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Following the recent demise of dictator Kim Jong-Il, global focus has shifted to North Korea, ironically titled the Democratic People’s Republic of Korea. This makes it a fitting moment to highlight its dynamic neighbor, South Korea. Sandwiched between China, the planet’s most populous nation, Japan, the cultural epicenter of East Asia, and North Korea, the world’s most peculiar militaristic state, South Korea frequently gets overshadowed. Yet, this extraordinary country merits far greater recognition. Despite its many virtues, numerous myths persist about South Korea, where I currently reside. Having undergone significant cultural adjustments myself, I believe sharing these insights could be enlightening. Enjoy!
10. Koreans Love Americans
When inquiring about South Korea, the average American often references the Korean War. The notion that the U.S. played the role of heroic saviors, earning eternal gratitude, is far from accurate. Many South Koreans view the war as a proxy conflict between the USA and the USSR, with their nation serving as a pawn. Post-war, the presence of American troops has sparked significant social issues, leading to widespread criticism. Notable incidents include the 2002 tragedy where a U.S. armored vehicle killed two middle school girls and the 2011 case where Pfc. Kevin Flippin broke into a home and repeatedly assaulted an 18-year-old South Korean girl.
9. Polluted Waste Land
Conversations with older Koreans often reveal stories of the post-Korean War era. They recount how mountains were stripped of trees, food was scarce, and children succumbed to harsh conditions. Today, however, South Korea boasts the 15th highest GDP globally, reflecting its remarkable transformation. The country is highly developed, with vibrant neon lights illuminating its cities. The air quality is generally good, and the mountainous scenery is breathtaking. While China is nearby, South Korea is distinctly different. The clip above features Arirang, a deeply emotional national song cherished by both South and North Koreans.
8. Packed Full of People
Many envision South Korea as a sea of black-haired individuals crowding sidewalks or bustling in and out of trains. While it can be overwhelming to find yourself in a packed subway car, this isn’t the reality everywhere. The population is heavily concentrated in the Seoul area, but this represents only a fraction of the country. Regions like Jeju Island and Gangwon Province offer stunning natural beauty and are far less densely populated.
7. Fear of the North
My parents frequently urge me to return home, citing alarming news reports from North Korea that threaten to 'reduce Seoul to dust.' However, South Koreans don’t react with panic, loot stores, or build escape boats in response to such threats. Imagine a bully who has been threatening you for 50 years but has rarely acted on those threats—how fearful would you remain? This is particularly striking given that North and South Korea are technically still at war, as only an armistice (a temporary ceasefire) has been signed, not a peace treaty.
6. Buddhist
You might be surprised, as I was, to discover that South Korea’s religious landscape is approximately 22% Buddhist, 29% Christian, 46% Atheist, and the remaining 3% divided among various other faiths. Walking through Seoul, the glowing red crosses atop nearly every church are impossible to miss. Notably, Yoido Full Gospel Church holds the title of the world’s largest congregation, boasting around one million members. While Buddhism once played a significant role in Korean history, its influence has waned, struggling to maintain relevance in the face of South Korea’s rapidly expanding Christian population.
5. Thin
I once told my friends that, excluding sumo wrestlers, I had never encountered an overweight Asian. I assumed all South Koreans were slender, rice-eating, kimchi-loving health enthusiasts. However, this isn’t entirely accurate. Following the economic surge in the 1970s, South Korea embraced numerous fast-food chains and pizza franchises. Unsurprisingly, these Western imports have significantly impacted waistlines. Despite this, Koreans (alongside the Japanese) remain the slimmest population globally on a per capita basis.
4. Submissive Women
If you imagine Korean women as quiet homemakers cooking meals and cleaning while men work traditional nine-to-five jobs, think again. While South Korea is indeed a patriarchal society, Korean women are far from powerless. The ajumma (a term for married Korean women) is famously strong-willed and assertive. For instance, on a crowded subway, an ajumma will go to great lengths to secure a seat. Although husbands may be the primary breadwinners, they aren’t necessarily the decision-makers at home. Wives typically manage finances and oversee household matters, holding significant authority.
3. Irish of Asia
This comparison often highlights a fiery temperament, a culture of heavy drinking, and a history of being overshadowed by a powerful neighbor. While Korea and Japan share a tumultuous past akin to Ireland and England, the two are not identical. Historically, Korea experienced extended periods of prosperity and stability, particularly during the Joseon Dynasty. South Koreans do have a deep appreciation for alcohol, and their temperament is often described as more fiery compared to the Japanese. Both Japan and England have labeled their neighbors as wild and reckless, though these stereotypes likely stem more from cultural bias than factual accuracy.
[JFrater: If you want to read more about daily life in South Korea, check out Eat Your Kimchi. I know Simon and Martina personally and can vouch for the fact that you will get many many hours of pleasure out of their video blog.]
2. Dominated by China or Japan
Korea’s geographical position between the military giants of Japan and China has undoubtedly been challenging. Historically, Korea has clashed with both nations and, contrary to popular belief, often emerged victorious. For over five centuries during the Joseon Dynasty, Korea maintained its independence. The Koreans developed advanced military technology, including the iron-clad warship, which proved highly effective in naval battles, and the Hwacha, a weapon capable of launching 100-200 flaming arrows at enemies. The dynasty’s decline came only after Japan, armed with modern Western weaponry, overpowered it. Today, Koreans take immense pride in preserving their unique cultural heritage.
1. Studious
South Korea ranks 7th on the United Nations Education Index, and for good reason. Education is taken very seriously here. President Obama once highlighted the 13-hour school days of South Korean children. However, he didn’t mention that public education in South Korea is quite similar to that in the USA. Students who spend extensive hours in classrooms often come from families who can afford after-school programs and private academies. Wealthy parents in Seoul and nearby regions typically have highly studious children, though this isn’t always the case. Many Korean students rebel against the demanding education system, opting for jobs after middle school. The stereotype of Koreans being studious likely stems from the influx of exchange students from affluent families into Western countries. With the average monthly income in South Korea being $2300, many families with multiple children cannot afford the extra expenses of private education.
