Kissing someone's neck can be a sweet way to show affection or a seductive move to set the tone for intimacy. You can kiss their neck in various spots and even incorporate other techniques like licking or gentle nibbling if the mood allows.
Steps
Preparing to Kiss Their Neck

Use your fingers to caress their neck. Gently stroke their neck with your fingertips. This action can be stimulating and might even give them goosebumps. Focus on the area you plan to kiss, and they’ll feel even more pleasure when you do.

Kiss the sensitive areas on their neck. One of the most sensitive spots on the neck is where it meets the shoulders and collarbone. The front left or right sides are also sensitive zones. However, almost any part of the neck can respond well to a kiss.
- Use your body while kissing their neck. Don’t just stand apart and lean forward to kiss their neck. Instead, wrap your arms around them if you’re facing each other, or embrace them from behind if you’re kissing from the back.
Apply Various Neck-Kissing Techniques

Moisten your lips for a closed-mouth kiss. First, use your tongue to lightly moisten your lips, then gently kiss any part of their neck with your lips closed, as if you’re kissing their lips. You can start by kissing the area where the neck meets the shoulder or collarbone, placing your lips on the curved groove.

Kiss their neck with an open mouth. Gradually open your mouth as you kiss, and begin kissing their neck while parting your lips slightly against their skin. You can move up and down their neck to vary the sensation.
- Blow warm breath on their neck while kissing. This can heighten their excitement.
- If you’re feeling adventurous, lick their neck from bottom to top. Use only the tip of your tongue and be very gentle. Make sure your partner enjoys this sensation.
- Avoid doing this if it’s your first time kissing them. If interested, discuss it beforehand, but only proceed if you’ve kissed their neck before or have experience. This process includes blowing, using your tongue, and even light biting or sucking. For a first kiss, stick to open or closed-mouth kisses on the lips. Use this as an opportunity to explore other mutual interests.

Take it slow. Give them a slow, wet kiss so they can savor the sensation. You can focus on one spot or move around their neck. Try kissing near the ear, as it’s a highly sensitive area. Blowing warm breath near their ear can also heighten their excitement.



Lightly bite their neck. After kissing their neck for a while, you can softly bite their skin. Be careful not to bite too hard and gently lift before releasing. Remember to go slowly, as they might be surprised by this action initially.
Tips
- This method works best when you’ve been kissing for a while and you turn your attention to the back of their neck.
- Sucking can leave marks, no matter how gentle, so ensure they’re comfortable with it beforehand.
- Only lick or bite if you’re completely comfortable with each other. Avoid doing this the first time you kiss their neck.
- Kisses shouldn’t be too dry. Keep your lips moisturized at night for safety. Carry lip balm and drink plenty of water throughout the day to make things smoother!
- Kisses shouldn’t be too dry or too wet. Some women dislike excessive saliva.
- Try kissing near the jawline.
- Kissing, sucking, or biting their neck can be stimulating. Ensure you’re at the right stage in your relationship before trying this, as it can be seen as an intimate gesture. Always ask them first.
Warnings
- If you decide to bite their neck, do so very gently. Biting too hard can ruin the mood and potentially hurt your partner.