1. Pacifier, Real Milk
Most babies are resistant to using a bottle because they can detect the difference in taste between formula milk and breast milk. To ease the transition to bottle-feeding, mothers can try expressing their breast milk and putting it in a bottle for the baby. This way, the baby will recognize the familiar taste of breast milk and gradually become comfortable with bottle feeding without feeling forced.
However, it's important to note that breast milk contains sugars (both simple and complex) and proteins (various amino acids) that are essential for a child's development and easy absorption. These components are highly nutritious but also prone to fermenting and spoiling quickly outside of the body, which creates an environment where bacteria can thrive. If the milk becomes contaminated and is consumed, it can cause digestive issues like diarrhea. Therefore, before using the bottle, always clean it with warm water and let it dry. When pouring breast milk into the bottle, leave some space at the top, and avoid storing milk in damaged or cracked bottles. Proper storage will ensure that breast milk remains safe for the baby’s health.


2. Adding Formula Milk to the Diet
Although health experts recommend that breast milk be the sole source of nutrition for infants until they start solid foods (usually around six months, depending on the child's readiness), parents may choose to supplement with formula milk to ensure that the child receives adequate nutrients for proper development.
During the weaning process for children over the age of one, you can introduce formula milk alongside breast milk. Depending on your child’s preference, you may select different types of formula, cow’s milk, or plant-based milks like almond or soy milk. Combining these milk options will help the child get the nutrition they need while also reducing the frequency of breastfeeding. After six months, experts recommend that babies consume between 540-960ml of formula milk per day, divided into three meals.


3. Applying Bitter/Spicy Substances on Mother's Nipple
Many mothers share a simple method to wean their child: applying bitter or spicy substances like menthol oil or Becberin ointment on the nipple. Menthol oil has a strong, bitter taste, and when the baby sucks, they immediately experience this sensation and will refuse to nurse. This is an effective weaning method.
Alternatively, mothers can try applying cloxit, a bitter medicine, to the nipple. This medicine can be purchased at pharmacies, then crushed and mixed with clean water to form a thick paste to apply to the nipple. The bitterness is intense, but it is completely safe for the baby. When the baby sucks, they will quickly spit it out due to the bitterness, and some babies might even cry. To gradually discourage nursing, mothers should apply this remedy 2-3 times during the baby's regular feeding times.


4. Using Herbal Remedies to Reduce Milk Production
Using herbal remedies to reduce milk production, such as jasmine flowers, mint leaves, bitter herbs, parsley, betel leaves, mulberry leaves, and others, can help decrease milk supply. As the milk gradually decreases, the baby will notice and eventually lose interest in breastfeeding. Betel leaves, in particular, are widely known as a powerful remedy for reducing milk production, so mothers are often advised to avoid using them during breastfeeding to prevent disrupting milk supply.
Sage is also a popular herb in this category due to its natural estrogen content, which helps reduce milk production over time. To use sage, you can brew it as tea. First, boil some water, pour it into a cup, and add a few sage leaves. Let it steep for 5-7 minutes, strain the leaves, and add some milk or honey to improve the taste.


5. Getting Used to Not Breastfeeding
Separating the mother and baby can also be an effective method for weaning. Mothers can leave the baby with grandparents for a while, or go to work early and return home late, so the baby won't see the mother and demand to breastfeed. In the beginning, the baby may cry and ask for the mother, but after 2-3 days, the baby will gradually adjust to the absence of the mother.
During this period, the mother must be patient and help the baby adapt by distracting them with toys, going for walks, or playing with others. This way, the baby will be easily distracted and less likely to ask for the breast. The baby will play with grandparents or the father and be fed solid food, gradually getting used to feeding from a bottle. After some time, the baby will no longer ask for breastfeeding.


6. Using the Shy Herb
One of the most effective methods to wean a baby is using a herb known as the Shy Herb or Mimosa Pudica. This herb has numerous amazing benefits and has been used for generations, particularly for babies who are difficult to wean.
This herb is dark in color and has a slightly bitter taste. It is widely available in pharmacies. To use it for weaning, mothers simply crush the herb into a powder, mix it with water to form a thick paste, and apply it to the breast. When the baby demands to nurse, they will refuse due to the change in the color and taste of the milk. The baby will eventually get hungry and ask for food. Mothers can allow the baby to eat solid food or feed from a bottle for a few days, and the baby will gradually become accustomed to it.


7. Disguising the Breast
This is a simple method that many mothers have successfully used. However, a small note when using this technique is that mothers should explain the change to the baby in a gentle and fun manner so that the baby understands and stops wanting to nurse, avoiding scaring the baby.
Mothers can draw scary shapes on the breast, use lipstick to color the nipple, wear their usual face masks over the breast, or even tie messy hair around the nipple, making the baby afraid to nurse anymore. Another simpler option is to use tape to disguise the nipples. All you need is a piece of black tape to cover the nipples. In the evening or when the baby asks to nurse, apply the tape, and the baby will feel confused and scared by the sight of the taped breast, thus stopping the demand for nursing.


8. Reducing or Shortening Nursing Sessions
You should begin limiting the duration of breastfeeding sessions. If you typically nurse your child for ten minutes, try cutting it down to five minutes. You can replace breast milk with formula or whole milk (if your child is at least one year old). Additionally, reduce the number of feedings gradually over a few weeks to help your child adjust. Your milk supply will naturally decrease over time with this method, without causing engorgement or mastitis.
If your child nurses multiple times a day, you may try skipping some feedings. If you're ready to wean, a helpful rule of thumb is to eliminate one feeding every 3-5 days. This approach will work best if your child is a bit older. If your child requests to nurse, calmly distract them with a different activity.


9. Introducing a Pacifier Early
Nutrition experts recommend offering a pacifier to your baby at around three months old, in addition to breastfeeding. Introducing a pacifier early can help with weaning later on, as it helps your baby adjust to being away from the breast and speeds up the weaning process.
You can purchase pacifiers available in the market for your baby to use to mimic the feeling of breastfeeding. This will help your baby forget about nursing and reduce the frequency of breastfeeding requests. However, it's important to choose pacifiers that are safe for your baby during use. Additionally, avoid overusing pacifiers, as this could negatively impact your baby's health in the long term.


10. Offering Multiple Meals Throughout the Day
Even when babies are full, they may still enjoy sucking on the breast to stay close to their mother. To wean the baby more quickly, mothers can try some of the previously mentioned methods. If the baby is no longer asking for the breast after being full, weaning can be achieved by having the father or grandparents feed the baby multiple meals throughout the day to prevent hunger, thus reducing the likelihood of asking for breast milk.
In addition to helping the baby wean, introducing solid food provides more nutrition and helps the baby get used to eating solids, which keeps them fuller longer and decreases the craving for milk, ultimately reducing the frequency of breastfeeding. To encourage better eating, offer easily digestible foods to avoid the baby feeling bored and asking for breast milk again. You can explore baby food recipes to enrich the menu and ensure the necessary nutrients.


