Photo: Larry Washburn/Getty ImagesDecluttering may seem simpler than it truly is. It can be tough to decide what to part with, especially when you're unsure of what’s truly valuable. “For many, purging is a challenge,” explains Emily Preciado-Fonseca, professional organizer and founder of MommyAssist. “We’re letting go of things we once chose, cherished, or that represented us in some way.”
Though it can be difficult, she advises approaching decluttering with a positive mindset. “Keep in mind: You’re not just discarding items; you’re making room for what’s coming next,” she says. Unsure where to begin? Here are seven insightful questions to ask yourself as you declutter.
Does It Still Fit or Serve Its Purpose?
Briana and Erica Spruille, professional organizers and founders of Just BE LLC, suggest that a simple question to ask yourself when deciding whether to keep something is whether it still fits or works for you.
“We understand there are several reasons why clothes might not fit right now—weight changes, medication, stress, mis-sizing, and so on,” they explain. “However, we urge you to think realistically and kindly about holding on to things that no longer fit or are unlikely to be worn again.” Items that are damaged should also be let go!
Remember, if you own something that’s too large and it was an investment piece or something you truly adore, you could have it altered by a local tailor. While this isn't exactly decluttering, it might make parting with that oversized free t-shirt a little easier if you know it’s just not something you’ll wear anymore.
Does It Still Reflect My Current Style?
Trends evolve faster than ever nowadays. The Spurilles suggest asking yourself if an item still represents the person you are now. While you may have gone through a shabby chic home decor phase or had a period of wearing a lot of green during your "Brat Summer," there are probably a few things in your life that no longer excite you.
Will I Ever Wear or Use This Again?
The Spruilles often ask their clients whether they will ever wear something again, as we all have those items in our closets. It might be a ski sweater (but you live in Arizona) or maternity clothes (and you’re not planning on having more children).
The same logic applies to impulse buys for one-off occasions—like, do you really need a cotton candy machine after your child’s birthday party? If there’s a good chance it won’t get used again, it’s time to part with it.
Do I Own Multiple Versions of This Item?
Preciado-Fonseca recommends asking yourself whether you have multiple versions of an item. “How many of these do I have? When did I last use it? Do I even like this?” she says. “If you own several of one item, rarely use it, or simply don’t enjoy it, those are probably the things to let go of.”
This question can apply to everything, from kitchen tools to makeup, and even clothing. After all, how many measuring cups, mascaras, and black v-neck tops do you really need?
Is This Still Relevant?
“Whether it’s a reference book or a clothing style that’s no longer in vogue, let go of items that no longer serve a purpose or hold relevance,” says Preciado-Fonseca.
This also applies to technology. While keeping an extra cell phone in case yours breaks or falls in water is practical, you probably only need one backup, not five. Consider how many extra laptops, tablets, and other devices you can declutter as well.
Does This Hold Significant Sentimental Value?
“Keep in mind, not everything qualifies,” says Preciado-Fonseca. “A tricky area to manage is kids' artwork: Set aside one bin, one portfolio, or one designated space for it, and once it’s full, review the pieces and make room for newer creations.”
Is This a “Someday” Item?
Preciado-Fonseca advises asking yourself if an item is a “someday” thing. Sure, you might hike Machu Picchu one day, but you probably won’t need those ten-year-old hiking boots. She strongly suggests letting go of these items. “Am I holding onto this for someday, or out of guilt?” she asks. “If you answered yes to either question, or if it’s easy to replace the item, it’s time to let it go.”
