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Are you exhausted from the endless hustle, yet still crave financial security? Many others share the same wish, and the answer is simple: find someone with money and marry for wealth. In this article, we’ll show you how to meet, connect with, and build a meaningful relationship with a millionaire, so you can (hopefully) secure that luxurious engagement ring.
How to Marry a Wealthy Man
- Join a dating platform for millionaires.
- Engage in activities that attract affluent individuals.
- Attend high-end events like fundraisers and exclusive clubs.
- Highlight your alluring qualities.
- Dress in fashionable attire.
- Dedicate yourself to meaningful causes.
- Explore the world of art.
Guidelines
Join a millionaire-specific dating platform.
If you're looking to simplify the process, consider finding someone online. Download an app tailored to connecting with wealthy individuals, such as Millionaire Match, Elite Singles, or Luxy. Alternatively, you can use mainstream platforms like Match or OkCupid, but focus on those with significant financial means.
- Be ready for a detailed registration process on these dating apps. You'll be asked to provide information about your hobbies, education, and professional background, among other things.
Explore hobbies that attract wealthy individuals.
Learn the basics of golf, polo, or sailing. While you don't need to be an expert, it's helpful to have a basic understanding of these activities. That way, if you're invited on a date that involves one of them, you’ll feel more comfortable.
- If these activities aren't your passion, that's okay. Just research them a bit online so you can impress your date with your knowledge when the opportunity arises.
Spend time at upscale country clubs and charity events.
To meet wealthy individuals, you need to be where they spend their time. Find your way into an exclusive country club or get invited to a high-end fundraiser. Be ready to mingle and engage in conversations—you never know when you might meet the one.
- It’s also beneficial if you live or work in areas where affluent people reside. This increases your chances of frequenting places where you can interact with wealthy individuals.
Highlight your alluring side.
It’s true—many millionaires prefer their partners to be physically attractive. To capture the attention of a rich individual, invest some time in perfecting your hair, makeup (if you wear it), and clothing. When you flash a smile and wave at a wealthy person, make sure you look and feel your best so they won’t overlook you for someone else.
Stay up-to-date with the latest fashion trends.
Wear clothes that complement your body without being too flashy. Aim to look like you’ve just stepped off the pages of a stylish magazine (think chic and sophisticated). Do your research on the current fashion trends and invest in some timeless pieces that make you look both elegant and attractive.
- Classic brands like Marc Jacobs, Christian Louboutin, and Dior are always in style.
- If you're on a budget, you can find similar styles at stores like Zara or Banana Republic.
Show off your intelligence.
For many millionaires, looks are not enough. To prove you’re worthy of their time, focus on your education. If possible, aim to earn a college degree. If that’s not feasible, consider self-education by reading extensively and taking free online courses in topics that interest you.
- Attending an Ivy League school is an excellent way to meet wealthy individuals (or those on their way to wealth). However, if that’s not an option, don’t worry—you’ll find plenty of other ways to connect with people.
Devote yourself to a meaningful cause.
Impress your potential partner by demonstrating your passion for a cause. Millionaires often support charitable initiatives and organize fundraisers. You can bond with a millionaire by volunteering your time or donating to a cause you believe in.
- If you’re an animal lover, consider volunteering at your local animal shelter.
- If you’re passionate about STEM, think about supporting a research institution.
- Reader Poll: We asked 174 Mytour readers to share which personality trait they find most attractive, and 51% of them said kindness. [Take Poll] Kindness can go a long way when it comes to attraction.
Explore the world of art.
Art plays a significant role in the financial world. You don’t need to be an expert, but having knowledge of key paintings and artists from the past century is essential. This way, if you visit a gallery or attend a gala with your millionaire date, you can impress them by correctly naming and pronouncing the artists around you.
- Make it a point to attend as many gallery openings as possible. Not only will it broaden your knowledge, but you’re likely to meet a lot of affluent individuals there.
Understand the basics of money management.
Be ready to engage in discussions about stocks and interest rates. While you don’t need to hold a degree in finance, you should be prepared to keep up if your millionaire date starts talking about their latest investment. Do some quick research online or take an introductory course to stay in the loop with the world of finance.
- You can find plenty of free YouTube videos that explain the stock market and various investment options.
Avoid constantly mentioning their wealth.
It’s crucial not to come off as a gold digger. Even if your goal is to find a partner who can financially support you, keep that to yourself. Millionaires generally prefer someone who can stand on their own two feet. Treat them like any other person, and build a deeper connection. Your chances of marrying them increase if you approach them as if they were just an ordinary individual.
- Ensure you have your own personal goals and ambitions unrelated to money. Whether it’s pursuing a fulfilling job or committing to a cause, this will show your millionaire date that you’re not just in it for their wealth.
Show your partner affection.
If you're thinking about marriage, demonstrate your care for your millionaire partner. Surprise them with thoughtful gifts, check in with them regularly, and offer a relaxing shoulder rub when they seem stressed. Be a loving, attentive partner to show them that you could be the one they want to spend the rest of their life with.
- Also, take the time to plan dates and treat your millionaire to outings occasionally. This helps ensure that the relationship feels balanced, and not solely dependent on them (or their wealth).
Build strong relationships with their children.
It’s quite likely that your partner already has children. Many millionaires have been married before and may have kids from a previous relationship. If you have the opportunity to meet their children, make an effort to connect with them—if you don’t, the idea of marriage may not even be considered.
- It’s also a good idea to let your millionaire know that you want to have children someday. Many millionaires want to ensure they have heirs to inherit their wealth.
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Invest in your appearance before seeking a millionaire. Treat yourself to a fresh haircut, pamper yourself with a manicure, and consider a luxurious spa day to keep yourself looking fresh and polished.
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- For a delightful experience, take your partner to a picnic by the nearest duck pond and introduce them to a hobby you love, such as bullet journaling.
- Consider learning a sport like golf or tennis, or joining a golf club, as these are popular activities among wealthy individuals who enjoy golf regularly.
Important Considerations
- It’s important to understand that there are many different types of millionaires. Not every wealthy person will be constantly showering you with gifts or whisking you away on luxurious first-class trips. In reality, many millionaires don’t live that extravagant lifestyle.
