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For queer individuals, living with another member of the LGBTQ+ community can provide a sense of comfort, validation, and genuine happiness. Fortunately, there are countless LGBT-friendly roommate and apartment listings available at any moment—the key is knowing where to search. We’ve gathered a variety of websites and resources to help you begin your journey, enabling you to live authentically in a supportive space.
Steps
Facebook Groups
Numerous Facebook groups exist to connect queer individuals seeking roommates. Access Facebook and choose the “Groups” option from the left-hand menu. Next, enter a search term such as “LGBT Roommates” or “Queer Roommates” along with the name of a nearby city (or your desired location). Join the group by clicking or tapping the “Join group” button. Here are some well-known FB groups to explore:
- Queer Housing New York City
- LGBTQ+ Roommate/Housing Exchange (Chicago)
- Queer Housing In Los Angeles County
- Las Vegas LGBTQ Roommates
- Seattle Trans and Queer Housing Network
- Private Facebook groups require a join request. Once approved by the group’s admin, you’ll gain access to posts and comments.
Craigslist
Use the term “LGBT” in Craigslist’s “Housing” section to find local options. Every regional Craigslist site features a housing section—by using specific search terms, you can filter results to show only LGBT-friendly roommates and listings. On the housing page, enter keywords like “queer,” “gay,” “trans,” and “LGBT.”
Roommates.com
Roommates.com offers a specialized search tool for locating LGBT roommates. Visit https://www.roommates.com/types/lgbtq-friendly-roommates-looking-to-live-with-someone and enter your city name. Ensure the “I need a room” option is selected from the drop-down menu, then click or tap “Let’s Go” to view results in your area.
- Roommates.com verifies all users, ensuring you’re browsing genuine and reliable listings.
- If you’re offering a room for rent and seeking a queer tenant, choose “I have a room” from the drop-down menu instead.
Sublet.com
Sublet’s specialized search page simplifies the process of locating queer-friendly housing. Go to https://www.sublet.com/apartments-for-rent/gay_roommate and enter your location in the search bar. Once the listings appear, utilize the site’s features to refine your results by location or price.
Roomies.com
Roomies.com offers a dedicated section for LGBT-friendly roommate listings. Access https://www.roomies.com/profiles/lgbt-friendly on your device and browse through the profiles. Unlike other platforms, Roomies.com doesn’t allow sorting or filtering by location, so it may take some time to find a nearby match.
- If you’re seeking a room from an LGBT-friendly landlord, visit: https://www.roomies.com/rooms/lgbt-friendly.
SpareRoom.com
SpareRoom allows you to tailor your search for LGBT-friendly individuals. While SpareRoom doesn’t have a dedicated page for queer roommates, it enables you to filter results by selecting “LGBT Household.” Simply visit https://www.spareroom.com/, enter your desired location, check the “LGBT Household” box, and explore the results.
PrideRoommates.com
Prideroommates.com proudly calls itself the “gay roommate finder.” Create a free profile by entering your country, state/region, and city. Once your profile is set up, you can browse listings and reach out to potential roommates who match your preferences.
- Pride Roommates serves users in the US, UK, Italy, France, Spain, and Germany.
- The platform is designed for queer individuals seeking LGBTQ+ roommates or those with a room to rent.
RainbowRoommates.com
Rainbow Roommates assists queer individuals in finding or listing rooms. Licensed by the New York State Department, Rainbow Roommates connects queer roommates across NYC. Visit https://www.rainbowroommates.nyc/renter.php to complete an application.
- Rainbow Roommates charges a subscription fee based on the duration of access to listings. A 15-day account costs $30, a 30-day account costs $50, and a 90-day account costs $93.
- The platform states that most users find a roommate within 2 weeks.
LGBTQ+ Center
Post an advertisement on their bulletin board to find a roommate. Speak with a staff member at the center to learn about their advertising options. Depending on the center, you may be able to post a flyer or ad announcing that you’re seeking a roommate.
- Visit https://www.lgbtcenters.org/LGBTCenters to locate the nearest LGBTQ+ center.
- You can also ask the staff for recommendations on finding a queer roommate. They may direct you to useful resources.
Word of Mouth
Your friends might help you connect with a queer roommate. Let your queer and LGBT-friendly friends know you’re searching for a roommate. They can share the news within their networks, increasing your chances of finding a compatible queer roommate.
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Always meet and evaluate a potential roommate before making any commitments.
