How to Make a High School Boy Like You

Are you crushing on that handsome guy? Well, you’re in luck! In this article, Mytour will show you how to get a high school boy to like you. While you can’t make someone like you, you can certainly show that you’re worth noticing.

If you want that special guy to notice you, you’ll need to stand out in front of him. It’s tough, but totally worth the effort. Look your best, always smile, be friendly, and stay true to yourself – before long, he’ll wish he could get to know you.

• Dress to Impress. If you’re stylish, you could wear a floral dress on a hot day or a black sweater when it’s chilly. Wear clothes that highlight your beauty. Ask friends or family for advice on outfits that suit you. You want to dress in a way that grabs his attention whenever you meet. Don’t wear anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Dress the way you like, but make sure you look good in whatever you wear. If your school has a uniform, wear the one that flatters you.
• Maintain Good Hygiene. Shower at least once a day. For example, if you’ve been playing sports and sweating after school, make sure to shower afterward to get rid of the sweat. Wash your face in the morning and evening to prevent acne from ruining your beautiful skin. And don’t forget to brush your teeth! You only have one set of adult teeth, so take care of them. Bad breath can push him away, along with others.
• Smile. Smile when you talk to him and when he’s nearby. A smile lets him know you’re happy to be around him. Glance at him during class, and if you catch each other’s eye, smile and keep looking as long as you can without blinking. Show him that you’re thinking about him, then casually turn away as if nothing happened. Don’t overdo this – no more than once a day.

Avoid heavy makeup. It's really unnecessary, as many people prefer a natural look. Therefore, you should opt for a subtle makeup style. If you feel the need to wear makeup, keep it minimal and refined. Going overboard might make him lose interest in you.

• Limit makeup to a minimum. The purpose of makeup is not to hide your features but to highlight them. You should also consider keeping your face natural. Some guys may prefer to see your bare face! Overdoing makeup can give off the wrong impression, turning you into someone provocative, not alluring! If you really want to wear makeup, a little lip balm, foundation, and even mascara, if you like, should be enough. Keep your makeup simple because a heavily made-up face will only turn people off.
• Play with your hairstyle. Be yourself and never decide on a hairstyle just to attract a guy. Consider a fringe cut, straightening, or curling your hair if you think it suits you. Alternatively, you can occasionally try a different hairstyle or makeup.

Start a conversation with him. Be natural, but be yourself. If you struggle with this, pretend like you don’t care about him and that he's just someone you met randomly. This will help remove any tension and avoid awkward moments during the conversation. You can practice with other guys, like his friends. Ask for his phone number so you can text him, as this might be much easier.

• Talk about other friends in the class, something weird that just happened to you, or an event both of you are attending. If you run out of things to say, ask him plenty of questions to keep the conversation going. But don’t ask too many, as that might annoy him.
• Maintain eye contact during the conversation. Eyes are the windows to the soul, and they are among the most attractive parts of your body. Make sure he can see your eyes! By focusing on him, he’ll know that you’re giving him your full attention. However, don’t stare continuously at him, as that may seem weird. Look into his eyes while he’s talking because looking at the floor signals a lack of confidence.
• Smile when he jokes. This will make him feel respected. That said, don’t force a smile, as it would come off as fake. If the joke is about you, playfully tease him back. It's all in good fun.

Tease him. Don’t mock him, but playful teasing is fine. Joke around with him, and if you want to be more flirty, challenge him to an arm-wrestling match. This gives you the chance to hold his hand without feeling awkward.

Break the touch barrier, but always respect his personal space. Some people don’t like being touched by others. Physical contact with someone you like is important as it signals your desire to be close to them. However, you need to be subtle: don’t cling to him or invade his personal space. Hug him when you greet him.

• Gently touch his arm or nudge your knee against his. Brush your shoulder against his when you need him to explain a homework problem you’ve both been assigned. School assignments are a great way to create a bond, so use that as an excuse.
• If he tells you a funny story or teases you (in a flirtatious way), lightly tap his shoulder. Your body language shows him that you enjoy his attention.
• If you're brave enough, let your hand wander from his arm to his shoulder, or playfully poke his foot under the table. You can also sit at his desk before class starts. You could even blow him a kiss in a playful way.
• Tickling is another great flirting technique. Many guys dislike being tickled, so it might be best for you to pretend to be the one tickled. Mention that you're ticklish and point out areas where you're sensitive. It's best to start with your feet and slowly move up to your ribs or sides.
• Play with his hair. Don’t overdo it, though, or it may look odd, and he might avoid you.

Get closer to his friends. Boys at this stage are easily influenced by their friends, so if you can bond with his circle, he will see you as someone who's easygoing. Being part of a shared friend group can lead to more frequent hangouts without the awkwardness. Avoid becoming just 'one of the guys,' as boys don’t typically date their close friends.

• If you're uncomfortable with his friends, that’s totally fine. Just don’t try to avoid or leave when they show up.
• Use your siblings. If your brother or sister is close to his age, you’ll naturally have something to talk about. If his younger sibling is also friends with yours, even better—suggest bringing both along for a movie or to the amusement park.

Get to know him better. Talk with him about his hobbies, family, music tastes, and more. See if there are any common interests between you two.

• Remember to be a good listener! Referencing things he mentions during the conversation shows you’re paying attention (but don’t overdo it or you might come off as creepy).
• Try to find shared interests. Do you both play guitar or like the same band? If so, suggest playing together! Are you both into sports? If so, invite him to join you sometime.

Support him. You might need some practice to figure out what works for both of you, but give it a try. Look at the things he enjoys doing and remember to show your support.

• Does he play sports? Attend his games to cheer him on. If you can't make it, ask when the next match is and wish him luck. Pay attention to whether he looks for you in the crowd.
• Encourage him when he’s feeling down: Everyone goes through rough patches, and you can be there to support him. Showing your care will make him care more about you.
• Don’t keep talking about other guys being “handsome” or mention others too often. He might think you like them, not him. If you're interested in more than one guy, decide who you want to pursue and focus on him. You can still be friends with many people without making any one of them feel special, as you simply view them as friends. If the guy you like finds out you like two people at once, he might no longer feel unique in your eyes.

Study together. If you're really good at a subject and he’s struggling with it, offer to help him out. If the situation is reversed, ask him to assist you. This can be a great way to spend one-on-one time and strengthen your bond.

• You might already know this tip, but avoid doing too much homework during study sessions. You might get distracted, but that's okay! Try to prepare for tests one or two days ahead of time if possible.

Here are some ways to tell if the guy likes you. Below are a few tricks to help you figure it out without asking him directly.

• Ask him to carry your backpack to class. Tell him it's really heavy and since he looks strong, he should be able to handle it easily. If he agrees, it means he likes you enough to do you a favor and enjoys being complimented on his strength.
• If you want to say something to another friend while he's around, ask him to cover his ears or step back a bit. This will make him even more curious about what’s going on, and you’ll know he’s paying attention.

Make sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend. Double-check to ensure no one in your friend group is interested in him. You don’t want to complicate things with your friends, as it could result in losing a friend or making him feel uncomfortable.

• If one of them likes him, discuss who will “get” him. If you can’t reach a fair agreement (like who liked him first, who he chooses, etc.), both of you should back off.
• If you decide to let your friend pursue him and they’re happy together, don’t hold it against her. Keep the friendship strong. Be happy for them and know there are plenty of other guys out there for you in the future.

Don’t give up! If you don’t win him over, don’t feel discouraged. Deep down, believe in yourself and love yourself inside and out.

• Sometimes, after the guy realizes you like him in that way, he might start seeing you in a different light. Even if he says no, subconsciously, he might begin thinking about the qualities he likes in you or why you could make a great girlfriend.
• Shy guys don’t always have the courage to express their true feelings or don’t know how to do so. If you like a guy who’s introverted and seems indifferent to you, it could be because he’s nervous around you and unsure of how to act. If he’s shy, keep working to make him feel at ease around you. Clearly, you should date him in places where he feels most comfortable.

Balancing life. Life is certainly not easy for a high school student, but you're starting to learn how to juggle work and emotional matters. Don't focus solely on your studies to the point where you don't have time to hang out with him. Remember, there’s more to life than school, and before you know it, you'll forget why you were even so fascinated by that guy!

• If he feels like he can’t keep up with you, maybe he’s too anxious and thinks you’re not in his league. If you're an active person, invite him to join you and some friends. This will give him a chance to hang out with you outside of school and in the everyday world. Don’t let him feel out of place. If you invite him, make sure he feels comfortable.
• Similarly, don’t neglect your studies too much or you'll end up losing. Fill your life with fun activities and friendships, whether or not he likes you. If he likes you, life will be even better. If he doesn’t, life will still be enjoyable and meaningful without him!

Be yourself. This means feeling comfortable in your own skin, doing what you love, and speaking your mind. People who don't love and respect you for who you are aren't worth chasing.

• Don’t try to become someone else. He’ll like you for what you already have. You might even find you have some things in common.

If you think he likes you, try pursuing him a little. Let him know you're interested, but don't come off as desperate. If you're unsure of his feelings, be cautious with these steps; the outcome might not be what you expect!

• Ask him, "Hey, how about we hang out sometime?" If he agrees, you've done your part. Smile, say you have to go, and walk away without looking back. Now the ball’s in his court.
• Suggest going to a movie or attending a school sports game. Asking him to go to the movies is a more serious date proposal, but you could also invite him to watch a school game with friends. Going to a game doesn’t necessarily imply a date. It could just be two people hanging out.
• If you're in the U.S., you could invite him to the Sadie Hawkins dance, if one is held in your area. Sadie Hawkins is a special occasion where girls ask guys to dance. Be bold and invite him, regardless of whether he wants to be your boyfriend. If he agrees, it’s a clear sign he likes you.

Write a love letter. If nothing else has worked, try writing him a love letter. Craft a playful, flirty note from an anonymous sender and leave it in his desk. Add a secret word like “rose” at the end of each message, hinting at your identity. After the first week, start dropping hints that it’s you by mentioning things he likes and then talking to him about them. Once he realizes you share similar interests, he’ll likely give you a chance.

• Don’t write anything that would embarrass you if someone else reads it by accident. The letter might end up in the wrong hands. If someone finds it, you both could become the subject of teasing!

• If you know he’s about to ask you out, stay calm. He might be just as nervous as you are.
• Like talking about yourself, it’s a good idea to ask him about his interests to find common ground.
• Ask for his phone number so you can text him.
• If he's dealing with a problem, offer your help. It shows you’re intelligent and kind-hearted.
• Make eye contact to show you're interested in him. Get a mutual friend to introduce you to him.
• Never lie or spread rumors about him or you.
• Take it slow, and don’t force anything.
• Hang out with some of his friends to build rapport with them.
• If you think he likes you but you’re not sure, ask your friends for advice. Getting another perspective can’t hurt.
• When teasing him, don’t go too far, as he might think you dislike him.
• Try to get his phone number, and if he doesn’t have one, ask for his social media handle, like Instagram or Snapchat.

• Don’t invite any guy out just because it seems "in" or "everyone’s doing it"; do it because you genuinely like him.
• Don’t change yourself for anyone, and never let a guy belittle you. If you didn’t need him before, you don’t need him now. If he’s the type to cause drama, don’t mimic his behavior to impress him.
• Don’t blindly follow advice from teen magazines, as they sometimes offer generic and unnecessary advice. If a suggestion doesn’t feel right for you, it probably isn’t.
• If things don’t go as planned, remember there are plenty of other options out there. Don’t let him decide if you're a good girlfriend or not.
• Don’t cling to him too much, or he’ll think you’re weird. Remember, there are many other great guys out there for you! Good luck!
• Don’t try to make him jealous by flirting with others. It will probably show him that you’re not into him, and he may not like you either after seeing you flirt with someone else.
• Don’t worry if he doesn’t like you. Even supermodels or the smartest state secretaries get heartbroken at some point. He’s not the ultimate judge of your character.
• If you see him hugging another girl, don’t get jealous—it will only make you sad. If he asks if you're okay, revealing your jealousy will only make things worse.
• Don’t act like you two share everything, as it might make him lose interest.