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Welcome back to Burning Questions. Today's reader is focused on maintaining their skin health but faces a challenge with a mole located in a highly private area.
Due to my family's medical history, I need to have my moles checked periodically. However, I suspect I have one in a very intimate area and feel too embarrassed to show it to a dermatologist. Can I just assume it's harmless?
Unfortunately, the doctors I consulted had some tough news: you can't have your mole examined without actually showing it. The American Cancer Society strongly advises regular skin check-ups by a dermatologist, especially for those with a family history of melanoma. While you might already be doing monthly self-exams with a mirror or taking awkward photos for a preliminary look, there's no substitute for a professional evaluation. Eventually, you'll need to visit your doctor and uncover the truth.
Dr. Michael Reitano, a physician at Roman, a men’s health service, suggests a method to ease discomfort during sensitive exams. While I personally feel this approach might heighten self-consciousness, it’s worth considering. He explains that patients often feel more at ease when they can keep most of their body covered. Requesting a gown that closes both front and back from the doctor or staff might help.
To further ensure privacy, a nurse can assist by having you lie on the exam table with strategically placed drapes, exposing only the area needing examination. “Just an inch or two of skin showing the mole is enough for the dermatologist to assess and even perform a biopsy if needed.” This approach might help you feel more comfortable for the remainder of the exam.
Whether you opt for this setup or not, bringing a trusted partner or family member along can also ease embarrassment. Choose someone whose presence makes you feel more at ease, ideally someone with a good sense of humor, to lighten the mood.
That’s all for today, but feel free to send your unusual health questions to [email protected] or submit them anonymously at bethskw.sarahah.com. Wishing you a healthy and worry-free new year!
