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Video dating is becoming increasingly popular, whether you're getting to know someone locally or in a long-distance relationship. But how can you leverage technology to make your date truly memorable? Don't worry! Today, Mytour will compile various fun and creative ways to ask someone to join you for a video date that will truly be unforgettable!
Steps
Look for signs that the other person is also interested.
Some signs will indicate that it's time to plan a video date. Pay attention to how often they text you. If they message you frequently, that's a good sign. Additionally, take a closer look at the content of their messages. Typically, messages with friendly emojis are a clear indication that they would enjoy a video date with you.
- If they're interested, they might reply to your messages very quickly, and your conversations will become more detailed and profound over time.
- For example, if they send you a shy or smirking emoji, it's likely they're interested in what's happening.
Suggest a video date while on a phone call.
Phone calls are a great way to build a connection and are often less intimidating than video chats. As the conversation winds down, ask if they’d be open to a video call next time. If they’re not comfortable yet, set the idea aside and wait for the right moment.
- After hanging up, you could text: “Talking to you was so much fun! How about we FaceTime or use Messenger next time?” or “Would you like to video call on Zalo this weekend? I’m free on Saturday.”
- If you’re feeling particularly confident, you could propose a video date at the start of the call, like: “I know this might seem sudden, but would you like to FaceTime?” or “I’d love to see you, even if it’s just on screen. Would you like to Skype?”
Try inviting them to a video date via text.
Bring this up before the conversation really begins. Send a quick message to see if they’re interested in switching to a video call. If they’re on board, you can both choose a video platform to start. If they seem hesitant, reassure them there’s no pressure, as you can always plan a video date for another time.
- You could say: “Texting you is really fun, but I’d love to see your face. Would you be up for a FaceTime call?” or “How about we switch things up? I think we should try a video call tonight.”
Choose a video chat service that both of you use.
FaceTime, WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, and Zalo are all popular choices. Many chat platforms and social networks come with built-in video call features, so all you need to do is tap a button to start. Ask which platform they prefer, or if they use an iPhone/iPad and you do too, you can FaceTime each other. Other options for video calls include Zoom, Google Meet, Google Duo, Microsoft Teams, Viber, and Telegram.
- Some dating apps like Tinder, Litmatch, and Bumble also have integrated video call features. Tinder even offers a video chat service called “Face to Face.”
- You could also say: “Would you like to FaceTime next time?” or “Are you free this Saturday? If not, maybe we could try a video date on Facebook Messenger.”
Invite them to a video dinner date.
Suggest cooking together over a video call using your phone, tablet, or laptop. They can pick the ingredients for their favorite dish, while you relax in your kitchen and watch them cook. Once the meal is ready, sit down together virtually with your devices.
- For example, you could say: “How about a virtual date? We could FaceTime while preparing dinner this Friday.”
- Or, “I’m planning to make spaghetti Bolognese, and I wish you were here. How about we Zoom tonight and cook together?”
- Video calls, cooking, and eating might feel overwhelming if it’s your first time chatting on video. To ease into it, you could prepare your meal in advance, order takeout, or have food delivered, then enjoy it together over a video call.
Enjoy a virtual wine tasting.
If you both enjoy wine, suggest a virtual wine-tasting session. Ask them to pick or order a bottle they’d like to try. Then, find a cozy spot at home and start a video call to enjoy the wine together. During the call, you can clink glasses, sip simultaneously, and describe the flavors of the wine you’re tasting. This will make your date feel sophisticated and memorable.
- You could say: “Are you free this Thursday evening? I was thinking we could Skype and enjoy a glass of wine together.”
- Or, “I just bought a bottle of Merlot and can’t wait to try it. Would you like to pick a wine and join me for a virtual tasting? We could use Google Duo.”
- If you’re using Zoom, set your video background to a vineyard to match the mood.
Watch a movie together via video.
Turn your video date into a virtual movie night. Pick a film on Netflix and invite them to watch it with you using the Teleparty extension. While this isn’t exactly a “video” date, it allows for plenty of real-time chatting throughout the virtual movie experience.
- You could also say: “A new movie just came out on Netflix yesterday. Would you like to watch it with me tomorrow night?”
- If you’re both in the U.S., Hulu subscribers can enjoy a movie night using the Hulu Watch Party feature. Disney Plus also offers a “GroupWatch” option for its members.
Plan a virtual game night.
Video games are a fantastic way to bond as a couple. Suggest some online games like Gunny Mobi or Audition Online. If you prefer board games, you can download Uno! or Ludo King. Play Together is another virtual universe filled with fun activities for couples and friends to enjoy together. Try saying:
- “Would you like to team up as sharpshooters tonight? We could play Gunny Mobi together.”
- “How about going fishing with me in Play Together? Our date will be so much fun!”
Share your thoughts to understand each other better.
Video dating can help break the initial shyness and deepen mutual understanding. You can search online for "fun questions to get to know each other better," such as "Are you a dog or cat person?" or "What’s your favorite bubble tea flavor?" Then, invite your partner for a video date on a fun evening filled with silly questions and surprisingly deep thoughts.
Schedule a virtual museum tour.
It might sound unbelievable, but you can have a museum date right at home. The Vietnam Fine Arts Museum and the National Museum of History now offer online tours on their websites. Additionally, world-renowned places like the Louvre Museum (Paris, France), the J. Paul Getty Museum (California, USA), and the Smithsonian Institution (Washington, USA) host virtual tours and exhibitions. For a truly intimate date night, you can share your screen during a video call. This way, you and your partner can "visit" the museum together.
Suggest a virtual zoo visit.
Choosing a virtual zoo tour can make your video date night unforgettable. If your partner loves animals, a virtual trip to the zoo is a fantastic idea for a date. Share your screen during the video call to admire lions, tigers, monkeys, zebras, and other wild animals together.
Enjoy music together through a video call.
You can find numerous concerts, live shows, or music videos on YouTube. Ask your partner about their favorite music genre and search for it on YouTube. Then, you can arrange a video date to enjoy the music together.
