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Capricorn men (those born between December 22 and January 19) can be quite stubborn, proud, and deeply invested in their work. However, they also possess a compassionate, ambitious nature and are loyal partners. If you're unsure whether a Capricorn man is into you, don't be discouraged. You can watch for certain signs and behaviors that might reveal his feelings towards you.
Steps
Observe his behavior
Pay attention when he frequently jokes around you. Capricorns tend to be reserved and quiet, but they open up and show their humorous side when they are around someone they like. If he jokes, teases, or acts playful when near you, it's a sign he may have feelings for you.
- The next time you meet him, try joking and teasing him to gauge his reaction. If he laughs and teases you back, it's likely he likes you.
- Make sure to smile brightly when teasing him so he knows you're just joking and flirting.
Does he confide in you? Capricorn men are often shy and distant from others. They are not easily open, and when they do, it’s usually strategic, choosing only those they trust. If a Capricorn man shares his secrets with you and discusses personal matters, it’s a strong indication that he likes you.
- If you’re always the first person he turns to when something is wrong, that’s a clear sign he likes you.
- Pay attention to messages and conversations on social media. Are your exchanges brief and casual, or does he reveal a lot about his personal life?
Does he get jealous when you flirt with others? When a Capricorn man likes someone, he doesn't want others to interfere. If he seems uncomfortable or upset when you give attention to someone else, it means he only wants you to focus on him.
- Watch how he behaves when you talk to someone else. If he glances at you or interrupts the conversation, it could be a sign that he’s jealous.
If he invites you over to his house, that’s a positive sign. Capricorn men value their private space and possessions. They don't easily let others into their home. If he invites you over, it shows trust.
- If he offers to drive you home or lets you use his things, it’s another sign that he trusts and likes you.
Understand how their minds work
He may push you away even though he likes you. Capricorn men are very calculated. They need time to think before making decisions, especially about relationships. If you notice he’s distant or cold, don’t panic. He’s likely just taking the time to figure out if you’re the right person for him.
- Remember, if you directly ask him about the distance, he will tell you why.
Tara Divina
Vedic Astrologer
Vedic Astrologer
Capricorns make decisions using their intellect, not their emotions. Most Capricorn men dedicate time to planning and making decisions based on logical thinking rather than their feelings.
Understand that Capricorn seeks a long-term partner. Capricorn men are not interested in fleeting romances—they look for someone to spend their life with. If he likes you, he’s thinking about a lasting relationship. If you tell him you're not ready for commitment and only want to date casually, he won’t pursue you further.
- If you tell him you’re not looking for a long-term relationship but later change your mind, occasionally mention it to let him know you’re ready for something more serious.
- You can casually say, “I used to enjoy casual dating, but now I’m looking for someone I can build a future with.”
Don’t expect instant emotional exchanges with Capricorn. Capricorn men are not great at opening up emotionally. They need to feel close to someone before they can share their inner feelings. If he seems distant, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you—it simply means you need to build more closeness before he’ll feel comfortable revealing his true self.
- You might want to lead by example and share your own feelings first. This could help him feel secure and open up to you.
Be prepared to wait for him to change his mind. Capricorns are not in a rush when it comes to relationships. They are incredibly patient and take their time considering whether to be with someone. Just because you’ve known each other for a while and he hasn’t expressed his feelings doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you.
- If you truly like him, be patient and allow him the time he needs to figure things out. Focus on being a good friend and spend more time getting to know him.
Attracting a Capricorn man
Support him in his career. Capricorn men are passionate about their work and sometimes prioritize it above other aspects of life, such as friendships or romantic relationships. If you want to win his affection, always be there to back him up in his professional journey. Encourage him as he tackles new projects and cheer him on when he achieves milestones.
- For example, if he’s considering applying for a promotion but is unsure of himself, encourage and motivate him to submit his application.
Share your future plans and dreams with him. When a Capricorn man is seeking a partner, he always thinks about the future. He needs someone who aligns with his long-term vision. By sharing your life goals and priorities with him, he’ll see that you care about the future too, which could help him decide whether the two of you are a good match, both working towards common goals.
- For example, you might casually mention your desire to have children or your plans for settling down and building a future together.
Avoid trying to change him. Capricorn men are incredibly stubborn and aren’t interested in conforming to anyone’s expectations. Trying to pull him away from his projects or pressuring him into socializing will backfire, and he’ll lose interest in you. Capricorn men prefer to follow their own plans and don’t want to change them for anyone. If you want him to like you, part of that is accepting him as he is.
- If you’d like him to compromise occasionally, that’s fine. Just don’t try to change who he is.
- For instance, you can suggest going out with friends from time to time, but don’t force him to socialize every weekend if he doesn’t enjoy it.
Advice
- Keep in mind that zodiac signs are general guidelines. Consider other factors you know about him, even if they don’t entirely match the traditional Capricorn man profile.
Warning
- If he only shows one or two signs and behaviors, it could mean he simply wants to be friends with you. Make sure to identify more signs that show he’s interested before drawing conclusions.
