Buzz
If a special guy has entered your life, it's likely you're thinking about him all day, every day. So, naturally, you might wonder whether he's thinking about you as well. There's no need to guess—there are plenty of signs that can help you figure it out. Check out the following indicators.
Steps
He texts you good morning and goodnight.
He's thinking about you all day and night. If a guy sends you a good morning message, you're one of the first things on his mind that day (he might even dream about you!). A goodnight text shows he's thinking of you as the day winds down and he prepares to sleep. Both of these messages are clear signs he can't stop thinking about you.
- It could be as simple as "Good morning," or something more flirty like "Good morning, beautiful."
- Even if you don't talk much that day, if he texts you something like: "Hey, hope you had an amazing day. Talk to you tomorrow," it means he can’t go to bed without talking to you first.
He occasionally texts you.
This might be a sign that he can't stop thinking about you. Although texting you every now and then with a message here and there might not seem like much, the reality is that he’s thinking about you constantly, which is why he does it. He might send you a sticker, a short message, or a link to an article or video—whatever it is, it’s his way of letting you know he’s thinking about you.
- If he sends you a sticker that makes you laugh, it means that, as soon as he saw it, he thought of you.
- If he shares a link to an article with you, it shows he’s read it and wants to share it with you. This is a pretty clear sign that you’re always on his mind.
He asks you lots of questions.
This means he wants to know more about you. And wanting to know more about you means he's thinking about you a lot. He might also ask your opinion on something, which shows that he’s thinking about you too.
- If he asks: "What do you usually do in your free time? Do you have any hobbies?" it shows he’s thinking about you and is quite curious about you.
- The questions could be about little things, like: "I love fried chicken wings with blue cheese. Do you think they go together?"—which means he’s thinking about you and wants to know your thoughts.
He texts you multiple times in a row.
Nếu anh ấy lúc nào cũng nghĩ về bạn thì sẽ không để ý điều này. Gửi tin nhắn kép, hay nhắn nhiều tin cùng lúc thường là điều không nên làm vì nó thể hiện tình cảm lộ liễu quá. Tuy nhiên, nếu anh ấy nghĩ về bạn quá nhiều thì sẽ không để ý là mình nhắn cho bạn nhiều thế đâu.
- Nếu có cảm tình với anh ấy thì bạn đừng để anh ấy chờ lâu nhé. Hãy nhắn lại để anh ấy không nghĩ là mình cố gắng vô ích.
Anh ấy thích và bình luận những bài đăng của bạn trên mạng
Anh ấy muốn thể hiện sự quan tâm theo dõi bạn. Nếu anh ấy thích một bài viết hay ảnh mà bạn đăng thì rõ ràng là anh ấy nghĩ đến bạn khi thấy những bài đăng đó. Nếu anh ấy còn để lại bình luận nữa thì có thể anh ấy muốn bắt đầu một cuộc trò chuyện hoặc muốn bạn biết là mình rất ấn tượng về bài đăng của bạn.
- Ví dụ, nếu anh ấy bình luận là "Đẹp quá" hoặc bình luận nhiều nhãn dán ngọn lửa hoặc trái tim thì chắc chắn anh ấy thích bài đăng của bạn.
- Nếu anh ấy nhấn thích hoặc bình luận những bài đăng hoặc ảnh cũ của bạn thì có nghĩa là anh ấy nghĩ về bạn rất nhiều, đến nỗi đã xem toàn bộ trang cá nhân của bạn và không kìm được mà bày tỏ cảm xúc ở đó.
Anh ấy nhắn tin cho bạn khi tụ tập cùng bạn bè
Anh ấy có thể đơn giản là vui vẻ cùng bạn của mình. Tuy nhiên, nếu khi anh ấy ở cùng bạn bè mà vẫn nhắn tin cho bạn thì rõ ràng lắm rồi nhé! Điều đó có nghĩa là ngay cả khi ở cạnh bạn bè thì anh ấy vẫn nghĩ đến bạn.
- Nếu anh ấy nhắn là: "Em đang làm gì đấy?" và bạn biết anh ấy đang đi chơi với bạn thì có thể đùa anh ấy một chút: "Em chơi thôi, em tưởng anh đang đi chơi với bạn mà?" Anh ấy có thể sẽ nhắn lại cho bạn là "Ừ, nhưng anh thích nói chuyện với em hơn".
He talks about the things that remind him of you
He can't help but think of you. If he messages you saying he heard a song, watched a video, read an article, or is doing something that makes him think of you, it’s no coincidence. It means he misses you and wants you to know.
- For example, if he says: "The other day I was looking for a movie to watch and suddenly remembered that time we went to the cinema and spilled a whole bottle of water on the seat!" it shows that, even when doing something else, he’s still thinking of you.
He remembers everything you say
He listens and cares about you. Remembering your birthday or your favorite sports team is easy, even friends do that. But if a guy remembers exactly how you like your eggs cooked or what books you enjoy, he’s putting in the effort to learn about you, thinking about you a lot, and seems to genuinely like you.
- For example, if a guy texts you wishing you luck on an exam that you only briefly mentioned to him, it shows he thinks about you a lot.
He surprises you with things you like
He cares about you and your interests. If he gives you a gift that fits your tastes, it’s clear that every time he sees that gift, he’s thinking about you and wanted to give it to you!
- For example, if you tell him you enjoy watching the movie 'Doctor Who' and he gives you a plush TARDIS spaceship, it shows he’s paying attention to you and thinking about you!
He says he misses you
He genuinely likes you and can’t stop thinking about you. Think about it—acknowledging and saying you miss someone isn’t an easy thing to do. If he says he misses you, it’s absolutely sincere. You’ve probably been on his mind all day, and he just can’t help but say it.
- If he says: "I miss you so much. How’s your day?" or "I miss your face so much," it’s clear he’s constantly thinking about you.
He talks to you about his future plans
He might want to be with you for the long haul. If he talks about wanting to watch an upcoming movie and asks if you’d like to go with him, it’s clear you’re part of his future plans. If he’s going to a wedding or a company party and invites you to join, it means every time he thinks about an event, you’re included in his thoughts.
- It may seem simple and unremarkable, but if he talks about plans with you in the next few weeks, months, or even years, it means you’re always in his thoughts.
Advice
- If you know his friends, you could ask them if he has mentioned you to find out whether he’s thinking about you.
