If you're interested in a guy but can't tell if he's flirting or just being nice, you're likely overthinking how to act around him. The good news is, these guys usually can't hide their feelings for long, even if they try to play it cool – and we'll give you all the tips to see through it! Have you met your Prince Charming, or is he just a friendly guy? Let's dive in and find out!
Steps
Does he find excuses to touch you?

Some signs are easy to spot, making this the best place to start. There are a few clues that give away his interest. If he lingers during a hug, “accidentally” brushes your shoulder, or finds ways to touch you, he’s probably into you. If he’s just being friendly, he’ll smile and make eye contact but won’t seek physical contact.
- The classic “brushing hair off your face” move is common in movies but rare in real life. If he does this, it’s almost certain he has romantic feelings for you.
Do you catch him looking at you?

If he often sneaks glances at you from across the room, he probably likes you. A friendly guy will maintain eye contact during conversations – it’s just polite – but if he unconsciously steals looks from a distance, it’s a sign he’s into you. If you notice him glancing at you elsewhere instead of making eye contact while talking, chances are he’s interested. Next time you’re around him, pay attention to where his gaze lingers!
- His eyes might also widen slightly when looking at you. This is a natural reaction when someone finds another person attractive!
Does he show interest in the things you’re passionate about?

Bring up an unusual hobby of yours and see how he reacts. If he’s not interested in you, he won’t match your enthusiasm. If he likes you, he’ll ask questions or say, “I’ve always wanted to try that!” Engaging and pretending to enjoy something he doesn’t genuinely care about is a clear sign he’s willing to go the extra mile to be near you, which means he’s definitely interested!
- However, make sure it’s a niche interest. If you say, “I love traveling,” there’s a high chance he’ll agree. Instead, mention an obscure movie you adore or a unique hobby you’re into.
- For example, you could say, “Have you ever seen Sabrina? It’s an old Humphrey Bogart film. I rewatched it recently – it’s amazing!” If he responds, “No, I’m not into old movies,” he’s likely not interested. But if he says, “No, but I’ll definitely check it out!” he’s probably trying to impress you.
- You could also say, “I can’t wait for the weekend. It’s been a while since I hit the dance floor.” If he replies, “Oh, I’m a terrible dancer!” he’s probably just being friendly. But if he says, “I’m clumsy, but that sounds fun!” he likely has a crush on you.
Does he invite you to do something just the two of you?

If he invites you to his place with a group of friends, he’s just a social butterfly. However, if he asks you to a bar and it’s just the two of you, it’s a clear sign he’s smitten. Friendly guys tend to invite multiple people to events or gatherings, but someone who’s into you will go out of their way to create opportunities for one-on-one time.
- If you’re hanging out in a group or mingling at a social event and he pulls you aside for a private conversation, it’s a strong indicator he likes you.
- If he seems slightly disappointed when your private chat gets interrupted, it’s likely because he has feelings for you.
Does he treat you better than others?

If he’s noticeably kinder or more attentive to you than to others, he probably likes you. A friendly guy is generally warm to everyone. He might shake hands, give hugs, or smile broadly at others like he’s running for office. But if he seems extra sweet or goes out of his way to be nice to you, it’s a sign his feelings run deeper.
- If he lights up with a big smile when you enter the room but doesn’t greet others the same way, it’s a giveaway that he’s into you.
Does he respond to your flirty jokes?

Try dropping a playful, flirty comment and see how he reacts. If he doesn’t engage, he’s likely not interested. If he seems confused, play it off as a harmless joke. If he laughs and plays along, it’s a good sign he likes you. Be cautious, though—if you don’t know him well or if you work together, this approach could backfire.
- For example, you could jokingly call him your “history husband.” If he rolls with it and calls you his “history wife,” he’s probably into you.
- You could say something like, “Wow, you look just like Chris Pratt today! I might have to flirt with you!” If he chuckles and says, “Nice one, I like it. Let’s go on a Guardians of the Galaxy adventure,” he’s likely interested. If he replies, “Oh, thanks, I guess!” you’ve got your answer.
Does he mention being single to you?

If he brings up a girlfriend or wife, he’s setting boundaries. On the other hand, if he often complains about having no one to go out with, he might be hinting that he’s available and open to dating. Pay attention to how he shares details about his romantic life to gauge his interest!
- If he’s mentioned another guy or girl to you, he’s likely not into you. If he likes you, he’ll avoid talking about other people he’s interested in.
Has he asked if you’re seeing anyone?

If you like this guy and he asks if you’re single, it’s a clear sign. Men rarely inquire about someone’s romantic status unless they’re genuinely interested. In fact, a friendly guy would usually avoid this topic to respect social boundaries. So, if he asks if you’re dating anyone, there’s a good chance he likes you.
- An exception is if you’ve previously discussed someone else’s love life or if there’s a logical reason for the conversation. In those rare cases, his question might not mean much.
Does he seize the moment when you accidentally touch him?

If your knees accidentally touch, does he move away or stay put? If you brush past him in the hallway and he steps aside, he’s likely not interested. But if he smiles, blushes, or even touches you back when you accidentally make contact, you can bet he likes you.
- A friendly guy with no romantic interest might even apologize if you bump into him.
Does he blush when you compliment him?

Try complimenting his hair and watch his reaction. If he starts bragging about his barber or a new styling technique he’s learned, he’s probably not into you. But if he blushes, smiles, and says something like, “Oh, thanks. Your hair looks great today too,” then he’s likely romantically interested.
- Choose something about his appearance to compliment. Non-appearance-related compliments are safer, but here you’re testing his reaction. Instead of saying, “I like your tie,” you could say, “That tie really brings out your eyes. They’re mesmerizing!”
Does he seem like he’s trying too hard?

Guys often try to act cool when they like someone. He might overcompensate by mimicking someone’s behavior or getting flustered and making awkward jokes. He might even stutter or stumble over his words. He could even try to impress you with silly stunts, like showing off how far he can throw a ball or doing a flip into the pool. If you pay close attention, you might notice him puffing out his chest or sucking in his stomach when you’re around. All these antics are just his way of trying to make you notice him.
- If he only acts this way around you but is calm and collected elsewhere, you can be sure he’s into you.
- If he’s constantly fixing his hair or adjusting his clothes, it means he wants to look his best for you.
Does he say “I missed you” after not seeing you for a while?

This short phrase reveals that he likes you. A friendly guy might say, “It’s great to see you again,” but “missed” carries a romantic undertone. It’s one of those subtle signs that often go unnoticed. If you see this guy regularly, pay attention to what he says when you reunite after a long time apart.
- Many guys even flirt when saying something as sweet as “I missed you.” If he’s not usually an open person but still says, “I missed you,” you can be sure – he’s smitten.
- If he greets you with, “It’s nice to see you!” or “Oh, hey!” he’s probably just being friendly.
Does he remember small details about you?

If he remembers things you’ve said or done, he’s more than just charming. While sociable people tend to remember names, interests, and fun facts about those they talk to, if he seems to recall your best friend’s name or your favorite singer, it’s a sign he likes you.
- This is especially true if he brings up your preferences that have nothing to do with him, like your favorite ice cream flavor or the perfume you usually wear.
Does he care about your reactions?

Waiting for your approval is a significant sign that he likes you. If he glances at you after cracking a joke in front of others, it means he genuinely wants to know if you found it amusing. If he seeks your advice, asks for your opinion, or pays attention to your reactions, it often indicates he truly wants to understand your feelings towards him!
Does he stand up for you?

A guy who secretly admires you will be ready to defend you. If someone contradicts what you just said or disagrees with you, he will take your side—even if he isn’t entirely sure you’re right. For instance, even if he isn’t a fan of rock music, if someone says they hate your favorite band and he speaks up in defense, it’s a clear sign he has feelings for you.
Do mutual friends mention that he often talks about you?

If you’re still unsure, ask a mutual friend if he talks about you. This is often a big clue because many guys enjoy discussing the person they secretly admire. Pull a close friend aside and casually ask, “Hey, does he ever mention me when I’m not around?” If they say he frequently brings you up, it’s a promising sign that he likes you.
