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Spending an evening with friends at a nude club can definitely be exciting. The dancers there are beautiful, the atmosphere is lively, and there are many types of drinks available. If you have never been to a nude club or have only visited a few times, you might feel nervous. But there's no need for that. Once the security guard lets you in, order a drink and enjoy yourself! Just make sure to plan for a safe journey home if you plan to drink alcohol, be polite and respectful to the dancers, staff, and security guards. Going to a nude club will be a fun experience, and you won't run into any trouble if you follow basic behavioral guidelines.
Steps
Entering the Nude Club
Don’t forget to bring your ID and wallet. You will need to present an ID to enter the nude club. You will also need cash to tip the staff. Therefore, make sure to bring your wallet along with your ID to get through the door, tip, buy drinks, and pay for parking if necessary.
- Most nude clubs have ATMs inside, but there is a fee for using them. It's a good idea to bring cash with you to avoid the ATM charges.
Inquire with the security about the club's dress code policy. Some nude clubs have specific dress codes. For instance, sleeveless shirts, large gold chains, or white shoes might be prohibited.
- Polo shirts and jeans are usually allowed, but some clubs may have other requirements.
Recommendation: It's best to call ahead or check their website before visiting to confirm whether they have a dress code in place.
Ask the security if there is a service charge. Before entering the nude club, you need to find out if there's a service charge. Check with the security or the staff at the entrance to see if you need to pay a service fee or order a minimum drink to gain entry.
- You might need to pay the service fee in cash, so make sure you have at least $20 on hand.
Show your ID to the security. Near the entrance, security will be monitoring those entering and exiting the club. Present your ID to confirm that you're of legal age to enter. If the club has a service fee, you'll need to pay the security guard to enter.
- You can use a driver's license, an ID card, or a passport to verify your identity.
Order a drink at the bar once you enter the club. Drinks at nude clubs can be expensive, but they are the main way the club generates revenue, as dancers are often contract workers. Even if you don't drink alcohol, you should still order a drink to show that you're a good customer.
- If you don't drink alcohol, you can order a non-alcoholic beverage, such as orange juice with soda and lime.
- Many nude clubs require a minimum drink spend or ask that you order a drink every 30 minutes to stay in the club.
Find a seat. After ordering a drink, look for a table or a quiet spot where you can relax. Avoid sitting near the stage unless you're planning to tip the dancer continuously.
- Make sure everyone in your group knows where you're sitting, so they can find you if they get separated when going to the bar.
Follow the code of conduct.
Check the posted rules of behavior. The conduct rules may vary from club to club, especially when it comes to tipping and physical contact. Look for the club's rule board on the wall or ask a staff member to avoid being kicked out for breaking the rules.
- For example, in New Jersey, you're not allowed to tip dancers while they're performing on stage. You tip them afterward.
You can say “no” to a dancer or your friends. If you're uncomfortable, don't want to spend money on a private dance, or don't feel like buying a drink for the dancer, it's perfectly fine to decline. Don't make excuses or feel pressured to comply.
- You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Don't feel obligated to give in to peer pressure if your friends are trying to persuade you to do something you're not comfortable with.
- Don't be rude or ignore them. Just say, 'No, thank you.'
Ask the price before agreeing to anything. To avoid being tricked into buying an expensive private dance, drink, or service, always inquire about the price beforehand. Don't wait until after the private dance is over to discuss the cost, as this can lead to being overcharged.
- For example, if a dancer offers you a private dance in a VIP room, you can ask, 'That sounds tempting! How much does it cost?'
Respect the dancers, security, and bartenders. Dancers are people too and deserve the same respect as anyone else. Avoid being rude, curt, or offensive to anyone at the club.
- Don't ask for a dancer's phone number or suggest going on a date.
- If a dancer declines your request or walks away, don't insult or chase after them.
- Many dancers enjoy working at the strip club. Don't try to 'rescue' them or persuade them to quit their job.
Don't ask for the dancer's real name. Most dancers create a separate persona for their work at the strip club and prefer to keep their personal life private. Don't be rude and demand to know their real name or details about their life outside the club.
- Respect the dancer's wishes. If they say they’re uncomfortable with something, don’t press or get upset.
Avoid drinking too much alcohol. Getting completely drunk is never a good look, even if you're at a strip club where alcohol flows freely and encourages indulgence. Excessive drinking also brings risks, as you may lose track of where you are, make poor decisions, or waste money.
Tip: Drink water along with alcohol to stay hydrated. Water also helps reduce that dizzy feeling the next day.
Ensure safety.
Park in a safe spot if you’re driving yourself. Some strip clubs offer secure parking lots with surveillance. If you're visiting the club at night, make sure to park somewhere visible and nearby so you can leave safely.
- Criminals often assume you're carrying cash when leaving a strip club. Park in a well-lit area close to the club's security or staff.
Arrange for a driver if you plan to drink alcohol. Many people visit strip clubs to relax and have fun, often consuming alcohol. If you're planning to drink and drive to the club, make sure to have someone sober to take you home afterward.
Tip: If you don’t have a designated driver and you’ve drunk too much, leave your car at the club and call a taxi.
Call Uber or Lyft if your whole group is drinking. Using a ride-hailing app is a great way to save on parking fees and ensure everyone can travel safely. Download the ride app on your phone, book a ride to the club, and order a ride back home when the night’s over.
- Save money by carpooling with others.
Don’t leave anyone behind if they’ve had too much to drink. If someone in your group has had too much to drink and wants to stay while the rest are ready to leave, don’t let them stay alone. Head out together to ensure everyone gets home safely.
- They might spend more money than they should.
- Being at a strip club often leads people to assume they’re carrying cash, and they could be targeted for robbery.
Warning
- Never drink and drive. Arrange for someone else to drive, call a taxi, or use a ride-sharing app on your phone to get home safely.
