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While teasing others often leaves them feeling hurt, lighthearted banter between romantic partners can surprisingly strengthen their bond and bring them closer together.
According to psychology professor Dacher Keltner, playful teasing allows couples to address sensitive topics they might otherwise avoid. It provides a way to express frustrations in a loving manner, fostering connection and understanding.
Couples who maintain strong relationships often use humor and playful teasing during conflicts. These lighthearted exchanges communicate, "Your habits might annoy me, but my love for you remains unchanged. We can resolve this together." Such interactions not only address issues but also reinforce their commitment to each other, often predicting the longevity of their relationship.
It’s important to distinguish teasing from mocking. Without genuine affection, teasing can come across as hurtful. If playful banter isn’t already part of your relationship, consider discussing it as a communication tool. While not essential, it can enhance your connection. For couples who already engage in teasing, rest assured it’s a healthy and beneficial dynamic.
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