1. Forgiving Others Creates Positive Energy for Yourself
Nelson Mandela spent 27 years imprisoned, enduring all forms of abuse. When he became president, he invited the three prison guards who had mistreated him to meet with him. At that moment, everyone fell silent. He said, “When I walked out of prison, I made a clear decision: if I hold on to all the pain and resentment, I would be no different than if I were still in prison.”
Insight: Forgiving others is, in fact, a way to elevate yourself.
2. Not Taking Risks Is the Biggest Risk
A person asked a farmer, “Do you grow barley?”
Farmer: “No, I’m afraid it might not rain.”
Then the person asked, “Do you grow cotton?”
Farmer: “No, I’m afraid insects will eat all the cotton.”
So the person asked, “What do you grow then?”
Farmer: “I grow nothing. I need to ensure safety.”
Insight: A person who is unwilling to take risks and face challenges will accomplish nothing.
3. You Don’t Fail Because of Weaknesses, But Because of Your Strengths
Three people left their homes: one carried an umbrella, another a cane, and the last one walked with nothing. When they returned, the umbrella bearer was soaked, the cane bearer was injured, but the one with nothing was unharmed. The reason was simple: when it rained, the umbrella bearer walked boldly and got wet; the cane bearer, while trying to walk confidently, kept falling in the muddy path. The one with nothing simply took shelter when it rained and walked carefully when the path was rough, and thus avoided harm.
Insight: Often, we don’t fail because of our shortcomings, but because we rely too heavily on our strengths.
4. Life Changes When We Change
A black crow was flying along its path when it met a pigeon on its way home.
The pigeon asked, "Where are you headed?"
The crow replied, "I don’t really want to go anywhere, but everyone complains about my voice, so I feel I must leave."
The pigeon responded, "What a waste! If you don’t change your call, no matter where you go, you will never be welcomed."
Insight: If you hope for everything to improve, start by changing yourself.
5. The Way We Think Matters Most
A family had three sons who grew up witnessing constant arguments between their parents, and their mother often bore the scars of these fights. The eldest son said, "Poor mom! I will treat my wife well when I grow up."
The second son said, "Marriage doesn’t mean anything, I will never marry when I’m older!"
The youngest son said, "So it’s normal for a husband to beat his wife like this?"
Insight: Even with the same circumstances, different ways of thinking lead to very different lives.
6. Forgiving Others Is a Way to Free Yourself
A wild boar and a horse were grazing together. The boar often caused trouble, either trampling the grass or muddying the water.
The horse grew very angry and wanted revenge, so it sought help from a hunter. The hunter agreed, but only if the horse allowed him to ride it. The hunter rode the horse, hunted the boar, and then tied the horse up in the stable, taking away its freedom.
Insight: If you can't forgive others easily, you will only bring unhappiness upon yourself.
7. The Launching Pad Is Also an Important Factor
A person riding a bicycle struggles for an hour, covering only about 10 kilometers.
Another person driving a car accelerates for an hour, covering 100 kilometers.
A person on a high-speed train could sleep for an hour and still travel 300 kilometers.
A person flying on an airplane could eat a meal for an hour and travel 1,000 kilometers.
Insight: Even if it's the same person, working just as hard, different launching pads will lead to very different results.
8. The Failure
He desired a computer worth 30 million VND, but his monthly salary was only 6 million VND. His wife told him, 'You're crazy. If you buy it, we’ll divorce.' He asked me what to do.
I said, 'You don’t deserve that computer. If you can’t even summon the courage to pursue something you want, what will you achieve in life?'
He gritted his teeth and bought it. To repay the debt, he worked extra hours. Eventually, within a month, he had cleared the debt. His wife didn’t divorce him, despite his impulsive decision.
Later, she took him to buy a BMW, saying, 'Let’s borrow money and get a BMW.' He was shocked, thinking his wife had gone mad.
One year later, he had paid off the car loan.
Lesson: If you can’t even muster the courage to pursue what you desire, then you are doomed to failure.
9. The Important Person
Two horses each pulled a cart. One raced ahead, while the other lagged behind, lazily grazing. The owner noticed this and moved all the cargo from the back of the cart to the front. The lazy horse laughed, 'Ha ha! The harder I work, the more I suffer!'
Little did he know, the owner thought, 'Why do I need two horses to pull a cart? One will suffice.'
As a result, the lazy horse was slaughtered. This is the economic theory known as the 'lazy horse effect.'
Lesson: If others feel that your presence is neither necessary nor impactful, your removal will soon follow.
10. The Customer's Time is Your Money
At a night market, two noodle stalls were side by side, each offering similar layouts. One year later, Stall A's owner had enough money to buy a house, while Stall B's owner was struggling. Why?
Initially, Stall B sold noodles well, but the noodles were too hot to eat, requiring customers to wait for 15 minutes before finishing a bowl. In contrast, Stall A cooled the noodles for 30 seconds in cold water before serving, making them just the right temperature.
Lesson: Saving time for your customers brings in money faster.
