How to Make Every Girl 'Go Crazy' for You

Have you ever had a crush on a girl, but thought she was just out of your league? Unfortunately, this happens quite often. The good news is, it doesn’t have to be that way! If you’re ready to win her heart, this guide will show you how, no matter who you are or what you look like! To make every girl go crazy for you, follow these steps.

Learn how to behave around women. Before you try to charm any girl, it’s best to understand how to act around women in general. In fact, the more girls that like you, the higher the chances that the one you like will notice you too.

• There are many myths about things girls don't like: being the "nice guy", acting too sensitive, etc. Trusting these will only hurt your chances.
• Treat a girlfriend (different from a girlfriend in a relationship) the same way you would treat any of your guy friends: be friendly, chat about common interests, make her laugh, and listen. Add a touch of politeness and consideration, and you’re on your way to becoming the charming, genuine guy she’s been hoping for.

Be endearing. But don’t become a doormat. Being kind and sensitive is wonderful – absolutely fantastic. But don’t push yourself so far that you end up becoming like her brother. That’s the death of any hope you might have, so steer the conversation to a place where brothers never go.

• For instance, a simple compliment like "You look great, Tram" might be true, and she’ll appreciate it, but come on – that’s something her brother could say! Instead, try something like "Wow, Tram, you look so stunning today. Those jeans fit your figure perfectly!" Do you think her brother would ever say that? Hopefully not. Don’t become her brother and don’t give her any reason to think of you that way.

Appreciate her for the whole person she is. People tend to give what they get and receive what they give. If she believes you appreciate her for her intelligence, she will also value your intelligence – but not your body.

• Value her entire self – her mind, her spirit, and her body. Let her know you find her beautiful, or alluring, or both.

Pay attention to the girls who aren’t used to this. Many kind, incredibly beautiful girls get overlooked because they are quiet, shy, or not part of the fashionable social crowd.

• The next time you sit next to a girl like this in class, try striking up a conversation with her. The next time you see a girl standing alone at a party or club, ask her to dance. Even if there’s no romantic connection between you, she won’t forget it – and you’ll never be seen the same way again.
• Learning how to interact with women on a social level without expecting anything more than their company is a valuable lesson. The more comfortable you are with women in general, the easier it will be when you meet the one you truly like.

Change your profile picture. If your profile picture shows you flashing your best smile for the camera, delete it immediately; research shows that while guys are attracted to photos of smiling girls, women are less attracted to pictures of men smiling. Instead, they prefer pictures where men appear proud or even slightly disinterested.

• Many studies have also shown that the left side of the face tends to be perceived as the most attractive. You should snap a photo with a serious expression, turning your face to the right, eyes downward in a contemplative look like Edward Cullen, or with a smug, upward gaze like Jaco Black – and watch the likes and favorites roll in.

Don’t try too hard. If your photo looks gloomy or like you're seeking attention, you'll just end up being ridiculed. You can take as many photos as you need, but choose the one where you look natural and truly yourself. If possible, ask a female friend to take the picture. She knows what women want to see and will capture the perfect shot.

Be yourself. You need to send the message that you’re comfortable in any situation, even if inside you’re secretly wanting to run away. This is called confidence.

• If you approach women like a desperate beggar, terrified of rejection, their instincts will pick up on this, and they’ll keep confirming that you really are that kind of person.
• Don’t act like you’re too “cool” to care. Just be enthusiastic and calm, and if things don’t go smoothly, laugh it off and move forward without letting it affect you.

Learn how to flirt. Flirting takes practice, confidence, and the ability to forget about your own nerves; after all, how can you pick up on someone else’s cues if you’re too busy wiping sweat off your palms or staring at the floor? You should get ready by checking out other articles from our series. To level up your game, take a look at the following:

• How to Have a Great Conversation
• How to Have a Smart Conversation
• How to Read Body Language
• How to Touch a Girl— especially useful if you’re desperately trying to break the touch barrier.

Ask her out. If you've found someone you truly like, don't hesitate to take the first step. Most girls appreciate it when you ask them out (even if they say no). Above all, you’ll feel proud of yourself for being brave (again, even if they don’t agree). You can read other articles in our series to give yourself an edge.

• There are many stories about beautiful girls who are never asked out because people assume she’s too busy or too stunning to be available, and they never ask.
• Be persistent. If the girl you like turns you down the first time, try again. This doesn’t mean you need to stalk her or act like a creep; it means smiling, saying “Okay – I’ll ask again next week,” and moving on with your own life for a while. If you talk to her regularly throughout the week, don’t stop. Just avoid pressuring her with date invitations.
• Give her time to think about your coolness and confidence, and next time you ask, you might be surprised by how differently she responds.

Live according to the expectations you've set. You've finally won the heart of the girl you’ve been dreaming about. Now, what comes next?

• If you're in the kissing phase, make sure you're ready—fresh breath, clean, etc.
• If you're in a relationship, remember that you already know how to be a good boyfriend.
• If things are getting more serious, it's time to learn how to build and maintain a healthy relationship.
• Making a girl go “crazy” for you only to disappoint her when things are just getting interesting is more than enough to drive her insane!