Internal conflicts are an inevitable part of being human, often driven by sexual and aggressive impulses, resulting in tension. These conflicts typically resolve on their own in a short time, though there are occasions when they persist. When these internal struggles last longer, they can cause significant harm. Anxiety, in particular, can be exhausting and shouldn't be underestimated. Thankfully, our body has built-in defense mechanisms to help us cope with negative emotions, such as anxiety. Here are seven of them:
1. Rationalization

Rationalization is something we all engage in, often without realizing it. It involves creating seemingly logical but actually false justifications to excuse behaviors that are otherwise unacceptable. For example, a student might steal money from a wealthy friend and justify it by thinking, 'He’s rich, so he won’t miss it.'
2. Identification
Identification refers to 'Boosting one’s self-worth by forming a connection, real or imagined, with a particular person or group.' This is a common strategy for escaping personal troubles, especially in individuals with low self-esteem. It often occurs when a person joins a sports team, a fraternity, a social clique, or even identifies with a specific subculture.
3. Displacement
Displacement is described as 'Redirecting emotional responses (typically anger) from their original source onto a different, often unrelated target.' This commonly happens within families, where a father may get upset with the mother, who then directs her frustration at the son. The son, in turn, yells at his younger sister, who kicks the dog, and the dog retaliates by biting the cat. A more straightforward example would be a boxer channeling his frustration into punching a bag or an opponent.
4. Projection
Projection is defined as 'Assigning one’s own thoughts, emotions, or intentions onto someone else.' This is a common behavior that most of us have seen. For instance, an angry man might accuse others of being unfriendly or confrontational. Another case might be a con artist who assumes that everyone else is attempting to deceive him or her.
5. Regression
Regression refers to 'Returning to earlier, less mature forms of behavior.' There are many examples of this, and many of us are guilty of it at times. A clear example is when a teenager is denied the chance to go on a spring break trip and throws a temper tantrum, screaming and crying to their parents. Alternatively, a teenager may start behaving in an infantile way in order to gain sympathy from their parents.
6. Reaction Formation
Reaction formation is one of the more unusual defense mechanisms, as it involves acting in a way that is completely opposite to how one actually feels. It is defined as 'Acting in a manner that directly contradicts one’s true emotions.' This is often seen in relationships, where feelings of hatred may manifest as exaggerated affection—'I can’t stand him' might turn into 'I love him.' In a similar way, a boss may give a raise to an employee he is actually frustrated with.
7. Repression
Repression is the foundation of all the other defense mechanisms, and perhaps the most perplexing of them all. It is defined as 'Pushing painful or distressing thoughts and feelings into the unconscious mind.' There has been much debate about repressed memories, leading to numerous court cases. For example, a young girl may experience trauma, such as molestation, at an early age, and her memory of it could be repressed. She might forget the event entirely, only for the memory to resurface years later. However, there are cases where memories that resurface are fabricated or inaccurate. Repressed memories, therefore, are often unreliable and sometimes false. On the other hand, there have been instances where repressed memories were verified as accurate. It's important to approach repressed memories with caution.
Sources: Weiten, Wayne. Psychology: Themes and Variations. Thomson Wadsworth.
Contributor: GeorgeT
