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In bustling cities, it’s almost inevitable to cross paths with individuals asking for financial help. While it can be tough to walk away, simply handing over money only provides a brief solution to a much larger issue. By showing respect, using some common sense, and supporting local organizations, you can make a more lasting impact.
Important Points to Remember
- If possible, don’t ignore beggars; acknowledge them with a nod, smile, or kind words.
- You can explain that you don’t have cash or that you only carry credit cards.
- If a beggar becomes hostile, don’t hesitate to contact the authorities, run, or ask for help from those nearby.
- Contributing to shelters, charities, or offering food or water can have a more meaningful impact than giving small change.
How to Approach the Situation
Handling a Face-to-Face Interaction
Greet the beggar. Rather than ignoring them, make eye contact. A nod, smile, or simple greeting shows you recognize their presence. This is a kind gesture that doesn’t require giving money.
Politely decline their request. A blunt “No” might come off as harsh. Instead, say something like, “I wish I could help, but I don’t have any cash on me.” This approach is respectful and allows you to refuse without feeling guilty.
Inquire about their needs. While you could give loose change, you can’t control how it’s used. If you feel safe, ask what they need specifically. If they need a bus ticket, offer to purchase one. If they’re in worn-out shoes or using newspapers for warmth, ask for their shoe size or offer to get them a blanket. This addresses their immediate needs while showing them dignity, something money alone can’t provide.
Offer something to eat. If there’s a café or restaurant nearby, consider offering to buy a warm drink or a sandwich. This way, you provide something useful and kind, and at least you’ll know they’ll have food or a warm beverage.
- Be aware that some beggars might trade food for goods or services. While this doesn’t happen often, it’s something to keep in mind when offering food.
Guide the beggar to a shelter. If you believe they may be sleeping outdoors, direct them to the nearest homeless shelter. This could provide them with a safe place for the night and connect them with services that may help improve their circumstances. To find shelter locations worldwide, visit:
- Street Link for shelters in the UK.
- Homeless Shelter Directory for shelters in the United States.
- Homeless Canada for shelters in Canada.
Staying Safe While Helping
Choose well-populated areas. It’s best to interact with beggars in busy, well-lit areas. Remain standing, as sitting or crouching may make you less visible. Avoid following anyone into secluded or dimly lit areas.
Keep an eye on the beggar. If you’re offering directions or handing out food, maintain eye contact. Distraction is a common tactic used by thieves to target people with good intentions. While the majority of beggars aren’t criminals, it’s always important to stay vigilant.
Stay in your car. When driving, resist the urge to get out of your car to help a beggar at a traffic light. Getting out can hold up traffic and put you at risk of an accident. Acknowledge them with a nod or smile from inside your vehicle instead.
How to Protect Yourself from Aggressive Beggars. If a beggar becomes confrontational, don’t let yourself be intimidated. Yell out to attract attention. Head into a nearby business and ask for help. If there’s a police officer nearby, report the situation to them.
Supporting Charities and Shelters
Donate to a local charity. Find organizations that work to keep people off the streets and provide support for the homeless. If you’re visiting a different country, look for a charity that addresses specific needs, such as providing school supplies for children to keep them in school and out of poverty. To ensure your donation is well-utilized, check out:
- Charity Navigator, which evaluates charities based on their effectiveness and accountability.
- A list of top-rated charities worldwide, available at GivingWhatWeCan.org.
Support a local homeless shelter. Donate money to help improve your community and provide support to those in need in your area. You can also donate useful items, such as:
- Oral hygiene items like toothbrushes, toothpaste, and floss.
- Personal hygiene products like sanitary napkins and baby wipes.
- First aid items like bandages and antiseptic wipes.
- Clothing, especially old winter coats and shoes.
Volunteer at a shelter or charity. You can help by serving meals, sorting donations, and providing other services as needed. Reach out to your local shelter for volunteer opportunities. Getting involved with the charities you donate to will allow you to experience the direct impact of your contributions.
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Reach out to local city administrators, council members, and county supervisors to raise awareness about homelessness in your community and push for meaningful changes. If you’re a local business, your input may carry more weight and be taken more seriously.
