses how you feel about them, a song can convey your emotions like nothing else.
- Maybe you want to recall the moment the song played: "Remember that night we got up and danced in that restaurant? This was the song that played!"
- Alternatively, you can highlight a specific lyric that resonates with you, like, "Pay attention to the second verse—that’s exactly how I feel about you."
- If you have some extra time, why not curate an entire playlist for them and send the link over text?
Send them a heartfelt compliment.
Try something unique that celebrates their individuality. Complimenting someone is a beautiful way for them to see themselves through your eyes. Think about what makes them special and let them know how you feel. Here are some suggestions:
- "That blue sweater you wore this morning made your eyes shimmer."
- "Did you know you have exactly 14 freckles on your nose? I think they’re absolutely adorable."
- "Your voice is the most soothing sound I know."
Send a GIF or meme that brings them to mind.
A funny or sweet image shows you're thinking of them. By sharing something that reminds you of them, you let them know they’re constantly in your thoughts. If you're worried about the reason behind the message not being clear, add a little explanation like, "I saw this and immediately thought of you."
- You could also share articles you come across online that tie into recent conversations. For example, if they’ve mentioned a trip to Prague, send them an article about the best local restaurants.
- Webcomics are another fun option. Check out Milk & Mocha, a charming webcomic about two bears in love, or explore the Catana Comics series which beautifully captures love and relationships.
Express how happy they make you feel.
Lift their spirits by sharing how they brighten yours. Love doesn’t always have to be intense. Sometimes, it’s as simple as enjoying their presence and feeling uplifted by having them in your life. Expressing this joy opens the door to deeper affection. Here are a few things you could say:
- "Whenever my phone buzzes, I can’t help but grin because I think it’s you."
- "Every time I think about you, I can’t stop smiling. Honestly, I smile a lot."
- "With you in my life, everything seems brighter, and the world feels full of possibilities."
EXPERT ADVICE
Cher Gopman
Dating Coach
Dating Coach
If you're feeling anxious about opening up and expressing your feelings, keep in mind that it's okay to be honest with someone about how you feel. In society, we often hesitate to share our emotions because we fear rejection. However, the path to true love is about vulnerability. Relationships thrive on honesty, trust, and the ability to freely express your feelings.
Bring up a happy moment you both shared.
Sharing positive memories strengthens your bond and shows your affection. If you think of a fun time you both enjoyed recently, send your partner a text to remind them of it. Recalling that moment will help you relive it and rekindle the love.
- For instance, you might say, "I was just thinking about that beach trip we took. Remember the frogs jumping around the car? 🤣 That was such a trip!"
- Maybe something you saw triggered the memory. You could say, "Remember that hilarious cowboy-themed restaurant we went to? I just saw an ad for it on Facebook! 😂 We should definitely go again!"
Let them know you wish you were with them right now.
This is especially effective when you're enjoying something fun. Telling someone you'd rather be with them when you're stuck in a boring situation doesn't carry much weight. But when you're having a good time and send that message, they'll really feel your affection. Here are a few ways you can say it:
- "That movie was awesome, but it would’ve been even better if I were watching it with you."
- "I’m having a blast at this party, but honestly, you know what would be even more fun? Snuggling up and watching Netflix with you. 🥰 "
- "I’m glad I came to this show, but I’d be having more fun just hanging out with you."
Tell them they've introduced you to something you absolutely love.
They'll be thrilled that they’ve brought something wonderful into your life. Did your favorite person introduce you to that new dish you can’t stop eating or the album you’ve had on repeat for days? Let them know, and they’ll truly understand how much they mean to you. Try texting something like:
- "I stayed up way too late last night because I couldn't stop watching the second season of that show. Thanks for introducing me to my new obsession."
- "I’ve had that album you played for me on a constant loop for the past week. I think I love it almost as much as I love you!"
- "How about Korean BBQ tonight? I know we just went yesterday, but what can I say? You’ve turned me into a monster!"
- "Wanna play Catan tonight? I never understood that game until I played it with you, but now I can’t get enough. It must be the company! 😉 "
Bring up an inside joke the two of you share.
You'll know it’s love when one word makes you both burst into laughter. Inside jokes are one of the most special parts of a relationship. The shared connection between the two of you is so unique when you bring up something that only the two of you truly understand. It’s like having your own secret language.
- For instance, maybe one time your partner randomly shouted "Lemons!" and now it’s become a thing between you two. If you text "Lemons!" or even just send a " 🍋 ", you're sure to get a chuckle.
- The joy is often even greater when you bring up something neither of you has mentioned in a while. Remembering these little things long after they've faded from daily use shows how much you value those moments together.
Dream together about your future plans.
Include them in your dream future and they'll be moved. When you envision the perfect life, it’s impossible to imagine it without your favorite person. Let them know how much they mean to you by texting something like this to express that you want them with you always:
- "I used to worry about getting older, but now I know I have nothing to fear as long as you're by my side. We'll be the coolest seniors on the block!"
- "I'm so tired of this snow. How about we ditch it and live on a tropical island for the next 20 years?"
- "When we retire, let’s travel the globe searching for the best chocolate the world has to offer!"
Let them know you'll always be there for them.
Love means supporting each other through both the hard and happy times. When your partner faces challenges, they’ll feel your deep love when you stand by them and offer your help. Even if there's not much you can do to solve the issue, letting them know you're there for them when they need to talk will mean the world. Here are a few things you might say:
- "I’m so sorry you're going through this. If you need someone to listen, you know I'm always here."
- "It pains me to see you so upset. I’d do anything to ease your pain right now."
- "I’ve canceled my evening plans so we can spend some time together. I’ll bring dinner over to you."
Express your gratitude for their presence in your life.
Showing appreciation lets them know you don't take them for granted. Everyone loves to feel appreciated. Send them a heartfelt, spontaneous message to let them know just how thankful you are for them, and you'll make their day. Here are some examples of what you could text:
- "I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for being such an important part of my life."
- "I’m incredibly grateful for you—you make everything in life better."
- "I’m so glad I get to share my journey through life with you."
- "Thanks for adding so much beauty and joy to my world."
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I feel like the traditional "I love you" has lost its impact over time, and when I say it to my partner now, it doesn't carry the same special weight. Does anyone have any fresh and creative ways to convey the same feelings but with more personality? Feel free to get creative!
I agree! We’ve been using the same words for so long, and it's time to switch things up. Here are a few alternative expressions I’ve been using recently:
• You mean everything to me.
• You make my heart sing.
• You’re my everything.
• You bring so much happiness into my life.
• I treasure every moment with you.
• You light up my world.
• You're the one I’ve been waiting for.
• You mean everything to me.
• You make my heart sing.
• You’re my everything.
• You bring so much happiness into my life.
• I treasure every moment with you.
• You light up my world.
• You're the one I’ve been waiting for.
Here are some phrases that might resonate with you:
- I'm beyond grateful to have you in my life
- I feel safe and at peace when I'm with you
- Everything else fades away when we're together
- Time stands still when I'm around you
- This moment made me think of you
- You're the highlight of my day
- Thank you for being your amazing self
- Words can't express how joyful you make me
- I could listen to you speak for hours
- You take away all my fears
- I look forward to spending my forever with you
- I'm beyond grateful to have you in my life
- I feel safe and at peace when I'm with you
- Everything else fades away when we're together
- Time stands still when I'm around you
- This moment made me think of you
- You're the highlight of my day
- Thank you for being your amazing self
- Words can't express how joyful you make me
- I could listen to you speak for hours
- You take away all my fears
- I look forward to spending my forever with you
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