Hearing "I'm bored" too often? Your tween might be ready for an after-school job.
iStockphoto/ThinkstockParenting tweens, typically aged 9 to 12, can be challenging. Are they still children, or are they becoming teens? Are they too young for freedom, or ready to take on responsibilities? And how much longer can you endure the constant refrain of "I'm bored"?
Introducing structured responsibilities, such as an after-school job, can be highly beneficial for preteens. Whether paid or unpaid, these roles can positively impact tweens who are transitioning from childhood to adolescence. After all, they're on the cusp of gaining independence, and there's only so much they can learn from texting between 3 and 6 PM.
Here are some after-school job ideas for preteens, both paid and unpaid, that they might be ready and eager to take on. We'll start with options that offer earning potential, so your tween can enjoy weekend movies with friends without dipping into your wallet.
Tween Jobs That Pay in Money
Babysitting is a great way for responsible tweens to step into the workforce.
Comstock/ThinkstockWith the rising costs of entertainment, it’s a perfect time for your tween to learn the value of money, time management, reliability, self-reliance, and a strong work ethic—skills essential for success in adulthood.
Even if your child is only 10 or 11, a paying after-school job isn’t out of reach. Labor laws allow them to earn money by assisting neighbors with various tasks. Here are some ideas to consider:
- Babysitting (ensure your tween is prepared for the responsibility!)
- Yard work (mowing, raking, weeding)
- Pet care (bathing, walking, cleaning litter boxes)
- House cleaning (vacuuming, dusting, washing first-floor windows)
- Car washing (conveniently in the neighbor’s driveway)
- Snow shoveling (seasonal work, naturally)
To find opportunities, you can distribute flyers, chat with neighbors, or use direct marketing (like leaving notes in mailboxes). Always vet employers and environments to ensure safety. Then, watch as your tween earns money, stays productive, and builds confidence through their work.
While learning to spend wisely is crucial, there are other valuable lessons too. If money isn’t the main focus, consider roles that instill a sense of service and community.
Tween Jobs That Pay in Experience
Volunteering may not provide spending money, but the lessons in character and responsibility are invaluable.
Comstock/ThinkstockWhile earning money is a solid motivation to work, making a positive impact on the community is an even more meaningful reason. Introducing your child to community service before they enter the self-focused teen years can be highly beneficial.
Securing a volunteer position for your tween is often easier than finding a paid job, and it’s just as effective in combating boredom and instilling a sense of responsibility.
Here are some volunteer opportunities for your aspiring helper:
- Help out at an animal shelter
- Spend time reading to elderly residents in a nursing home
- Read stories to young patients at a hospital
- Engage in volunteer activities organized by a church, synagogue, or mosque
Another unpaid yet highly enriching opportunity is an internship with a professional in a field your child is passionate about. While these roles can be harder to find, you might discover that a neighbor, such as a publisher, is seeking input on children’s book ideas a few afternoons a week.
