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She's so sweet and beautiful, and you're truly in love with her, but are you ready for the perfect moment to kiss? If you've never kissed her before (or haven't kissed any girl yet), this might feel intimidating. But don't worry! With just a little preparation and practice, you'll become a kissing expert before you know it! No need to panic: once you're in the right mood, why wait any longer to kiss her?
Steps
Prepare for Success
Practice! The best way to become good at kissing is by practicing beforehand. It may sound obvious, but practicing really benefits you. You can practice kissing on your hand, an object, or even someone else.
- Always remember, you want to save your first kiss for the one you love, so kissing someone else first could upset her if she finds out.
Your Breath Should Be Fresh! Your girlfriend won’t enjoy kissing if your breath smells like garlic or anything unpleasant. Before your date or before meeting her, make sure to brush your teeth and tongue, and consider using mouthwash too. To keep your breath fresh throughout the date, drink plenty of water instead of sugary drinks. During the date, you can also suck on mint candies or chew gum for a few minutes.
- If you're dining at a restaurant, you can carry a breath spray with you. After finishing dinner, you can step into the restroom to rinse your mouth. To check your breath, simply hold your hand up in front of your face, blow air onto it, and sniff.
Flirt with Her a Little! This will help both of you get into the right mood for a kiss. Compliment her on her outfit; she'll surely appreciate the compliment. If she playfully hits you or teases you, it means she’s open to you embracing her. Take this opportunity to hold her hand as if you're showing her something; she’ll be grateful you took the lead instead of just sitting there, staring at each other and blushing.
- If you’re brave enough, you can wrap your arms around her waist while you’re both laughing and say something like 'You’re so cute!'
- You could suggest carrying her on your back or tickling her if she enjoys it. Don’t overdo it. And if you decide to act like this, make sure to respect her boundaries. Never take the chance to touch her chest or buttocks.
- Flirting helps her feel more comfortable with kissing you. Think of kissing like climbing to the top of a mountain. You have to make your way up before you reach the summit.
The Moment Has Arrived! The right timing makes it easier for you to give her that first kiss. The best time to kiss is at the end of the date when you’re saying goodbye, while you’re taking a walk, or after watching a movie together. At these times, you get some private moments together. And private moments are the perfect time to give her that first kiss.
- Keep the kiss a secret. Don’t tell others you kissed her, as doing so is impolite.
Ask Her First! It might sound funny because we're used to seeing people kiss naturally on TV, but actually asking her if it’s okay for you to kiss her shows respect and consideration, and she will surely appreciate it.
- You can start with questions like: 'I really want to kiss you right now, would that be okay?' or 'Would you like me to kiss you?'
Skills for Kissing
Slowly Lean Your Face Towards Hers. This is a sign that you're preparing to kiss her. Doing this gives her the chance to reject the kiss if she's not comfortable, and it helps you avoid a slap. Only close your eyes when you're about to kiss her.
Start with a Soft, Simple Kiss. Don’t use your tongue when you're kissing your girlfriend for the first time.
Tilt Your Head. Gently tilt your head to one side. If you're both the same height and you don’t tilt your head when kissing, your nose will touch hers instead of your lips meeting hers.
Move Slowly and Follow Her Lead. If she's kissing you passionately, she’ll lock her lips with yours, so you won’t need to move your lips too much.
Use Your Hands. If you want, gently cradle her face with your hands and slowly stroke her cheeks with your thumbs. Don’t forget to use your other hand to hold her waist or hips tightly.
Hãy dịu dàng và âu yếm. Hôn là một cách giao tiếp không cần đến lời nói cho nên bạn hãy tỏ ra bạn là một người tử tế, dịu dàng, dễ tha thứ, và có như vậy đối phương mới muốn gắn bó với bạn!
Thở. Bạn sẽ rất ngạc nhiên khi biết rằng đối với những người không quen với việc hôn nhau thì họ thường hay quên thở trong lúc hôn! Nếu bạn muốn tiếp tục hôn cô ấy nhưng bạn không tìm ra khoảng trống nào để thở thì bạn nên chuyển từ hôn môi sang hôn má và trán cô ấy.
Ngừng hôn khi bạn nghĩ thế là đủ. Từ từ di chuyển ra xa sau vài giây (hoặc vài phút!) và mở mắt ra. Chúc mừng bạn! Mỗi lần hôn sau này sẽ “dễ dàng hơn nhiều” so với nụ hôn đầu. Bạn đã leo lên được đỉnh núi rồi!
Trở nên Chuyên nghiệp
Hãy học cách hôn kiểu Pháp. Đây là bước ngoặt lớn nhất trong việc hôn, nó đòi hỏi bạn phải học. Thật ra thì không khó lắm đâu, và thêm một chút luyện tập, nó sẽ trở thành vũ khí hữu hiệu cho bạn.
Learn how to kiss with your tongue and maybe get a little touchy-feely. It might sound challenging, especially if both of you are still a bit shy, but with time, it’ll become easier. Just remember not to overdo it and always keep the spark alive.
Learn how to kiss passionately. Once you've mastered the basic kissing techniques, you can only become a great kisser if you know how to kiss with passion. This type of kiss is simple—just relax and let your emotions take over.
Learn how to kiss in front of other people. As you and your partner grow closer, there may come a day when you’ll have to kiss her in front of others (for example, on group dates or outings). This is perfectly normal, but remember to keep your kiss respectful and polite.
Learn how to kiss while wearing braces. If this is your first kiss and you're wearing braces, don’t worry too much. Though kissing with braces is often made fun of in movies, the reality is that it’s not as difficult as it might seem on screen.
Tips
- Avoid dry lips by gently scrubbing them with sugar to remove dead skin.
- Before locking lips, remember to swallow and gently lick your lips to keep them moist. Don't overdo it, as it might seem awkward to her.
- Don't force it. If she wants to stop, respect her wishes and stop. You can always try again later.
- She might not want to kiss, and it's important to calmly accept that. But if she does, go for it!
- A kiss can reveal a lot about the feelings between the two of you, so be cautious. Don't kiss just anyone unless you truly want to take things further.
- Don’t be overconfident if she doesn't want to kiss you—she might be under pressure and not ready for it yet.
- To make the kiss more passionate, place your hands on the back of her neck, her waist, or her cheek. Once you're in position, gently pull her closer.
Warning
- Don’t be too upset if she doesn’t want to kiss; there will be plenty of opportunities ahead!
