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First impressions matter because they’re difficult to reverse, and a negative one can stick with you for a long time. However, a positive first impression isn’t about showing off. It’s all about connecting with someone and creating a genuine interaction.
Dorie Clark, author of Reinventing You: Define Your Brand, Imagine Your Future, points out that your interaction with others holds more weight than attempting to prove yourself. Rebecca Knight at Harvard Business Review summarizes this perfectly:
According to Clark, the biggest mistake people make when trying to leave a good impression is thinking they need to impress others with their extensive knowledge. In reality, your goal is not to dazzle, but to create an engaging conversation that will be memorable. Focus on drawing the other person out and truly listening to what they have to say. “The better you make the other person feel, the more they’ll be inclined to have a positive impression of you,” Clark adds.
Ask thoughtful, open-ended questions, discover their passions, and find common ground. People are more at ease with those they connect with rather than those who merely flaunt their expertise.
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