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Men born under the sign of Aries are renowned for their adventurous and conquering nature. While they may quickly lose interest, you can captivate an Aries man and keep him coming back for more without engaging in mind games. Leverage your unique qualities that set you apart from others to keep him intrigued. Below are some tips to make this free-spirited zodiac sign miss you dearly.
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Be strong and independent.
An Aries man is often drawn to someone who appears self-sufficient. When getting to know an Aries man you’re interested in, make plans with friends and engage in exciting activities that don’t involve him. Outside of your time together, fill your schedule with other pursuits unrelated to him. This will make the moments you share even more special, and he’ll be curious about all the exciting things you do when he’s not around.
- This also gives him space. Aries men are always busy with packed schedules, from classes to plans with friends, and they appreciate being with someone who has a similar lifestyle.
Pursue your dreams.
An Aries man is often drawn to strong willpower and determination. Focus on your future goals, such as returning to school, participating in a marathon, or writing a novel. The more challenging the goal, the better. When spending time with your Aries man, share your aspirations and the dreams you’re striving to achieve. He’ll be amazed by your ambition and will keep thinking about the incredible things you’ll accomplish one day.
- If he asks what you’ve been up to, take the opportunity to update him on your progress, like, “I’ve been busy applying to graduate school. I’m determined to earn my master’s degree in literature!”
Support his goals.
An Aries man wants someone who values his ambitions. Ask about his future plans and show your support as he works toward each goal. As you get to know each other, follow his journey and offer encouraging words, assuring him that success is inevitable. He’ll remember your encouragement when you’re apart.
- Perhaps he’s preparing for a big presentation. As the date approaches, ask if you can attend as part of the audience.
- Maybe he’s a singer in a band. You could inquire about the progress of his demo recording and whether he plans to release an album soon.
Praise his talents.
Praise the skills and abilities of your Aries man. Aries men take great pride in their achievements and desire a partner who is equally proud of them. When talking or texting with him, let him know how much he impresses you.
- You could send him messages like, “I just read your article! I love how you use sensory details,” or “Your arguments today were brilliant! They gave me a whole new perspective on philosophy!”
Engage in debates.
A little conflict can keep an Aries man intrigued. When conversing with an Aries man, don’t shy away from topics like politics, philosophy, or religion. Share fresh perspectives on these subjects and ask for his opinions. Even if you agree, present opposing viewpoints to spark a debate. Respect and listen to his thoughts, but don’t hesitate to challenge them. He’ll be drawn to your confidence and stance.
- Send him links to articles you’ve read with a note like, “I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. I have so many more!”
- While Aries men share many traits, everyone is unique. If he doesn’t respond well to debates or avoids personal topics like religion, respect his boundaries and choose other subjects to discuss.
Plan adventurous and spontaneous dates.
An Aries man can get bored quickly. To make him cherish the time spent with you, keep your dates exciting. Instead of sticking to mundane activities like dinner and a movie, brainstorm thrilling and unique date ideas, such as a challenging hiking trip or exploring a new city. He’ll appreciate your willingness to break away from predictable routines, and your boldness will make him eager to plan more dates with you. Try these suggestions:
- Visit a drive-in movie theater
- Spend a day skateboarding, rollerblading, or biking
- Go swimming and have a picnic by the nearest river
Be true to yourself.
Aries men are known for their straightforward nature. They value this trait in others as well. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress an Aries man. It won’t work and might even backfire, as he seeks a partner who is as honest as he is. Stay authentic, even if you occasionally disagree with him. Your genuine nature will make you stand out, and he’ll want to explore more about your unique personality and ideas.
- For example, if he texts you saying he dislikes a certain band, and you like them, just admit it. Aries men respect differing opinions.
- Respond humorously, like, “I’m not a huge fan either. I’ve only seen them live five times and bought all their albums.”
