How to Make Your Boyfriend Crazy About You

Whether you're newly dating or have been a couple for years, every girl desires to have her boyfriend's full attention and adoration. As relationships develop and change, the intense passion you once shared may fade or manifest in different ways. He likely likes you or even loves you, but there are always ways to make him fall even more in love. If you want him to feel passionate about you, and you want to heighten the romance, then become a girlfriend who drives him wild.

Compliment Him. Giving your boyfriend compliments is a powerful way to make him feel appreciated and loved. Through compliments, you show him that you accept him as he is and appreciate what he says and does. Praise his accomplishments, but also compliment him for small things he does. For instance:

• "Wow, you're such a great kisser."
• "You look so handsome and masculine while mowing the lawn."
• "You played that game so well today; I had so much fun watching you."

Gaze at Him Intensely. Eye contact is a fantastic way to communicate without words that you accept someone. When we're attracted to someone, we often make eye contact with them. Let your guy know that you love and accept him by gazing into his eyes. If he feels the same, he will return your gaze with passion.

Kiss with Passion. Kissing is one of the ways we show affection for our partner, so being a good kisser is really important. A kiss can increase attraction and strengthen his emotional connection to you. To become a skilled kisser, keep these tips in mind:

• Start the kiss without opening your mouth, and if you feel comfortable, deepen the kiss.
• Make sure your mouth is fresh and your breath is pleasant before kissing.
• Focus solely on him when you kiss. Distractions can kill the mood.
• Try gently stroking the back of his head, neck, or caressing his arm while kissing. These physical touches will enhance the kiss and make it even sweeter.

Bring Surprises. The element of surprise can spark or reignite his passion more effectively than anything else. It breaks up your routine and lets him know that you're crazy about him, which can inspire him to love you even more. Be playful and loving, and he will always enjoy being around you. Here are a few ideas to surprise him:

• If your car breaks down in the rain, don't sit in the car waiting for him to fix it. Get out and dance together on the sidewalk.
• If you usually watch his favorite sports team at home, surprise him with tickets to the game or take him to a restaurant with a big-screen TV to watch it together.
• Transform into a seductive woman and maintain that allure throughout your date.

Encourage Him. An important way to spark your partner's desire is to make him feel good about himself. Encourage him to strive for his goals just like you would a close friend. Make sure he knows that you are always by his side supporting him.

• For example, if he's worried about a job interview, you could encourage him by saying, "You're great! They wouldn't have called you in for the interview if they didn't think you were the perfect candidate for the job!"

Show your confidence. Confidence is a captivating quality that draws people in. So, be the most confident version of yourself when you're around your significant other. You can convey your self-assurance by sharing your achievements and talking about your strengths.

• However, keep in mind that for some, confidence can feel overwhelming. If your partner lacks confidence, your own display of confidence may not increase his attraction towards you.

Share more about yourself. Opening up about yourself will make your partner feel more connected to you. Talk about your interests, your goals, and your family. But remember, don’t reveal too much too soon, especially if you’ve just started dating. Keeping some aspects of your life, your goals, and emotions private adds an element of mystery, which can make him more intrigued to learn about you.

Notice what attracts him. There are certain things that specifically appeal to your partner, so pay attention when he tells you that you’re attractive. Perhaps he likes your lingerie, or maybe he thinks you look the most seductive after a workout. Here are some suggestions:

• Eye makeup. Studies have shown that eye makeup makes women more appealing to men. Try eyeliner, eyeshadow, or mascara when you're with him.
• Use scent-free or lightly scented body lotion. Your partner needs to experience the natural fragrance of your skin. Try using unscented deodorant or body wash so that your natural scent is more noticeable to him.
• Wear red occasionally. Research suggests that red is more attractive to men than other colors. Try wearing a red dress or sweater on a date and see how he reacts.

Make your time together fun and enjoyable. Beyond being attractive and desirable, another great way to make your partner fall for you is to show that you are fun and playful. If you want him to eagerly look forward to your dates, one smart tactic is to let him know you're excited to spend fun time together. Don’t feel pressured to be someone you're not, but understand that there are many ways to have a great time together. Here are some ideas:

• Go on a hike together and challenge him to a race to see who finishes first. Laughing while competing will create more excitement and make him appreciate you more.
• Join him and his friends to watch a football game, and impress them with your sports knowledge.
• Play a game of “Truth or Dare” to show him that you can be goofy and witty.

Spend more time together. Proximity has been proven to increase feelings of affection. Simply put, the more time you spend with someone, the more you tend to like them. To make this work, try stopping by your boyfriend's locker on your way to class, suggest a few study sessions together, or find other ways to see him more often.

Respect his personal space and enjoy yours. A great way to make your boyfriend fall even more for you is to give him the chance to miss you after your time together. Passion and intensity can fade if you’re always around each other. You want him to miss you, but also remind him that he’s not the only source of happiness in your life.

• Plan a weekly night out with your girlfriends, and encourage him to hang out with his friends too.

Mirror his movements. Mirroring someone’s actions can increase their attraction to you. To do this, occasionally mimic his posture. For instance, if your boyfriend adjusts his sitting position and leans on his right arm, wait a few seconds, then imitate his posture. Just make sure to lean on your left arm to create a mirror image of him.

• Be subtle when doing this. Mimicking often happens when the other person doesn’t notice, so it’s important to avoid being too obvious; otherwise, you may come across as strange.

Show you're not easy to get. Even though you’re in a relationship, you can make your boyfriend desire you more by showing that you’re not always available at his beck and call. Here are a few simple ways to let him know you're not easy to please:

• Wait 15 minutes before responding to his texts (unless it's urgent) or sometimes leave a missed call unanswered.
• Request a schedule change if he invites you out but you already have plans.
• Occasionally, turn down his kiss.