Buzz
Regardless of gender, sexual orientation, political stance, or religious beliefs, certain everyday items can trigger thoughts of intimacy, whether consciously or subconsciously. This phenomenon, often referred to as arousal or 'getting turned on,' can cause physiological responses like an increased heart rate, quicker breathing, and heightened blood flow. Don’t be surprised if something as simple as a scented candle suddenly sparks a memory of a past romantic encounter. Below is a list of ten ordinary objects that have been known to evoke such reactions.
10. Video Game Controllers
With adjustable vibration settings? Interesting. During the chaotic times of 2020 and beyond, many people turned to hobbies, both new and old, to maintain their sanity. Gaming became a popular escape for men, women, and everyone in between. Picture this: you’re deep into a game, controller in hand, when your phone buzzes with a notification. You pause, place the controller on your lap, and check a funny Snapchat.
While distracted, your in-game character is ambushed by a mushroom-shaped enemy (think Goomba). The controller vibrates intensely in your lap, and suddenly, for no apparent reason, you’re reminded to text your partner about your plans to visit later.
9. “I Voted” Sticker
While not an everyday item, this object deserves attention. When is it ever a bad time to encourage voting? Plus, you should encounter this on every election day. Now that my editor is satisfied:
Few things stir the heart of a patriotic soul like spotting someone sporting an “I Voted” sticker. Witnessing someone of your preferred gender proudly displaying their civic participation can make November feel unexpectedly steamy. Admit it—seeing that sticker on someone at Starbucks on election day, radiating confidence, might just spark a moment of unexpected attraction. Your thoughts might even wander to the political intrigue of Washington DC.
In all seriousness, someone who cares about their community is undeniably appealing. Seeking a partner who is informed and invested in the future of the nation is perfectly natural. That little sticker might seem trivial, but the attraction it sparks? That’s your brain responding to a desirable trait.
8. Books
Sapiosexuality, a fairly common trait, refers to being sexually attracted to intelligence. What’s the classic indicator of intelligence? Books. For many, books can be incredibly alluring. Of course, it’s unlikely anyone frequents the public library for the thrill it might bring. However, when you step into a potential partner’s home for the first time and spot works by Maya Angelou, Mark Twain, or Tolkien on the coffee table, the attraction is undeniable.
7. Laundry
I’ve recently tried to make peace with the never-ending chore of laundry, but let’s be honest—it’s still a nightmare. However, when it’s someone else’s laundry, the story changes entirely.
Whether it’s a messy heap or a neatly folded pile, our brains can’t help but link our partner’s clothing—be it their figure-hugging boxer briefs or vintage granny panties—to fond memories. Even if they’re bundled up in multiple layers at the door, those clothes on the floor? They came off at some point, and that thought alone can be enough to spark desire.
6. Mirrors
Judging someone based on what arouses them is unfair. If you find yourself feeling excited after catching a glimpse of your nude reflection in a full-length mirror post-shower, embrace it. Is it narcissistic? Possibly, but not always. It’s more about our innate reaction to seeing nudity, even if it’s our own. The societal stigma around nakedness often stirs up thrilling emotions.
On the other hand, many struggle with negative body image. For them, mirrors might evoke the opposite reaction. Remember, no one scrutinizes your flaws more harshly than you do. You’ve spent countless hours fixating on imperfections—enlarged pores, uneven eyes, and more. This isn’t a sermon on positivity, but negative thoughts can breed negativity. Challenge yourself to identify one feature you admire about your body. Cultivate a habit of appreciating it each time you glance in the mirror, and this simple act might spark a newfound attraction.
5. Foam Rollers
Let’s clarify: it’s not the cylindrical shape of foam rollers that excites people—though, to each their own. For those unfamiliar, foam rollers are a staple for many. Few things compare to the soothing pressure of a foam roller gliding down your back, easing tension near your lower spine. After a grueling day, it’s pure relaxation. Regular use alleviates back pain, enhances flexibility, and optimizes muscle function, leaving you feeling invigorated and prepared for anything.
As highlighted in the Journal of Sports Physical Therapy, foam rolling “likely enhances your workout performance with improved, efficient, and safer techniques.” Considering the theme of this article, you can probably imagine the type of partner exercises that might pique your interest.
4. Shower Heads
There’s no hidden meaning or personality analysis here. Arousal often stems from physical stimulation of sensitive areas, and showerheads deliver just that. Their ability to excite is as direct as it gets. However, for those without handheld showerheads in their bathrooms, this might not be relevant.
Beyond their potential for arousal, handheld showerheads are simply enjoyable to use. When you finally get your hands on one, remember—you’re responsible for any accidental bathroom floods caused by a slight misdirection. Also, watch out for the water pressure. It can be a real shock!
3. Candles
Candles engage two senses crucial for arousal: sight and smell. Visually, the soft, flickering glow of candlelight creates an intimate ambiance, perfect for setting the mood during a shared meal. More impactful, however, is the scent. Our sense of smell is deeply tied to memory, and certain fragrances have been scientifically proven to evoke arousal.
While many of these scents are linked to natural body odors, they typically enhance arousal in later stages—long after the initial spark. By then, you’re already inches away from your partner, locked in an embrace. To reach that point, candles play a key role. Fragrances like vanilla, ginger, jasmine, Neroli, and Sandalwood, among others, set the tone. Light one of these aromatic candles, dim the overhead lights, and you’ve created the perfect setting for that intimate closeness.
2. Glasses
Glasses can be surprisingly alluring, much like the appeal of sapiosexuality. While it might seem counterintuitive to the idea of selecting genetically ideal mates, poor eyesight doesn’t deter some people. In fact, some find glasses attractive, often associating them with intelligence—as your mom’s yoga friend might say, “You look so scholarly.” Glasses can alter how others perceive your facial structure, creating an appealing illusion. If that illusion works, you’re unintentionally turning heads.
Poor vision becomes even less of a concern when paired with a stylish set of designer frames, which might suggest wealth or a keen sense of style. Spotting someone with such glasses in a Target checkout line can spark an unexpected and inappropriate level of excitement.
1. Candy
Move past suggestive imagery of lollipops—science has concrete evidence that specific candies can arouse you. Cocoa, the primary component of chocolate, acts as a vasodilator, enhancing blood circulation. While it’s not as strong as prescription medications, cocoa facilitates blood flow to key areas of the body. Beyond this, indulging in sweets triggers the release of serotonin and dopamine, the brain’s feel-good chemicals. Set the right mood, with or without a romantic partner, enjoy some chocolate, and there you have it—arousal strikes again.
