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When you meet someone for the first time, your goal is often to impress. You may feel drawn to emphasize your best qualities, but it’s also crucial to embrace being average sometimes.
It may sound counterintuitive, but embracing mediocrity can actually boost your chances of impressing others. As business site Inc. points out, it’s unlikely that you’ll be the top performer in any given room. If you only engage when you’re the best, you won’t engage much at all. The more you dive in with enthusiasm, even if you're not the best, the more memorable you'll be than if you only participate when you’re guaranteed to excel.
You run, but avoid races because you’re afraid of finishing last. You sing, but decline to perform in a friend's band because you’re no Adele. You’ll sponsor the employee softball team, but you won’t play because you're not the star athlete.
In both personal and professional settings, you may feel pressured to maintain an image of perfection—knowledgeable, accomplished, invincible. But you're not a walking resume. Let go of the need to appear flawless. Own your imperfections. Make mistakes. Put yourself out there. Try, fail, and do so graciously.
Imagine it’s like karaoke night. You might not be the top singer in the room, but that's not why people are there. They’re not looking for the best voice, just someone who’ll get up and enjoy themselves. Step on stage, and you’re bound to have fun and leave a lasting impression. But if you never take that step, you won’t make any impact at all.
Image courtesy of Harold Navarro.
