Buzz
Do you have a crush on a guy but aren't sure what to do next? Or maybe your boyfriend is far away? No matter the situation, you can use text messages to make him think of you. It's easier than you think. With the right words, he'll be hooked and can't stop thinking about you.
Steps
Start with a simple greeting. You can kick things off with something casual like "Hey" or "Hello." You could also subtly compliment him by saying something like "Hello, handsome!"
Wait for his response. If he's interested, he'll reply, and you can keep the conversation going. If not, it might be time to move on and forget about him!
Start the conversation by asking what he's up to. This gives you a chance to talk about what you're doing in a brief moment. However, right now you should text something like, 'So what are you doing tonight?' or 'How have you been lately?'
If you're feeling confident, you could compliment him instead. Instead of asking what he's doing, try texting, 'I hope I'm not bothering you, but I miss you! I hope that's okay. :)' If he likes you, he'll let you know he enjoys receiving messages like that.
Use your current activity to kick off the conversation. After he asks what you're doing (or you're ready to share), you can use it as a playful way to flirt. For example:
- If it's late and you're about to go to sleep, you could say you're lying in bed but can't sleep because there's no one to cuddle.
- If it's cold outside, you might mention you're shivering, or something similar. This can be a way to suggest, 'Come warm me up.'
- If you're doing absolutely nothing, text something like, 'Just... thinking about that hot guy right now...'
See if he picks up on the hint. If he does, he'll likely reply with something like, 'I'd love to be there to help you sleep/warm you up,' or casually ask, 'Who are you thinking about?'
If he doesn't seem to catch on, don't give up! Just be a bit more direct. For example, if you're talking about being cold, try saying, 'If you were here, I wouldn't be freezing like this... :)' This will give him a clearer picture of what you're suggesting.
Talk about your feelings. Once you've got him thinking or texting about wanting to be by your side, it's time to let his imagination wander about meeting up with you. You can text things like:
- Mention what you'd like to do with him. You can keep it vague (like talking about cuddling), or be more specific (like saying you'd love to kiss him slowly).
- Bring up what you're wearing (even if you’re not really wearing it, he won’t know). As mentioned earlier, you can hint at it subtly ('I wish you could see what I’m wearing right now…'), or be more specific about what you'd wear when you get into bed.
- Suggest things you’ll do together in the future. Giving hints about what you'll do next time you meet up can turn him on. (Just make sure it's something you genuinely want to do before making any promises.)
End the conversation while he's still engaged. Don't let the chat fizzle out before it's time to finish; stop the conversation while it’s still exciting and interesting. This way, he’ll keep thinking about you all day and night.
Advice
- The nighttime is the best time to text the person you like. At this time, he's less distracted, has time to chat, and you'll be the first person on his mind when he wakes up the next morning.
- Be yourself. The way you text will influence how he perceives you as a person.
- If the guy casually says 'Goodbye' while texting, just respond in kind. If he messages again, don't ask where he's gone or why he left. If he asks what you're doing, even if you're doing nothing, you can still imagine.
- Be casual, and don’t bother him by sending empty texts if he hasn’t replied yet; maybe he’s just deciding how to respond.
- If he likes you, he'll make time to reply. If he doesn’t, don’t bother him. The other person has the right to reply or not.
- Don’t be too forward, unless you’re ready for that kind of relationship.
- If he doesn’t enjoy this type of conversation, you can switch topics and try again next time!
- Keep your texts short and to the point. Don’t send long-winded messages, and try to focus both on him and yourself. When the conversation starts to die out, stop and wait for the next time.
- Don’t send multiple texts before he’s had a chance to reply, or come off as too eager.
- Don’t bundle too many sentences into one message before he can reply. It will make him feel pressured. You can text something like, 'Hey, where did that handsome guy just go? ;)', and wait for him to reply.
- Don’t rush things with someone you just met. It will only make the other person uncomfortable.
Warning
- Think carefully before sending any explicit photos of yourself. Not only could this act be classified as distributing child pornography in some areas (if you're not of legal age), but it could also expose you to serious emotional risks. It’s best not to send such photos to anyone, as you never know who might end up using the phone of the person you like.
