With Over a Decade of Wedding Planning Experience, Here Are 19 Dresses I’d Suggest for Any Wedding Guest

Hotels have always captivated me, and I find immense joy in being part of a lively environment. What I cherish most, however, is seeing loved ones gather to celebrate special moments—weddings being a prime example. When I realized the natural connection between weddings and hotels—and that planning such events is a legitimate profession—I embraced wedding planning as one of my most fulfilling career paths. 

Having spent 10 years as a wedding planner, one of my greatest joys is observing what guests wear to these celebrations. While some outfits can be quite unconventional (to put it mildly), most attendees arrive in stunning dresses that leave me eager to know their shopping secrets. 

Since wedding fashion is timeless, and I enjoy assisting people in choosing their outfits, I’m breaking down dress codes and recommending the perfect dresses for black-tie, cocktail, and destination events. Below, you’ll discover a range of styles, lengths, and patterns from Nordstrom, Nordstrom Rack, Anthropologie, and Birdy Grey—a favorite hidden gem for affordable fashion.

Black-Tie Wedding Guest Dresses

Couples don’t request black-tie attire to confuse their guests—I promise! However, I completely understand the uncertainty. Essentially, black-tie attire calls for a formal gown or tuxedo. For dresses, the length is crucial: floor-length is a must. While the formality might suggest a hefty price tag, that’s not always true. Birdy Grey offers stunning formal and bridesmaid dresses for around $100, and Nordstrom provides a variety of options starting at just $119, perfect for guests and mothers of the bride or groom. 

Birdy Grey Grace Convertible Dress

A few years ago, I stumbled upon Birdy Grey when invited to a black-tie wedding. While the brand specializes in bridesmaid dresses, their collection of elegant, floor-length styles perfectly suits black-tie wedding guests. Many of their dresses, including the Grace Convertible Dress, are priced at $109 or less. This versatile dress comes in 73 colors and patterns, featuring thoughtful details like a slit for ease of movement, adjustable straps for customizable wear, and nine styling options for the top fabric (halter, off-the-shoulder, one-shoulder, etc.). I received countless compliments on my dress and appreciated its affordability. 

Alex Evenings Embellished Lace A-Line Evening Gown

A floor-length lace gown adorned with embellishments is an excellent choice for a black-tie wedding, making this Alex Evenings design a must-consider option for guests or mothers of the bride or groom. The lace features intricate rosettes, complemented by scattered sparkles for added elegance and uniqueness. With its jewel neckline and short sleeves, you can wear your preferred bra without worrying about undergarment issues. Available in navy, brush periwinkle, violet blue, eggplant, and merlot. 

• Eliza J Sequin Ruffle Sleeveless Lace Trumpet Gown, $248; nordstrom.com
• Betsy & Adam V-Neck Cascade Ruffle High-Low Gown, $249;
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• Birdy Grey Hannah Empire Dress, $99; birdygrey.com
• Petal & Pup Naira Pleated Maxi Dress, $119; nordstrom.com

Cocktail Wedding Guest Dresses

Cocktail attire for wedding guests is often simpler to navigate due to its flexible dress code. While you still need to dress elegantly, cocktail wedding guest dresses offer more versatility: mini, midi, and maxi dresses are all suitable. Nordstrom Rack is a treasure trove for budget-friendly options, including jumpsuits, and even Target offers a chic slip dress that looks far more expensive than its $25 price tag.

Adrianna Papell Sleeveless Mikado Fit and Flare Midi Dress

Adrianna Papell dresses are always a hit, and this mikado dress exudes Grace Kelly elegance. Designed to fall just below the knee, it features a stunning high neckline that stands out on its own or pairs beautifully with a statement necklace. Additional details include box pleats, functional pockets, and an eye-catching V-back design. This midi dress, made from 100 percent polyester, is available in vibrant Neptune blue for under $200.

A New Day Midi Slip Dress

Target never fails to surprise with its hidden treasures, and this A New Day Midi Slip Dress is a prime example. Perfect for wedding guests, it’s priced at just $25 and comes in four versatile colors and patterns: classic black, burgundy, sage, and black with bows. Designed for effortless wear, the dress boasts a lightweight feel and adjustable straps for added comfort. Pair it with stilettos, kitten heels, or strappy sandals for a complete look.

• Adrianna Papell Belted Sleeveless Lace Midi Dress, $159; nordstrom.com
• Nina Leonard Solid Tie-Waist Jumpsuit, $30 (was $64); nordstromrack.com
• Lush Pleated Satin Midi Dress, $60 (was $120); nordstromrack.com
• Kensie Embroidered Mesh Cocktail Midi Dress, $70 (was $148); nordstromrack.com
• Maggy London Ruffle Mock Neck Sheath Dress, $55 (was $128); nordstromrack.com

Destination Wedding Guest Dresses

If you’re on the hunt for a destination wedding guest dress, I must admit: I’m incredibly envious. Destination weddings are my favorite—they’re lively, celebratory, and feel like a vacation shared with your closest friends and family. When I think of traveling for a wedding, beach celebrations come to mind, so I’ve curated a selection of dresses perfect for sandy shores and sparkling turquoise waters. 

By Anthropologie Sleeveless Halter A-Line Midi Dress

Guests often rave about Anthropologie for its unique silhouettes and stunning patterns, and this sleeveless halter A-line midi dress from their in-house line, By Anthropologie, is no exception. The dress features a watercolor-like print, ideal for ocean-side weddings. The halter neckline and criss-cross seams add a touch of elegance, while the midi length ensures it won’t drag in the sand, whether you’re in heels or barefoot. At just $168, it looks far more luxurious than its price suggests.

Petal & Pup Amren Floral One-Shoulder Tiered Asymmetric Dress

Patterned dresses are a favorite of mine for any event, but they feel especially fitting for destination weddings. This Petal & Pup Amren tiered dress features a charming floral print, and I’m particularly drawn to its delicate one-shoulder strap, waist tie, and unique asymmetrical ruffles. The best part? It’s just $79. 

• Petal & Pup Cali Pleated One-Shoulder Maxi Dress, $99; nordstrom.com
• Adrianna Papell Mixed Media Tiered Cocktail Midi Dress, $245; nordstrom.com
• Nina Leonard Smocked Maxi Dress, $30 (was $64); nordstromrack.com
• Astr The Label Revery Long-Sleeve Cutout Maxi Dress, $178; anthropologie.com

Now that you’ve decoded the wedding dress code and chosen your outfit, the excitement builds as you count down to showcasing your new look—and finding the perfect gift for the happy couple. Cheers to a wonderful celebration!