Buzz
You might be a cute couple, but a noticeable height difference can make standing side by side a bit awkward. This can sometimes make kissing a challenge, but there are simple ways to bridge the gap, such as wearing platform shoes, standing on stairs or other furniture, or collaborating with one person standing on tiptoe while the other leans down to share a kiss. Once you’ve mastered these techniques, you can experiment with creative kissing positions and styles.
Steps
Adjust Your Height to Match
Bend down slightly to kiss your partner if you’re taller. The easiest way to adjust for a height difference if you’re taller is to bend down for the kiss, while the shorter person tilts their head up to receive it.
- If you’re the taller one, support your partner’s head to avoid straining their neck. Tilting the head back for too long can be uncomfortable.
Stand on your tiptoes to kiss if you’re the shorter one. If you’re only slightly shorter, a little lift on your toes might be enough to reach your partner’s lips. For a more significant height difference, you’ll need to stretch further while your partner leans down to meet you halfway.
Use your surroundings to adjust your height. Look around for anything that can help level the playing field. This could be fixed structures like stairs or curbs, or furniture like high chairs or footstools.
- For example, if you’re shorter, stand on a wall ledge, stool, or step to match your partner’s height.
- If you’re taller, position yourself on a lower step or below the curb.
Wear shoes with elevated soles or inserts if you’re shorter. To minimize the height gap, try heels, platform shoes, or even sneakers with thick soles. You can also use shoe inserts designed to add height discreetly.
- Celebrities often use these inserts to appear taller.
Sit on a chair for easier kissing. Another option is for the taller person to sit on a chair or sofa while the shorter one sits on their lap. Sitting side by side on chairs can also make kissing more comfortable.
- Make sure the furniture is sturdy enough to support both of you. Breaking a chair mid-kiss isn’t exactly romantic.
Tip: Lying down next to your partner can also balance the height difference and make kissing easier, but it’s okay if you’re not comfortable with this yet.
Experiment with Different Kissing Positions
If your partner is shorter, lean them back and support their body while kissing. For a passionate kiss, the taller person can gently lean the shorter one back until they’re almost parallel to the ground, using your arms to support them. Be mindful of your back muscles and engage your core while using your legs to balance.
- If you’re taller, hold their waist and back to keep them steady.
- If you’re shorter, wrap your arms around their neck for support.
Jump into their arms if you’re shorter and ensure they can lift you. If you’re shorter and your partner is strong enough, leap into their arms to bring your faces level, or wrap your legs around their waist and kiss from above. Always give them a heads-up before jumping.
- If you’re taller, you can spin them around while kissing to add a romantic touch.
Kiss other areas to show affection. You don’t always have to kiss on the lips or face to express love. If you’re shorter, try kissing their hand or shoulder. If you’re taller, kiss their forehead or lift their hand to kiss it.
Tip: Try other unique ways to show affection without kissing, like holding hands in a special way.
Tips
- If your partner is taller and wearing a jacket with straps, playfully tug on them to pull them down for a kiss.
- If you’re taller, gently lift their chin to bring their face closer to yours.
Warnings
- If you plan to lift someone, prioritize safety. Use your legs to lift, not your back.
