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Regretting your spending is not very productive. Ruminating on a financial mistake only increases the chances of repeating it, so it's better to leave the past behind and focus on moving forward. However, some purchases are hard to forget. If you struggle with letting go of financial mistakes, try using a 'money regrets' budget.
Like many others, I often feel regret after unexpectedly spending outside my budget. Whether it's a parking fine, an unexpectedly high utility bill, or overindulging at a restaurant, the feeling of financial regret is undeniable. When it hits, you can't help but blame yourself and obsess over the mistake.
To avoid dwelling on these errors, I use a 'money regrets' budget. For instance, if I made an $80 mistake on a parking ticket, I write it down. Then, I work towards reducing that amount to zero by either cutting back on expenses or using windfalls. For example, if I earn $10 in interest from my savings account, I subtract that from the $80, leaving me with $70. If I decide to skip buying ice cream while grocery shopping, my 'money regrets' budget would then drop to $65. This method is similar to Ramit Sethi's 'Stupid Mistakes' savings account, but instead of opening a separate account, I simply track the mistakes and actively work to reduce them.
If you don't struggle with letting go of spending mistakes, this method may feel unnecessary. But for those like me who have a hard time moving on from financial regret, it can be helpful. Full transparency: I wrote about this technique on my personal blog some time ago, and it's a mental trick that has proven effective for me over time. Sometimes, just writing down the mistake is enough to put it behind me and feel more in control.
It’s a bonus if you can hold yourself accountable and actually reduce that budget to zero, but the key is to let go of the mistake so you can move forward with your life and avoid repeating it. For more information, be sure to check out the full post at the link below.
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