
Whether you're a first-time mom or a seasoned parent, one thing unites all mothers: the need for more personal time. Carve out a moment from your hectic routine and treat yourself to a well-deserved escape -- whether it's a relaxing spa weekend or a romantic getaway with your partner.
5: Book a Spa Getaway
What could be more indulgent than a massage? Perhaps an entire weekend filled with massages, beauty treatments, and gourmet dining experiences.
The International Spa Association reports that 25% of Americans have visited a spa. If that sounds appealing, consider gathering your friends for a group treat or booking a solo retreat for some much-needed solitude. Spas offer a variety of services, including skincare, haircare, facials, manicures, pedicures, and other rejuvenating treatments.
Alternatively, reserve a weekend at a resort spa where you can explore hiking trails, take kayaking lessons, or simply connect with nature. (And don’t forget to cap it off with a soothing massage.)
4: Rediscover Yourself
Many mothers confess to prioritizing others over themselves. Escape to a unique weekend retreat where you’ll be compelled to focus on your own well-being.
Weekend retreats come in all shapes and sizes, and they’re located across the country (or even globally if you’re feeling adventurous). Many popular retreats focus on personal healing and growth, such as self-discovery, yoga, meditation, wellness, or spirituality. If those aren’t your style, there are also options centered on leadership, recreation, or intimacy.
You can even find specialized retreats that combine your hobbies, like wine tasting or birdwatching, with your weekend getaway.
If you need to stay nearby, consider attending a workshop at a local hotel or conference center. You might be surprised to find a luxurious retreat right in your own neighborhood.
3: Hen Fest
When was the last time you had a girls-only celebration? Maybe at your bachelorette party or during college sleepovers? Whether it’s a tropical beach with refreshing cocktails, a Vegas adventure, or a local shopping spree, it’s time to plan a weekend with your closest friends.
When organizing your girls' getaway, the destination matters less than the quality time spent together. Share stories about kids, partners, and personal lives, and enjoy a good laugh with your closest friends. This experience will lift your spirits, increase your happiness, and remind you that you’re more than just a mom.
2: Have a Romantic Escape with Your Partner
Try to recall the last time you and your partner enjoyed a romantic escape. Ideally, it’s a recent memory rather than something from before having kids or just after your honeymoon. While family time is precious, it’s equally important to carve out moments to reconnect with your partner one-on-one.
Treat yourselves to a luxurious romantic weekend: escape to a cozy bed and breakfast nearby or jet off for an exotic adventure. Most importantly, take the time to reminisce about what made you fall for each other in the first place.
Romance doesn’t always require travel—leave the kids with grandparents or friends and reignite the spark in the comfort of your own home.
1: Escape the Mess
With so much to do and so little time, wouldn’t you rather spend your hours with loved ones instead of scrubbing floors? Even if a weekend getaway isn’t possible, consider hiring a cleaning service for a few hours to give yourself a break from the chaos.
When you book a cleaning service, whether for a one-time deep clean or regular upkeep, they’ll typically ask detailed questions about your home and routines to provide an accurate estimate.
Make sure to research the service thoroughly. Are they licensed and insured? What cleaning products do they use? Do they bring their own equipment or rely on yours? Don’t forget to ask for references—personal recommendations can often lead you to the best options.