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Making your boyfriend "go crazy" is a fun and exciting way to add some energy and heat to your relationship. You need to be daring, wild, and "fiery," but also keep the mood light and thrilling to make him go crazy with desire. If you're ready to make your guy feel even more captivated than with just kisses, follow these steps.
Steps
Be Bold with Him
Surprise him under the shower. If you want to create a bold impression, surprise your boyfriend while he's in the shower. A playful, spontaneous, and unexpected move can be just the thing. Before he steps into the bathroom, give him a kiss, let him know how irresistible he is, and whisper some teasing words to spark his desire. Say something like "I'm not wearing anything, let's play some games in here," and repeat it when you're in a provocative outfit.
- After he steps into the bathroom, wait a couple of minutes and then knock on the door—you don't want to scare him, right?
- Tell him you're undressing because you need a shower too—this trick is best when neither of you is already dirty.
- Enter the bathroom and immediately start kissing him on the lips, then his neck, while also running your hands all over his body and enjoying his excitement.
Give him orders. Another way to be bold is by occasionally taking control and giving your boyfriend orders. One evening, take full command—lead him upstairs to your bedroom and push him onto the bed. Tell him exactly what you want him to do and don’t allow him to refuse, laugh, or hesitate. Be assertive with your desires, and watch how excited he gets by your boldness.
- Lead him to the bedroom, make him lie down, and when you want something, give the command.
- Play around. Pin him down and don’t let go, even if he begs—unless, of course, he really begs.
Send steamy texts. You may think that sending "hot" texts is silly, but in reality, it’s a way to remind your man how sexy you can be, even when you're not physically in front of him. It’s a great way to keep the excitement alive and make him crave you even more. If you’re apart for a night, a few days, or even a month, sending flirtatious messages will leave him wanting more.
- Choose a private moment when both of you are free, usually at night.
- Send him a message a few hours before you meet. Simple phrases like "I want you" or "I can't stop thinking about last night" will make him always remember you.
- Ask him what he's wearing or let him know what you're wearing.
- Tell him, "It’s so hot in here, isn't it?" to hint at what you’re shedding.
Talk dirty to him. Dirty talk can be a way to tease and excite him, making him crave you even more. While being affectionate, add in a few suggestive words that will surely turn him on. Don’t overthink what to say—just let him know how much you desire his body and tell him to do anything he wants with you. Here are some suggestions for you:
- "I love the feeling of your kisses on my neck."
- "I’ve been thinking about your arms around me all day."
- "Take your shirt off, you look so hot."
- "I want you to strip me bare."
Striptease dance. You don’t have to be a professional dancer to pull this off. Relax, dim the lights, place him on the bed, and walk into the room with confidence. Wear some seductive lingerie with high heels, or a long shirt with buttons, or even a sexy dress. Use a chair for support as you let him admire your body while you slowly strip off your clothes.
- As you remove each piece, toss it at him.
- Place one leg on the chair so he can get a full view.
- Turn your back to him. Sway your hips and bend over so he can see your body from behind.
- Have fun. Flash a playful smile so your face doesn't appear too serious.
Grind on his lap. Grinding on his lap is one of the boldest ways to make him "hot" with desire. Have him sit in a chair, play a seductive tune, then sit on his lap and move around the chair, even bending over so he can get an eye full of your body’s more private areas.
- Tease him with light kisses, but to really drive him wild, offer them as a reward.
- Don’t let him touch you. You’ll succeed if you assert that you’re the one in control here from the start.
Attractive Charm: Looking alluring doesn't mean you have to dress provocatively all the time or constantly change your style just to capture his attention. A little change in your outfit, a subtle makeup touch, and emphasizing your clothing choices can draw his focus on you more effectively.
- No need for heavy makeup; just apply some dark eyeshadow, mascara, and a little lip gloss with a hint of fragrance to make your lips stand out.
- You can still look appealing without being overly exposed. Choose clothes that highlight your figure and showcase your best features.
- For a seductive look, dress in a way that's subtly revealing when you're alone together. This surprise element will surely excite him.
- Add some enticing lingerie to your collection—leather straps, lace bras, or seductive panties that will drive him wild.
Tease Him: A seductive woman doesn't always fulfill every request her man makes. Instead, give him a brief kiss, pulling away after a minute or two to leave him craving more. When you're about to leave, tease him by touching his thigh or gently caressing his neck. If you're in the bedroom, tease him with kisses and caresses before you remove your clothes.
- You can also tease him by saying just what he wants to hear. Tell him you know he's desperate for you, but you're not sure if you're ready yet—this will drive him crazy.
- Compliment his body so he knows how attractive he is to you. Then, look away or shift your gaze between you and him.
- Another way to tease him is by touching yourself. Say things like, 'This top is a bit tight,' or 'This bra makes my chest look fuller,' leaving him wanting more.
- If you're wearing leather straps, pull them down a little for him to sneak a peek. If you're in lace lingerie, lean forward so he can admire your cleavage through the delicate fabric.
Be Seductive in Public: You don't have to save all the teasing for private moments. Keep your distance in crowded places, but occasionally engage him with a playful touch, a seductive smile, or mention something that will make him eager to retreat to a private space with you.
- Don't be afraid to kiss him in public. Hold the kiss for a moment, then pull away with a smile.
- You don't have to get physical in public, but you can rest your hand on his thigh, gently pinch his neck, or occasionally run your hand across his shoulder.
- Stand as close as possible. When you're together watching a movie or reading a menu, remind him of the excitement that comes with being near you.
Kiss His Neck: A neck kiss is both stimulating and enticing, pushing him into a state of desire. While traditional kissing works, a kiss on the neck will make him yearn for more. Kiss one side of his neck or even nibble on his ear. For an added tease, lick his neck and then blow on it.
- If you're feeling playful, gently nibble his neck—this action is bound to leave any man breathless. Just don't overdo it.
- Shift your kisses from his lips to his neck for a fresh and exciting sensation.
Enhance Your Look: Try to attract his attention without overdoing it. You don't have to transform your style completely, but making slight adjustments, such as a new outfit or a playful touch, can help him see you in a different light.
- Gently play with your hair, or wear something unexpected to spice up your usual look.
- Sometimes, just giving him an intimate glance or a subtle touch on his arm can leave a lasting impression.
Seductive Massage: There's nothing more enticing than surprising him with a sensual massage. Wait for him to sit and relax, then from behind, gently caress his firm shoulders, kneading each muscle until he moans in satisfaction. Let your mischievous fingers circle on his temples, then trace down his back.
- The massage will feel even better in private, with soft lighting, the TV off, and just the two of you enjoying each other’s company.
- Turn the massage into a sensual experience. Guide your hands lower while kissing his neck.
- If you want to tease him, reverse roles and tell him, 'Now it's your turn,' and let him enjoy touching you.
Savoring 'Stimulating' Foods: Another fun way to ignite desire is by sharing 'stimulating' foods. Some foods have the power to heighten romance and trigger desire. Here are a few you should try:
- Take turns feeding each other grapes.
- Feed each other strawberries dipped in cream or chocolate.
- Share a piece of chocolate while engaging in some naughty conversation.
- Red wine turns up the heat. If you have to choose between beer and red wine, always go for the wine.
- Enjoy a dessert with caramel and chocolate to inspire more passion.
Adventurous Thrills: Sometimes, breaking away from the usual routine can bring excitement and passion back into the relationship. Surprise your partner with a thrilling adventure, even if it’s simply trying something new together. The element of the unknown can be exhilarating for both of you.
Intimacy in Unfamiliar Places: One quality that drives men crazy is the thrill of adventure, especially when it comes to intimacy in new locations. Doing the same thing on the bed or sofa can get old, so occasionally mix it up to keep the excitement alive. Here are a few places to try:
- Break in a new room in your house or apartment and invite him to make love there.
- Close the windows of your car to create a private space, then enjoy some kisses together.
- Return to your old school, reminisce, and kiss like actors in a romantic movie.
- Embark on a romantic getaway and explore affectionate moments in a fresh atmosphere.
- Leave a party early, escape to the balcony, and steal a few kisses.
Explore New Positions: You can still have adventurous moments with your partner within the safety of your own home. If you usually stick to traditional ways of intimacy, consider shaking things up. For example, if you often take the lead, switch things around occasionally. Playfully try different positions before returning to your usual favorites.
- Exploring new positions is a great way to refresh things—just make sure you're comfortable with any changes you make.
Try New Activities Together: You can't keep him wanting you if you always stick to the same old routine. Suggest doing something both of you have never done before.
- Go hiking together. Immerse yourselves in nature, enjoy the romance, and relish each other's company.
- Go camping. There's nothing more romantic than two lovers together under a starry sky.
- Play around in the pool. Fool around, lean into each other, and let him admire your body.
- Practice yoga together. Sweat it out on the mat and appreciate each other's bodies.
Explore a New Land: Another exhilarating way to ignite passion is by discovering new places together. Your relationship will reach new levels of intimacy and desire when you explore unfamiliar territories together. Pack your bags for the beach or hold hands while walking through a path that no one else has discovered.
- If possible, take a trip to heat things up. Visiting a completely new place will make him fall even more in love with you, and he will get to admire you in a whole new light, far different from the familiar sunlight at home.
Role-Playing: If you're feeling daring, try some role-playing to tease him and make him appreciate you even more. You can set up scenarios where you pretend to be late for a party and argue, or let your boyfriend secretly be a mysterious serial killer knocking on your door.
- If you want to drive him crazy, take him to an adult toy store. Find a few items that will make him lose his mind. Don’t be shy or embarrassed about visiting such a place.
Dancing: Take a dance class together, visit a bar, or hit the club to lose yourselves in the music. Experience the thrill of being close to him, whispering in his ear, and allowing his hands to explore every inch of your body. Dance together every week or month, as dancing is a fun way to lead directly to the bedroom.
- Look deep into his eyes while dancing. Let him know just how much you desire him.
- If you both take dance lessons together, you’ll find yourselves exhilarated and deeply connected while enjoying each other.
Advice
- Be playful, confident, and charming all at once.
- Gaze deeply into his eyes when you're about to kiss him.
- Be bold, but always make sure you're comfortable.
- Be romantic!
- If he doesn't want to dance, don't push him.
- Remember, if you're unsure how to dance or kiss, you can always visit our website for tips.
- Don't rush things. Wait a few months to let your relationship stabilize, and then enjoy the teasing moments. The best thing for both of you is to wait and build trust together.
