How to Know if You Should Become a Burlesque Dancer

Physical Fitness is Key. Many people wrongly assume that you need a "perfect" body to become a burlesque dancer. In reality, burlesque dancers can have diverse body types and sizes. However, it's important to maintain a certain level of physical health to meet the demands of the job. Dancing requires a lot of energy, and not to mention, wearing high heels makes it even more challenging! Be prepared for the physical demands that come with being a burlesque dancer.

• You don’t necessarily need dancing skills or experience to start. Observing other performers can give you an idea of what you need to do.

Awareness of the Time Investment Required. Initially, you may have to work every night to build your name and recover the money you’ve invested in this career. You will also need to adjust your lifestyle to get used to late-night work, which can be challenging for your daytime job.

• You won’t succeed overnight, especially when you’re getting used to being on stage while performing intimate dances. You’ll need time to decide whether you should pursue a career as a burlesque dancer and how successful you can become.

Staying Alert is Essential. Many dancers have fallen victim to the temptations of alcohol and drugs in strip clubs, eventually spending all their earnings on them. You might also find yourself in danger from drunkenness at work. You need to think quickly and respond in order to stay safe and get paid for your performance.

• Some dancers can drink several drinks while working without getting drunk, or occasionally use drugs without becoming addicted. However, these are still risky behaviors, and if you're prone to addiction, you could develop a dependency on alcohol or drugs.

What Will You Do When the Audience Rejects You? Burlesque dancers don’t always get money from the audience. Some people won’t find you attractive or will flat-out reject you when you approach them. As a dancer, you have to 'sell yourself' to earn money, so you must develop a thick skin to succeed, much like in a real business.

• Some regular customers might even act rude. Like any other profession, you’ll encounter people who aren’t very pleasant, but as a burlesque dancer, you’ll have to deal with them in a more intimate and vulnerable setting. Be mentally prepared for this.

You Might Face Trouble with Colleagues. In this line of work, your coworkers are competitors, as you'll essentially be competing for the attention of regular customers in the club to earn tips and be invited for private dances. Don’t expect to form close friendships with your colleagues, and be ready to face their rude behavior.

• For example, one of your colleagues may allow customers to touch their body more during private dances, as this will create more work for her. Such actions will lead to conflicts and tensions among dancers.

Obtain a License. Different regions have different requirements, but most will require you to obtain a license to work as a dancer in adult entertainment. The cost of obtaining this license varies by location. For instance, in Denver, Colorado, burlesque dancers need to apply for a business license, with total fees around $175 USD, and are also required to undergo a criminal background check.

• Licensing requirements will change depending on where you live and work, so it’s important to research the regulations in your city and/or state.

Purchase Costumes. Before attending auditions, you'll need to prepare your wardrobe. Initially, you might only want to buy one outfit until you secure stable work. There are many online stores that sell complete outfits or individual pieces, including bikinis. Choose a style that reflects your personality. For example, if you're planning to perform to pop or hip-hop music, avoid wearing a black outfit and opt for something trendy. Choose bright, sparkly colors and seductive designs. For rock music, darker clothing with chrome or metallic sheen is a better option.

• Outfits can range from $30 to $100 USD for a full set—some exceptions may be cheaper or more expensive. Pick something within your budget, and wait until you have a steady income before splurging on expensive, lavish outfits.
• Depending on the type of club you’re working in, your outfit might reveal more or less skin. For instance, if you perform at a club that allows full nudity, partial nudity, or only bikini attire, you’ll need to choose your wardrobe accordingly.

Buy Shoes. You can’t wear soft-soled shoes on stage as a burlesque dancer. Dancers typically wear very high heels, so you’ll need to purchase a pair. Avoid regular low-heeled shoes, and go for a minimum of 10 cm in height. Look for shoes specifically designed for dancers. Consider clear-heeled shoes, often seen in films featuring dancers. These shoes are typically sold at stores that also sell costumes. Some online shops offer promotions when you buy a full outfit, such as discounts or free shipping, so take advantage of these deals when purchasing everything from the same place.

• A good pair of high heels may even cost more than your outfit, typically ranging from $60 to $200 USD. Start with a more affordable pair and wait until your income stabilizes. Opt for shoes that can match several outfits.

Pay Club Fees. Many clubs require dancers to pay a fee for every night they work. Dancers are typically regarded as independent contractors, so you will need to pay 'rent' to work there. The fee varies depending on the club and night. For instance, weekend night fees might be higher than weekday nights. The fees can range from $10 to $200 per night, or even more, depending on the factors involved.

• Additionally, you’ll need to tip the security staff, the service staff (who bring customers to you), and even the DJ who plays music during your performance.

People May Judge You Negatively. Pursuing a career in nude or adult dance can lead others to form unfavorable opinions about you. Nudity is often not considered a morally acceptable way to earn money, regardless of how pure your intentions may be. Many people will harbor prejudices about nude dancers, applying them to you even if you are nothing like the stereotypes. You must be mentally prepared for the social stigma that comes with this profession, and even the impact it could have on your personal relationships.

• As a stripper, you may face difficulties finding a lasting relationship, as few people are comfortable with the idea of you being nude or performing intimate dances in front of others. If you're already in a relationship, it's important to communicate openly with your partner to ensure that this profession doesn’t negatively affect your relationship.

Aware of Negative Psychological Impacts. Since your income depends on how others perceive your physical attractiveness, you may find yourself placing your self-worth on your outward appeal. Some dancers experience negative self-perceptions or become overly critical of their appearance, which can be difficult to change and expensive. Consider whether you are prepared to handle these psychological challenges if you choose to become a dancer.

• On the other hand, some dancers find the act of shedding their clothes liberating and empowering. It all depends on your personality and how you feel about it.

You Might Not Earn as Much as You Expect. Since you will need to spend a considerable amount upfront on licensing, club fees, clothing, and shoes, you may only break even after several nights or even weeks. Tips for staff and club fees could leave you with little to take home, but on other nights, you might have a few hundred dollars left after covering all expenses. Your income will fluctuate, primarily depending on tips and money from private dance bookings.

• Your business skills will significantly influence your earning potential. Private dances generally bring in more money than stage performance tips, so if you don’t enjoy private performances, this profession might not be the right fit for you.

You Might Encounter Aggressive Customers. Unfortunately, some patrons at strip clubs may assume that dancers are always willing to engage in business, no matter what form it takes. You may come across clients who are overly touchy or aggressive during private dances. It's essential to set clear boundaries and protect yourself during these encounters. You are not obligated to do anything you're uncomfortable with. Be sure to tip the bouncers generously and always ensure that security is nearby when performing or during private dances.

• If any aspect of this profession causes you concern or discomfort, you should reconsider pursuing it. Never place yourself in a situation where you’re not ready to refuse when necessary.

Be Aware That You Will Encounter Drugs. Some of your colleagues or clients might use or even sell drugs. While this might not necessarily happen, it's important to be mentally prepared for the possibility. If you are vulnerable to drug abuse, this profession may not be ideal, as the temptation will be stronger. You may also find yourself involved in illegal activities, especially if you purchase or use drugs at work.

• Using drugs or being intoxicated during a performance could make you more vulnerable to sexual assault or being cheated out of money that you rightfully earned from private dances. It’s crucial to stay alert and aware while working, so avoid nudity if you're unsure about your ability to perform safely.

Keep in Mind That Leaving the Club at Night Can Be Dangerous. Walking alone at night carries risks at any time, but leaving a nightclub where alcohol is consumed only heightens these dangers. You might be attacked, assaulted, or robbed, especially if people nearby think you’re carrying cash. If possible, always ask a bouncer or coworker to accompany you to your car for your safety.

• When speaking to new customers, be cautious about sharing personal information. This includes where you live, your other jobs, or even your school if you are a student. Don't reveal if you have children or a partner. Keep your conversations brief and impersonal.