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Every Sunday afternoon, my eldest son and I have a special ritual: watching a movie that his younger sibling isn’t quite ready for. We began with the Toho Godzilla films and later explored live-action Disney classics, avoiding harsh language and graphic violence.
Having been traumatized by watching Poltergeist as a child, I’m acutely aware of how movies can impact young minds. When my dinosaur-loving son turned six, I felt he was ready for Jurassic Park. His mother and I warned him about certain words he shouldn’t repeat and assured him we’d stop the movie if it became too frightening. By the end, he was beaming with excitement.
Though I don’t actively seek out PG-13 films, my son and I occasionally watch them, always with a reminder about language and intensity (after thorough research on IMDb and Common Sense Media). If your kids are eager to dive into blockbuster cinema, here’s a curated list to begin with, many of which my son has personally approved.
Men in Black (1997)
Will Smith becomes part of a covert government organization tasked with defending Earth from extraterrestrial threats. Teaming up with Tommy Lee Jones, their adventures are packed with humor and action.
Why it might be OK: The film encourages viewers to see the world from a fresh perspective. The violence is largely exaggerated and comical, with aliens dissolving into goo when hit by oversized, futuristic weapons.
Why you might want to wait: The movie includes some mild profanity, a hint of suggestive humor, and a few startling moments involving an alien cockroach.
Where to stream: Roku, Digital rental
Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
A transformative serum turns the frail but virtuous Steve Rogers into the iconic superhero, Captain America, as he battles Nazi scientists bent on global domination.
Why it might be OK: When my seven-year-old expressed interest in Marvel films, this was my top recommendation. The protagonist embodies unwavering morality, never resorting to foul language or questionable actions.
Why you might want to wait: The film includes stylized comic-book action and a few romantic moments. Additionally, you may need to provide a brief explanation about the Nazis and World War II.
Where to stream: Disney+
The Lord of the Rings Trilogy (2001- 2003)
This epic trilogy chronicles the adventures of two hobbits on a quest to destroy a malevolent ring forged by a dark lord, traversing their world to save it from destruction.
Why it might be OK: Children will be inspired by the central message that even the smallest and most unassuming individuals can make a profound impact. Themes of unity, determination, environmentalism, and J.R.R. Tolkien’s Christian undertones have made this trilogy a timeless favorite.
Why you might want to wait: The hobbits frequently indulge in pipe smoking. Moreover, director Peter Jackson’s background in horror is evident in the graphic and imaginative ways orcs meet their end, which might be intense for younger viewers, alongside the trilogy’s considerable runtime.
Where to stream: Max
Jurassic Park (1993)
Steven Spielberg’s gripping adaptation of Michael Crichton’s novel explores the catastrophic consequences of blending science and commerce, as dinosaurs are brought back to life through genetic engineering.
Why it might be OK: Kids fascinated by dinosaurs will relate to Lex and Tim, the grandchildren of billionaire John Hammond. While they may notice the film’s scientific inaccuracies, it provides a thrilling glimpse into life 65 million years ago.
Why you might want to wait: The film places children in frequent danger as they are pursued by lifelike prehistoric creatures, though much of the violence is implied. Jeff Goldblum’s Dr. Malcolm engages in playful flirtation with Dr. Sattler (Laura Dern). The language is mild, with the word “shit” humorously referencing dinosaur droppings.
Where to stream: Prime Video
Spider-Man (2002)
Tobey Maguire portrays Peter Parker, a high schooler who learns that extraordinary abilities come with significant responsibility after being bitten by a radioactive spider.
Why it might be OK: Despite some fans criticizing Tobey Maguire’s Spider-Man for not producing his own webbing, he remains a symbol of resourcefulness and heroism, showcasing that true power lies in creativity and determination.
Why you might want to wait: The film includes themes of loss, intense action sequences, a memorable rain-soaked kiss, occasional mild language, and a questionable father figure offering dubious advice.
Where to stream: Netflix, Disney+
UHF (1989)
“Weird Al” Yankovic revitalizes a struggling television station with quirky and inventive programs such as “Wheel of Fish” and “Conan the Librarian.”
Why it might be OK: Beneath its absurd humor, this ‘80s film celebrates the boundless potential of creativity and imagination.
Why you might want to wait: The movie relies on outdated stereotypes for humor, including a parody of a sensational talk show that may need context. It also features exaggerated violence and implied harm to animals, though fans of “Weird Al” or humorous children’s books like Captain Underpants will likely find it harmless.
Where to stream: Prime Video, Pluto TV, Tubi, Roku
Real Steel (2011)
This film combines the spirit of Rocky with the excitement of Rock ‘Em Sock ‘Em Robots, while also exploring the emotional bond between a father and his son.
Why it might be OK: It’s a heartwarming tale of male bonding and a reminder that underdogs can triumph against the odds.
Why you might want to wait: The movie hints at an intimate relationship between characters without explicit scenes. It also features intense robot battles and occasional strong language unsuitable for younger audiences.
Where to stream: Amazon
Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl (2003)
A ghostly pirate crew aboard a cursed ship kidnaps the governor’s daughter, prompting her suitor to team up with a perpetually inebriated captain to save her.
Why it might be OK: Inspired by a beloved Disney ride, the film delivers swashbuckling adventure and humor, making it an entertaining choice for families.
Why you might want to wait: The movie features revealing costumes, references to adult themes, frequent depictions of drunkenness, and eerie skeletal pirates. Additionally, Johnny Depp’s eccentric portrayal of Captain Jack Sparrow might need some context for younger viewers.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Taylor Swift: The Eras Tour (2023)
This concert film captures one of the most iconic tours in music history, led by global pop sensation Taylor Swift.
Why it might be OK: It’s a more affordable alternative to navigating the challenges of Ticketmaster.
Why you might want to wait: The performance includes revealing costumes, mature language, and lyrics that touch on adult themes like drugs and relationships.
Where to stream: In theaters
Avatar (2009)
A soldier’s allegiance is challenged as he must decide between obeying his commands or defending the Na’vi, the native people of Pandora, a faraway moon.
Why it might be OK: This visually stunning epic carries a strong message about environmental conservation and respect for nature.
Why you might want to wait: While a “family-friendly” version on Disney+ removes some language, the film still contains intense action, depictions of smoking, alien nudity, and a scene hinting at intimacy.
Where to stream: Max, Disney+
Small Soldiers (1998)
A toy manufacturer incorporates military-grade technology into its action figures, leading to real-life battles between the toys and their adversaries.
Why it might be OK: The movie delivers a meaningful anti-war theme, wrapped in an entertaining and imaginative story.
Why you might want to wait: The film includes scenes of toy-on-toy violence, some involving power tools, and a moment where a toy drugs a parent’s drink. There’s also mild language and a playful scene where toy soldiers interact with doll-like figures.
Where to stream: Max
Star Wars: Episode VII - The Force Awakens (2015)
Taking place years after Return of the Jedi, a new galactic threat emerges, echoing the struggles of the past in a distant galaxy.
Why it might be OK: The film emphasizes inspiring messages: heroism can come from anyone, and redemption is always possible.
Why you might want to wait: The movie features intense space battles, a poignant death scene, and a frightening encounter with a rathtar. Additionally, introducing children to a franchise with a divisive fan culture might require some guidance, though avoiding online discussions can help.
Where to stream: Disney+
Twister (1996)
A group of storm chasers embarks on a thrilling journey through severe tornadoes to deploy their cutting-edge weather research tools.
Why it might be OK: The film offers an educational glimpse into meteorology and the science behind tornadoes.
Why you might want to wait: The movie includes suggestive humor, intense storm-related destruction, and a subplot about a couple navigating divorce, which may need context for younger viewers.
Where to stream: Hulu
The Addams Family (1991)
Inspired by the classic TV series and comics, this film follows the eccentric Addams family as they outwit swindlers attempting to steal the treasure hidden within their eerie mansion.
Why it might be OK: The movie celebrates the idea that family unity prevails, even in the most unconventional and quirky circumstances.
Why you might want to wait: The film includes playful innuendos, exaggerated dark humor, and occasional mild language.
Where to stream: Netflix
Bumblebee (2018)
This spin-off from the live-action series focuses on the iconic yellow Autobot as he searches for a new headquarters for his team while forming a bond with a human companion.
Why it might be OK: The film highlights themes of teamwork and unity, standing out as the best live-action Transformers movie without the offensive stereotypes seen in earlier entries.
Why you might want to wait: The movie includes action-packed violence, occasional language, and scenes depicting robot distress.
Where to stream: Paramount+
