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While it’s impossible to make every teacher adore you, you can still strive to earn their goodwill. Actively participating in class by completing assignments, paying attention during lectures, and contributing constructively will earn you recognition and appreciation. Additionally, good manners can work in your favor. Simply arriving on time, showing respect, and maintaining cleanliness demonstrates your commitment to the subject. Building a rapport with teachers by visiting them during office hours, valuing their opinions, or even offering small tokens of appreciation can further strengthen your relationship.
Steps
Actively Participate in Class
Focus on the lecture and engage in discussions. Most teachers are passionate about their lessons, and you can earn their favor simply by paying attention and showing interest. Don’t hesitate to speak up when encouraged. Engage with classmates and teachers to demonstrate your enthusiasm for learning.
- Even if you don’t enjoy the topic, active participation shows effort, which teachers will appreciate.
- You’ll also find yourself more engaged in the lesson when you actively contribute.
Complete assigned tasks on time. One of the easiest ways to earn your teacher's favor is by submitting homework and class assignments punctually. Incomplete work or requests for extensions may give the impression that you lack time management skills or interest in the subject.
- If you struggle with assignments, don’t hesitate to seek help. Teachers appreciate students who are eager to learn, so asking for assistance with challenging tasks shows your dedication.
- Start assignments as early as possible instead of procrastinating.
- Be honest with your teacher if you forget to complete an assignment. While they may not be pleased, they’ll likely appreciate your honesty.
Listen carefully to your teacher’s instructions. Pay close attention when assignments or test guidelines are given to avoid needing clarification later. Thoroughly reading instructions for tests or essays demonstrates your commitment, which teachers will notice and appreciate.
- Repeatedly asking for instructions you’ve already been given may make you appear inattentive or lazy.
Tip: If you need clarification or don’t understand something, ask your teacher to ensure you follow instructions correctly. For example, “Excuse me, I want to make sure I understand. Could you please explain that again?”
Respond to questions your teacher asks the class. Teachers often pose questions for students to answer. Raise your hand if you know the answer, and even if you’re unsure, share your thoughts. Teachers value students who actively engage and try to understand the material.
- If you don’t know the answer, maintain eye contact to show you’re paying attention.
- Some rhetorical questions aren’t meant to be answered. Stay focused to recognize when a response is expected.
- It’s okay to answer incorrectly—learning involves making mistakes, and teachers will appreciate your effort.
Ask meaningful and relevant questions. Questions that show you’ve read the material or completed assignments demonstrate your engagement, which teachers will appreciate. Be specific in your questions, avoiding vague ones like, “I don’t understand; what does this mean?”
- For example, ask in-depth questions about readings, such as, “I understand the main character had a tragic childhood, but why couldn’t he fully commit to the woman who loved him?”
- Ask subject-related questions to show you’re paying attention.
Research additional materials to broaden and deepen your knowledge. Teachers are delighted when they inspire students to spend extra time exploring their subject. If you genuinely want to impress your teacher, dedicate time to studying the topic further so you can discuss it in class and demonstrate your enthusiasm.
- For example, many literature textbooks include supplementary readings at the end that expand on the lessons. Review these materials to gain a deeper understanding.
- Search online for additional information on the topic to use in class discussions.
- Ask your teacher for recommended resources or materials related to the subject. They’ll appreciate your initiative to learn more.
Demonstrate Good Behavior
Arrive on time and come prepared. If you want to earn your teacher’s favor, a simple yet effective way is to show up ready to learn. Aim to arrive five minutes early to organize your materials and prepare for the lesson.
- Remember to bring all necessary supplies to class.
Be kind and open-minded toward classmates. Teachers dislike students who are rude to peers or dismissive of others’ ideas and questions during discussions. Everyone is in class to learn, so be respectful and considerate of your classmates’ perspectives.
- Give others a chance to speak and ask questions.
- Avoid mocking or ridiculing your peers.
- You may need to work in groups, so be kind and respectful to everyone.
Respect your teacher and show politeness. Always demonstrate respect for your teacher, even if you disagree with them. To earn their favor, maintain a friendly and courteous attitude in class.
- Greet your teacher when you enter the classroom.
- Engage in light conversation to create a positive atmosphere. For example, you might say, “Did you catch the game last weekend?”
- If your teacher corrects you, avoid arguing or talking back.
Keep your phone away during class. Using your phone while talking to someone is rude, but using it during class is even more disrespectful. Silence your phone and keep it in your bag until the class ends.
- Follow your teacher’s rules regarding electronic devices.
- If you need to record the lecture for note-taking purposes, inform your teacher beforehand to explain why your phone or recorder is out.
Tip: If you need to keep your phone out due to an emergency or an important call, remember to ask for your teacher’s permission.
Maintain good hygiene and dress appropriately. Teachers appreciate students who take care of their appearance. Keep yourself clean and wear neat clothing.
- You don’t need to wear a suit and tie, but a collared shirt or a simple dress shows you’re not careless about your appearance.
- Wash your hair and use deodorant. No one wants to sit near someone who smells bad!
Build a Relationship
Say thank you when your teacher helps you. If your teacher grants you an extension or meets with you to discuss improving your grades, express your gratitude. A simple thank you can go a long way in earning someone’s favor.
- Wait until after class or visit your teacher’s office to thank them privately, showing your sincerity.
- If you communicate via email, always send a thank-you note when your teacher responds.
Give a thoughtful gift to your teacher on Teacher’s Day. On Vietnamese Teacher’s Day (November 20), you can present your teacher with a thoughtful gift you believe they’ll appreciate. Ensure the gift is meaningful and suits the teacher’s preferences.
- You can also give gifts on their birthday or at the end of the school year.
- Choose a unique gift that reflects their interests. For example, if your teacher is a fan of “Star Wars,” consider gifting a movie poster they can display in class.
Tip: Consider fun gifts like a mug labeled “Student Tears” or a trash bin labeled “Complaint Department.”
Visit your teacher during office hours. Many teachers keep their offices open during designated hours for students to discuss academics, extra credit opportunities, or topics of interest. Dropping by to say hello occasionally shows you value their time and effort.
- Use this time to discuss school activities, additional resources, or other relevant topics.
Ask your teacher for a recommendation letter. If you need a letter for advanced courses, college applications, or even a job, requesting one from your teacher demonstrates your respect for their opinion. Writing the letter will remind them of your qualities and strengthen your bond.
- Ask your teacher to leave the date open and address it “To Whom It May Concern” if you’re unsure when you’ll need it.
- If you know the recipient, such as a counselor or potential employer, provide their name and title for the letter.
