It's always nice when a girl calls you cute, but figuring out how to respond can sometimes feel a bit awkward. Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. The best response depends on your relationship with her—whether you're just friends, or you're looking for something more. Whether it’s in person or via text, this guide will help you handle the situation gracefully.
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“Thanks! That means a lot.”

This is a classic response that never fails. A simple 'thank you' is always a polite and appropriate way to acknowledge a compliment. It keeps the conversation friendly and can also leave the door open for deeper connections. You could respond with a warm smile and say something like:
- “I really appreciate that.”
- “Thanks for the sweet words.”
- “Aw, you’re too kind!”
“You just made my day.”

Show her that her words really mean something to you. By expressing how much her compliment brightened your day, you reassure her that she wasn’t being too forward. Even if your relationship is purely platonic for now, responding with genuine happiness might open the door for something more. Let your excitement and appreciation shine through. You might say something like:
- “You’ve totally made my day.”
- “This was exactly what I needed to hear today.”
- “I’m smiling because of you right now.”
“You’re cute too.”

Playfully return the compliment to spark a bit of flirtation. Telling a girl you think she’s cute too can add some lighthearted fun to the exchange, and it might even lead to something more serious or simply a playful connection. If you want to keep it casual, try one of these alternatives:
- “I could say the same about you.”
- “I was going to say that, but you beat me to it!”
- “And you’re stunning.”
“That means a lot coming from you.”

Giving her a mysterious response will spark her curiosity. When you respond in an enigmatic way, it will leave her wondering just how much you really like her, which is bound to catch her attention. Mystery plays a big role in attraction, so consider trying one of these replies:
- “Hearing that from you? I feel pretty lucky right now.”
- “I can’t say I wasn’t hoping for something like that.”
- “I like you too much to not be thrilled by that.”
“A compliment from you? I must be dreaming.”

Sometimes, it’s okay to go a little overboard. This kind of response will clearly show her that you’re really into her, which could be the perfect way to turn your friendship into something more flirtatious—or maybe even something deeper. You could say something like:
- “Being called cute by you? That’s a dream come true.”
- “Now you’ve got me blushing.”
- “I think today might just be the best day ever.”
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A touch of humility goes a long way. You don’t need to put yourself down when someone calls you cute, but a response like this can make you seem more grounded. If someone feels intimidated by you, showing some humility can help you come across as more approachable. You could also say something like:
- “Nice to hear that from someone other than my mom.”
- “Thanks—it's amazing what a shower can do for my appearance.”
- “At least one person thinks so, huh?”
“I think so too!”

A bit of swagger can work as a flirting tactic. People tend to be drawn to confidence, so don’t hesitate to show off this side of you. And the best part is, you can always play it off as a joke. Try one of these responses dripping with self-assurance:
- “I was wondering when you’d notice.”
- “Wait until you see me on my best day.”
- “You’re not wrong!”
“What makes you say that?”

Use the moment to fish for more compliments. One compliment might not be enough for you, so getting her to elaborate on what she likes about you could lead to a more flirtatious connection. This response is also perfect for friends who just want to have a bit of fun. Keep the conversation flowing with one of these replies:
- “Say more! I’m all for compliments.”
- “Don’t hold back—what else do you find cute about me?”
- “Am I your type?”
“😍”

Emojis add a fun twist to your text responses. If a girl calls you cute over text, sending an emoji is always a safe choice. You can pair it with another message or let the emoji do all the talking. The heart-eyes emoji shows her you really like her compliment, but you can also mix it up with these options:
- 😉: Use this one if you’re feeling a little playful and want to show off your confident side.
- 😅: This is a great choice if you want to keep things light and humble.
- 😘: Want to turn up the flirt? Send her a kiss.
“Very funny—what are you really thinking?”

For friends, sprinkle in some sarcasm. Joking around can keep things easygoing when they call you cute. Getting too serious might be awkward, so keep it light with responses like these:
- “Thanks—I could give you some advice if you want.”
- “Cute? Can’t remember the last time you said something nice like that to me.”
- “I wish I could say the same!”
“That’s so sweet of you to say.”

If you’re not interested in pursuing a relationship, keep it short. It’s important to avoid giving the wrong impression. Simply acknowledge her compliment and move on. You don’t have to entertain every compliment, especially if you're not interested.
- If you’d rather keep things platonic, a smile and a quick change of topic can do the trick.
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When someone compliments you, responding with a simple “Thank you” or “That’s so kind of you” is usually the best way to go. It’s a genuine and relaxed way to acknowledge their kindness.
If you’re interested in flirting with the person, consider returning the compliment. For instance, if they say “You look stunning,” a reply like “Thank you! You look fantastic tonight, too” works well.
It’s best to avoid denying or undermining their compliment. For example, if someone says “You’re so beautiful” or “You’re really talented,” don’t respond with “Oh no, I’m not” or “You’re just saying that because we’re friends.” While you may be trying to express humility, it’s better to graciously accept the compliment and respond with a sincere “Thank you.” If someone points out something great about you, own it with confidence!
If you’re interested in flirting with the person, consider returning the compliment. For instance, if they say “You look stunning,” a reply like “Thank you! You look fantastic tonight, too” works well.
It’s best to avoid denying or undermining their compliment. For example, if someone says “You’re so beautiful” or “You’re really talented,” don’t respond with “Oh no, I’m not” or “You’re just saying that because we’re friends.” While you may be trying to express humility, it’s better to graciously accept the compliment and respond with a sincere “Thank you.” If someone points out something great about you, own it with confidence!

Erika Kaplan
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It’s easier said than done, but embracing the concept of accepting a compliment with gratitude is key. Taking compliments can be challenging due to self-doubt or insecurities, but focusing on building confidence and self-love can help overcome these feelings.
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