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My American history teacher was the ideal educator every high school student wished for. During our lessons on Prohibition, she screened The Untouchables. When we explored the American experience in World War II, she utilized Come See the Paradise to illustrate the tragedies of Japanese internment camps.
Both movies carry an R-rating, so I kept it a secret from my parents. As a child, I was barred from watching films with this classification, save for a few exceptions like Backdraft and JFK. I never grasped the reasoning behind this restriction. These films didn’t corrupt my mind as my parents feared. Instead, they made historical lessons engaging and enjoyable.
Now, as a parent, I contemplate when I can emulate my history teacher by focusing less on a film's mature content and more on its educational or historical value. With this in mind, here’s a curated list of R-rated movies celebrated for their meaningful and impactful themes. While many include mature elements, it’s essential to research and determine the appropriate age for your child to watch them together.
Schindler's List (1993)
If educators aren’t already incorporating this gripping drama into their curriculum, they should consider it. Set during World War II, the film chronicles the efforts of a German businessman (Liam Neeson) to rescue over a thousand Jews from a concentration camp and almost certain death. It’s a deeply moving and necessary film, serving as a stark reminder of the importance of remembering history.
Where to stream: Digital rental
The Last of the Mohicans (1992)
Is your child scrambling to finish a book report at the last minute? Unless you want to end up writing it for them, introduce them to this cinematic gem about love and strife during the French and Indian War. Directed by Michael Mann and featuring Daniel Day-Lewis (and his iconic bare chest), this adaptation of James Fenimore Cooper’s novel stands out as the most thrilling. Just remind your child afterward that they’re supposed to write about the book, not the movie.
Where to stream: Tubi, Digital rental
Rumble Fish (1983)
S.E. Hinton, the author behind numerous young adult classics like The Outsiders
Where to stream: Digital rental
The Breakfast Club (1985)
This iconic '80s teen dramedy, a hallmark of the late John Hughes, set the standard for portraying high school social dynamics. The story revolves around a princess, an athlete, a delinquent, a nerd, and a basket case who bond during Saturday detention, discovering shared struggles after a bit of rebellious indulgence.
Where to stream: Freevee, Tubi, Digital rental
The Matrix (1999)
This revolutionary (and intensely graphic) sci-fi film delves into profound philosophical ideas about the mind, body, conformity, and class, offering young viewers thought-provoking themes to challenge societal norms.
Where to stream: Hulu, Max, Digital rental
Ghost World (2001)
When it comes to comic book adaptations, Ghost World, inspired by Daniel Clowes' work, epitomizes the quirky charm critics often praise. It also vividly portrays the aimlessness teens experience after high school graduation as they search for their place in the world.
Where to stream: Freevee, Tubi, Pluto TV, Digital rental
Girl, Interrupted (1999)
Winona Ryder and Angelina Jolie deliver compelling performances in this historical drama, based on the true story of a young woman institutionalized following a suicide attempt. Through clashes with staff and bonds with fellow patients, she navigates her struggles while shedding light on themes like dissent and gender bias, which remain relevant decades after the film's release.
Where to stream: Hulu, Digital rental
Fame (1980)
Experience the journey of students uncovering their exceptional talents. No, this isn’t X-Men—it’s Fame, the iconic musical that follows aspiring actors, singers, and dancers at New York City’s High School for the Performing Arts. While it may feel a bit dated, its message of chasing dreams and making your name shine "like a flame" resonates universally.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Dangerous Minds (1995)
This '90s drama, now perhaps best remembered for inspiring Coolio's hit "Gangsta's Paradise," tells the story of an ex-Marine turned inner-city teacher. She employs unconventional methods, from martial arts to Bob Dylan lyrics, to connect with her talented yet unmotivated students.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Stand By Me (1986)
While many suggested including The Shawshank Redemption—a truly remarkable film—it can be emotionally taxing to watch. Instead, consider this masterful Stephen King adaptation, directed by Rob Reiner, which explores themes of lost innocence and friendship. It follows four young boys on a quest to find a missing classmate's body, blending adventure with poignant storytelling.
Where to stream: Netflix, AMC+, Digital rental
Speed (1994)
This pick is personal. While I was rarely allowed to watch R-rated films growing up, my parents made an exception for this high-octane action movie. Decades later, it remains one of my all-time favorites.
This film doesn’t aim to teach a lesson—it’s pure entertainment. Revel in the adrenaline rush of a city bus racing through Los Angeles and the explosive chaos that follows. Speed is a testament to the joy of watching movies in theaters, surrounded by strangers, for a couple of unforgettable hours.
Where to stream: Starz, Digital rental
