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Being handsome goes beyond just having an attractive appearance and a dazzling smile that could make even a prince envious. It also includes maintaining a positive attitude and demeanor. After all, how you behave can greatly influence how others perceive you. This article will guide you on how to enhance your handsome appearance and conduct yourself appropriately.
Steps
Develop a Fashion Style
Define your style. Your clothing and how you coordinate them speak volumes about you and affect how others view you. Wearing unflattering or ill-fitting clothes can signal to others that you don’t care about your appearance.
- Fashion style is less important than how you choose your attire. You are free to select a style that offers comfort, whether it’s the latest trend, a personal signature, casual, or sporty, as long as it suits you. For instance, if you’re 30 but dress like a 15-year-old, you’ll look out of place rather than trendy. This applies to all styles—you’ll appear awkward or insincere if your clothes don’t match your persona. Consequently, you’ll lose the "handsome" appeal in others’ eyes.
Pay attention to men whose style you admire. When you visit a mall or stroll through the streets, observe men with standout fashion sense. What catches your eye?
- Women often notice shoes—a detail many men overlook. Since most men neglect this aspect, taking the time to choose, wear, and maintain a stylish pair of shoes can make you stand out.
Hire a fashion consultant. If you lack fashion knowledge and have the budget, hiring a fashion consultant is an effective starting point. They can help define your style, select outfits for you, and recommend stores for future shopping.
- If your budget is tight, ask a friend or family member with a good sense of style to accompany you while shopping.
- Listen to their advice, but remember that their fashion style might not always suit you. If you dislike most of their suggestions, don’t force yourself to follow their choices. Thank them for their time and seek another consultant who aligns better with your preferences.
Choose clothing and accessories that reflect your individuality. Wearing outfits that showcase your personality can help you stand out and attract attention. Take Steve Jobs, for example. His signature style included a black turtleneck, blue jeans, and New Balance running shoes.
- Accessories like rings, necklaces, or branded watches are both stylish and functional.
- Sunglasses. While you only use this accessory outdoors, a pair of aviators or tinted glasses can draw attention to your face.
- Cologne. Avoid generic scents; instead, opt for a unique fragrance. It can be a great conversation starter. However, don’t overdo it, or people might talk behind your back instead of complimenting you.
Practice your voice. We all know how to speak, but speaking clearly and coherently will earn others’ respect. Your voice is also an element that leaves an impression.
Groom Your Appearance
Keep your hands and nails clean. Remember to wash your hands regularly. Ensure your nails are free of dirt and neatly trimmed. Avoid biting your nails or cuticles, as it can make you appear overly anxious or nervous.
Take time to brush and style your hair. Except for rare exceptions (usually accidents), going out with unkempt hair can make you lose points in others' eyes. Wash and comb your hair regularly. If you desire and have the time, use powder or gel to style your hair, but remember the "less is more" principle when applying styling products, and avoid overdoing it.
Take care of your skin. Many people associate bad skin with poor personal hygiene. Wash your face thoroughly, especially after physical activity. Avoid redness or scratches while shaving. If you have acne or other skin issues, consult a dermatologist to improve your skin condition.
Shower. You should do this daily—it’s also a great way to start your day effectively. Plus, a clean and fresh-smelling body helps you score extra points!
Eat healthily. Healthy eating habits offer numerous benefits, such as maintaining a proper weight, preventing tooth decay, promoting healthy skin, and keeping you energized.
Get enough sleep. Sleeping a full 8 hours each night will give you fresh skin, abundant energy, and an attractive appearance.
Exercise regularly. Fashion style isn’t the only factor that contributes to your handsomeness. Regular exercise not only improves your appearance, confidence, and energy but also releases endorphins that make you feel happier, thereby making you more appealing to others.
Refine Your Attitude and Personality
Be confident. Nothing—whether it’s bone structure, hairstyle, or even stylish shoes—can make you more admirable than confidence. Cultivate, strive, and follow the steps in this section to build your confidence. Remember, you can’t fake confidence—it must come from within.
Stand up straight. Slouching can cause back problems and make you appear less confident. Similarly, keep your back straight when sitting.
Smile. This helps you appear cheerful, confident, and approachable. By doing so, you won’t seem tired or hopeless.
Maintain eye contact. Looking into someone’s eyes during a conversation is polite. However, avoid staring—occasionally shift your gaze to other parts of their face. Overall, eye contact demonstrates confidence and strength.
Tips
- Stay positive. Be proud of yourself. Confidence is always valued.
- Always be yourself and don’t let others pressure you into being someone you’re not!
- Avoid copying Justin Bieber’s hair flip, as it might make others think you’re silly.
- Don’t obsess over your appearance to the point of self-sabotage in trying to meet physical beauty standards.
- Be confident in who you are. Don’t adopt styles or traits that make you uncomfortable.
- A 2014 study found that your mood affects your appearance. Stay positive, and others—whether girls or guys (if you’re gay or bisexual)—will notice your attractiveness. Keep smiling and think of things that make you happy.
