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The groom's first love was his mother.
George Doyle/ThinkstockA wedding reception is filled with heartfelt moments, but few are as emotionally powerful as the mother-son and father-daughter dances, second only to the bride and groom's first dance. Selecting the right song to capture the profound bond between parent and child creates a lasting memory.
When picking a song for the mother-son dance, focus on music that symbolizes the unique relationship between the two. It doesn’t need to be a family staple, but the title, lyrics, or melody should hold personal meaning and strike a chord with the audience. Here are 10 timeless classics to inspire your choice.
10: Bridge Over Troubled Water - Simon & Garfunkel
This emotional classic, which won the 1971 Grammy Awards for Song of the Year and Record of the Year, debuted in January 1970 and remained at the top of the charts for six weeks. It was the title track of Simon & Garfunkel's final collaborative album.
Featuring Art Garfunkel's powerful solo vocals, "Bridge Over Troubled Water" is an excellent choice for either a mother-son or father-daughter dance.
If you adore the lyrics of "Bridge Over Troubled Water" but want to hear different renditions, there are plenty of options. Our top pick is Elvis Presley's 1970 cover, available on his album, "That's The Way it Is."
9: Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler
Bette Midler's timeless song is sure to tug at your heartstrings.
Andrew H. Walker/Getty Images Entertainment/Getty ImagesPenned in 1982 by Jeff Silbar and Larry Henley, "Wind Beneath My Wings" gained fame in 1988 as the closing song for the film "Beaches." Initially intended as a romantic piece, this iconic Bette Midler track has evolved into a heartfelt ode to the uplifting force of love. Keep tissues handy—it's an emotional ride.
8: Stand by Me - Ben E. King
Ben E. King's heartfelt ode to love and loyalty is an ideal choice for a mother-son dance.
Doug McKenzie/Hulton Archive/Getty ImagesOriginally a gospel song by The Staples Singers, "Stand by Me" was reimagined by Ben E. King and released as a single in 1960, reaching number four on the U.S. charts. This marked King's first major solo success after leaving The Drifters. The song gained renewed popularity in 1986 when it was featured in the film "Stand By Me," blending a steady rhythm with heartfelt emotion.
7: Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
Penned by Diane Warren for the film "Up Close & Personal," "Because You Loved Me" earned the Best Song Written for a Motion Picture award at the 39th annual Grammy Awards in 1997. As one of Celine Dion's most iconic tracks, this song beautifully captures gratitude for unwavering support, making it a standout moment at any wedding reception.
While music is a powerful way to showcase your personality and preferences, always confirm with your chosen venue—whether a church, synagogue, or other location—to ensure your selections align with their guidelines and restrictions.
6: In My Life - The Beatles
The Beatles' 1965 classic remains timeless and beloved.
Photo by CBS Photo Archive/Getty ImagesA timeless gem, "In My Life" debuted in 1965 on The Beatles' "Rubber Soul" album. Both Paul McCartney and John Lennon considered it one of their finest works, and it earned the 23rd spot on Rolling Stone's list of the 500 Greatest Songs of All Time. Elegant and enduring, the song has become a cherished part of our cultural heritage.
5: Have I Told You Lately That I Love You?
This song has two well-known renditions: one by Van Morrison from his album "Avalon Sunset" and another by Rod Stewart from "Vagabond Heart." Both versions beautifully express a mother's love and a son's appreciation, making them suitable for any wedding style.
If you're considering hiring a band or DJ for your wedding, start researching and evaluating options at least a year in advance.
4: The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face - Roberta Flack
Mom will likely reach for a tissue when reminiscing about the first moment she laid eyes on her child.
ThinkstockRoberta Flack's "The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face," from her album "First Take," earned the 1973 Song of the Year Grammy Award. While it’s fundamentally a romantic love song, it also beautifully captures the depth of unconditional love in all forms. Certain lyrics poignantly evoke the emotions of a mother beholding her newborn for the first time. If Roberta Flack's version feels too intense, alternatives by Johnny Cash, Elvis Presley, Isaac Hayes, and Mel Torme are available.
3: Greatest Love of All - Whitney Houston
Originally the B-side to her single "You Give Good Love," "Greatest Love of All" from Whitney Houston's album "Whitney" soared to No. 1 on the U.S. pop charts in 1986. However, Houston wasn’t the first to recognize its potential. Penned by Michael Masser and Linda Creed, the song was first performed by George Benson in 1977 for a Muhammad Ali biopic.
While searching for mother-son dance songs, consider exploring father-daughter dance options as well. Many songs can work beautifully for both occasions.
2: What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
This jazzy classic will bring a touch of elegance and nostalgia to your celebration.
iStockPhoto/ThinkstockPenned by Bob Thiele and originally recorded in 1968, "What a Wonderful World" is a heartwarming favorite for weddings. Its timeless charm and subtle melancholy make it a sophisticated choice for a reception with a jazzy atmosphere. Perfect for a mother-son dance, it strikes the ideal balance between sentiment and grace.
1: Sunrise, Sunset - Steve Kirwan
No compilation of mother-son wedding songs would be complete without this timeless classic from the Broadway musical and 1971 film "Fiddler on the Roof." The song reflects on the passage of time, life's changes, and its profound moments. Even if show tunes aren’t your preference, the song’s relevance for a parent-child dance is undeniable. If it feels overused, remember that weddings honor tradition, and this song offers a poignant moment to reflect on life’s journey. Expect tears of joy from everyone in attendance.
Looking to select wedding music that reflects your individuality and taste? Many DJs are well-versed in jazz, classic hits, Broadway tunes, and other genres. They can assist in crafting a personalized playlist featuring songs you might not have considered on your own.
