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In a chaotic world of online dating, ghosting, and benching, how can one find genuine love? Matchmaker Dr. Frankie Bashan explains why many are turning to real-life matchmakers like her. Etiquette guru Daniel Post Senning decodes the complexities of Tinder etiquette, while Mytour’s food editor Claire Lower crafts a seductive three-ingredient cocktail.
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Episode Highlights
Introduction (0:00 - 4:53)
Alice and Melissa explore the dating trends of “benching” and “bread crumbing,” debating whether modern dating is more challenging compared to the past, when Alice was navigating the singles scene.
Interview with Dr. Frankie Bashan (5:01 - 30:20)
Dr. Frankie shares advice on setting realistic dating expectations, identifying true deal-breakers, and thriving in the world of online dating—or opting for real-life connections instead of the digital dating scene.
Three-Ingredient Cocktail: The Martini (32:30 - 35:05)
Claire believes a flawless martini is the epitome of allure, and we’re in no position to disagree.
Tech Etiquette: Navigating Tinder Behavior (35:15 - 51:42)
In this section, managing editor Virginia K. Smith chats with Daniel Post Senning, the great-great-grandson of Emily Post and co-host of the Awesome Etiquette Podcast, about the dos and don’ts of Tinder etiquette. A must-listen for anyone familiar with ghosting—whether you’re the ghoster or the ghosted!
Upgrade of the Week (51:49 - 55:20)
Each week, we highlight one small change making a significant impact in our lives. This week’s picks: finding excellent plants on Etsy, reducing alcohol intake, and adopting a flats-centric wardrobe inspired by a fashion blogger.
