1. Reference Essay 4


2. Reference Essay 5


3. Reference Essay 6


4. Reference Essay 7
In life, everyone makes mistakes. I made one that has haunted me, especially when it affected one of my closest friends.
Nam and I had been best friends since kindergarten. When we started elementary school, I was the only one in the neighborhood who went to school in the outskirts, while everyone else, including Nam, attended Ngoc Son Primary School. As the school year began, we became busier, and it was rare for us to meet up like we did in the past.
One day, our teacher assigned us an essay on describing a beach. I sat there, chewing on my pen, unable to come up with a single sentence. Although I was class president, I had always struggled with literature, and each time I had to write an essay, I had to rack my brain to come up with just one sentence. After hours of trying to come up with something, an idea suddenly struck me: 'Why don’t I ask Nam for help? Literature is his strong suit!' So, I dashed over to Nam’s house. As I reached the gate, I was about to ring the bell when I heard Nam's mother call out:
- Thương, come in and play, dear.
I gently pushed open the iron gate and entered. Suddenly, a shadow darted toward me. As I looked closer, I saw Rex, Nam’s Alaska dog, the same dog that used to join us on our little adventures. Rex nudged my leg with his head and led me inside. Although it had been a while since I visited, the house looked exactly the same. When Nam’s mother saw me, she said:
- Wait a moment, Nam will be right down.
- Okay! - I replied.
A moment later, Nam came down. He had grown taller since starting elementary school. Seeing me, Nam seemed quite surprised:
- Oh, Thương, it’s been so long! I was actually planning to come over to your house. There’s something I need to tell you.
Preoccupied with my essay, I didn’t pay much attention to what Nam said and quickly urged him:
- Yeah, we’re all busy with school now. Let’s talk later. Right now, can you help me with my essay? I need to turn it in tomorrow.
Nam’s mother entered with a plate of fruit, saying:
- You two go ahead and study, I’ll speak with Thương’s mom to let her know you’re staying over, okay?
- Yes, thank you! - I answered.
Nam’s study room was spacious. In front of the bookshelf was a tidy study corner. While enjoying the fruit, I noticed a black notebook on the desk. Curiosity got the best of me, and I picked it up. As I glanced around, Nam had gone to get his books, so I opened it. The first page read: 'My thoughts on life.' It was Nam’s diary. I hesitated, wondering whether I should read it, but since we were close friends, and he had stepped out, I figured it’d be okay to read a little. With that thought, I eagerly flipped to the second page:
“September 27, 2011
It’s raining again today, and my dad is on a business trip, so I can’t go get ice cream. But if I could, I would definitely invite Thương, my best friend.”
For some reason, the diary was captivating, almost as if it had some kind of magic. So, I flipped to the next page:
“September 28, 2011
It’s so boring. It’s still raining, but what makes me more upset is that my parents had an argument today, and I don’t know why. I just hope the rain stops tomorrow so I can go get ice cream.”
Suddenly, I was startled when Nam appeared right in front of me. I could see the anger on his face. He shouted:
How could you do this?
I froze, trembling, and dropped the diary. Flustered, I stammered:
- I… I…
In a panic, I rushed out of his house. When I got home, I tried to calm myself and wondered why I couldn’t control my curiosity. That night, I couldn’t sleep, and my mind was filled with questions: “Should I apologize to him?” “If I do, will he still be my friend?”
The next day, I went to school as usual and handed in the poorly written essay I had finished the night before. Fortunately, our teacher hadn’t collected the papers yet. As the bell rang signaling the end of the school day, I headed home, my mind restless. I was still thinking about what happened and wanted to go over to Nam’s house to apologize. However, when I entered my room, I found a letter. After reading it, I was stunned. It was from Nam. He wrote to apologize for losing his temper the previous night and explained that his family was moving to Canada. He had planned to tell me that morning but hadn’t had the chance. I immediately rushed to Nam’s house, but it was locked. I realized too late that I should have been the one to apologize, and now, I would never get the chance to see him again. Perhaps life in Canada kept him busy, and since then, I have not been able to contact him.
Now, all I wish for is that I could turn back time to fix the mistakes I made in my childhood.


5. Reference Essay 8
Memorable moments are events or situations that leave a lasting impression on us. These memories are not always joyful or full of praise; sometimes, they are sad or stem from unfortunate events. I too have such a memory, one that I can never forget. It happened when I was involved in an accident while on my way home from school. Although it wasn't a happy experience, it has left a strong imprint in my mind.
Life is not only about happiness and hope; sometimes, unexpected challenges and difficulties come our way, ones that we can’t anticipate. The incident I experienced on my way home from school might seem minor, but it left me terrified and shaken. That day was like any other. I, along with my friends, rode our bicycles to school. We had afternoon classes, so we left around noon when the streets were usually quiet. Since it was a time of rest for most, we tended to ride in pairs or groups, chatting and laughing along the way.
We knew it could be risky, but our habits kept us from changing. However, the incident that occurred that day made me realize how important it is to be mindful of our safety. That afternoon, I was riding with a few friends, and we were riding in our usual formation. We were so caught up in our conversation and laughter that we didn’t pay much attention to our surroundings. Suddenly, a bicycle came speeding toward us, and due to a lack of control over the brakes, it crashed into the back of my bike. The force of the impact sent both me and my bike crashing into a shallow ditch by the roadside.
The fall was hard, and I landed awkwardly on the ground. My leg was sore, and I couldn’t move it. My bicycle had broken into pieces, and my school bag was scattered all over. At that moment, I was terrified. It was the first time I had experienced such a horrifying accident. Although my injuries were not severe, the fear I felt that day haunted me. For days after, I couldn’t bring myself to touch a bicycle again, and my parents had to take me to school.


6. Reference Essay 9
I have a childhood friend named Phuong. We've grown up together, played, studied, and shared many childhood memories, both happy and sad. One particular memory I have with Phuong stands out—it was the time I had an accident while riding my bike.
I remember it clearly. We were both in third grade, studying in the same class and living nearby, so we always walked to school together. One morning, as we were chatting and enjoying our walk, a motorcycle sped by recklessly, swerving and weaving in and out of traffic. Phuong and I had moved to the side of the road to avoid the vehicle, but despite our efforts, the motorcycle collided with my bike. I lost control, and both my bike and I fell onto the road. The rider didn’t even stop to check on us; they just sped off. I was in pain and also furious. Phuong rushed over to help me up, getting me to the side of the road and picking up my bike. Concerned, Phuong brushed the dirt off my clothes and checked to see if I was injured. When he saw that I was hurt, he parked my bike at a nearby house and insisted on taking me to school. On the way, he kept asking, 'Does it hurt a lot?' and was determined to take me to the school nurse. I was deeply moved by his caring nature and thoughtfulness. Phuong was the kind of friend who would sacrifice for others, and I silently thanked him for being such a good friend.
Whenever I think about that memory, I realize just how rare and precious Phuong's friendship is. That incident taught me to appreciate him more, and I’ve learned to cherish and nurture the beautiful bond we share.


7. Reference Essay 10
The person I cherish the most in my family is my grandfather. Although he is no longer with us, he taught me many invaluable lessons that helped me grow into who I am today.
Our home has a large garden, which my grandfather meticulously cared for. The trees in the garden thrived year-round, and the fruit-bearing plants yielded sweet fruit every season. Each morning, my grandfather would tend to the garden, and I would follow him, eager to help water the plants. He also taught me how to listen to the sounds of the garden. 'Close your eyes and feel the movements around you to discover the magic,' he would say. I could hear the rustling of the wind through the leaves, the cheerful chirping of the birds, and the gentle sway of the fruit hanging from the branches. My grandfather also shared with me how to take care of various plants, from fruit trees like longan, guava, and oranges, to ornamental plants such as orchids and roses. Though I couldn't remember all of the lessons, I always listened attentively to him.
After watering the plants, my grandfather and I would sit together under the shade of the trees. He would tell me fascinating stories, not fairy tales like my grandmother used to, but real-life stories from his past. I would listen carefully, feeling the essence of the experiences he shared. Life was hard back then, and as I watched my grandfather's gentle eyes, I could tell he was reminiscing about a time long gone.
Through his stories, I grew and learned. I am deeply thankful for the time I spent with my grandfather, as he taught me so many valuable lessons. From the bottom of my heart, I love and respect him immensely.


8. Reference Essay 11
The role of family is incredibly important, and for me, that is especially true. The person I love the most in my family is my mother.
My mother is a simple woman, but she has made extraordinary sacrifices for me. My parents separated when I was very young, and I lived with my mother. She had to play the role of both a mother and a father. Thanks to her boundless love, she filled the emotional gap left by my father.
I remember when I was in eighth grade, I went to visit my best friend Hồng. We played so much that I lost track of time, and by the time I got home, it was already dark. I thought to myself that my mother would surely scold me. However, when I walked into the house, I found it quiet. There was a steaming bowl of rice and soup on the table, but my mother was nowhere to be seen. I ate my meal, but my mind was filled with worry. I quietly went to my mother's room and found her lying in bed. I gently called out, “Mom!” but received no response. Feeling concerned, I rushed to her side and touched her. She was burning up with fever.
Suddenly, I felt a mix of fear and regret. I blamed myself for being so careless, playing when my mother was working so hard, and despite being sick, she still managed to cook for me. I quickly calmed myself and ran to get a cold towel to place on her forehead. I also made some instant porridge and bought her some medicine. A little while later, she seemed to feel better and woke up. I urged her to eat the porridge and take her medicine. As she ate, she smiled at me. Afterward, I hugged her and burst into tears, saying, “I'm sorry, Mom!” She simply held me close and softly said, “It's okay, don't cry, dear.”
The next morning, my mother was feeling better and went back to work as usual. However, after that experience, I truly understood how much my mother had sacrificed for me. I silently promised myself to study harder and help her more so she wouldn't have to worry so much.
To me, my mother is like a miraculous source of light. After that night, I realized even more deeply the significance of her love, and I came to understand that:
“No matter how old I get, I will always be my mother’s child
For my whole life, my mother’s love will follow me”
(The Stork, Chế Lan Viên)


9. Reference Essay 1
Today, since it was raining heavily and I didn't have an umbrella, I had to stay in the classroom and wait for the rain to stop before heading home. While sitting with my friends watching the rain fall, I suddenly remembered a rainy day from more than three years ago.
Back then, I had just entered second grade and was already familiar with my class and friends, so I was quite confident. During every break, I would run around the schoolyard with my friends. On that particular day, we had an early dismissal without prior notice, and our parents hadn’t arrived to pick us up yet. So, we sat in the hallway waiting for someone to come. Suddenly, it started pouring. The schoolyard was filled with puddles of various sizes. So, my friends and I decided to put on our raincoats and head out to play. We shouted and chased each other happily under the rain. After a while, we challenged each other to jump over the puddles to see who could jump the largest one. In the heat of the moment, I, eager to win, decided to try jumping over a large puddle. But of course, I failed. I fell right into the puddle, causing water to splash everywhere, and I ended up soaking wet. At that moment, my mother arrived to pick me up. She was furious when she saw me drenched. Once we got home, she made me shower, change into dry clothes, and then scolded me for my reckless behavior. After that day, I caught a cold that lasted almost a week, which made me give up my mischievous ways.
After that incident, I became more obedient and listened to my mother. I stopped acting out and running wild. And every time it rained, I couldn’t help but reminisce about that silly memory of mine.


10. Reference Essay 2
Everyone has a treasure trove of childhood memories. Among them, the early days of going to school, meeting and making friends with teachers and classmates, are memories that will never fade.
During the first days of school, my teacher always praised my neat and beautiful handwriting. I was quite good at handwriting practice, but I struggled with math, which was the subject I dreaded the most. Despite my teacher’s careful explanations and guidance, my fear of the subject made it difficult for me to fully grasp her teachings. Understanding this, my teacher decided to move me to sit next to Hà, one of the brightest students in math, so we could study together. Working on group tasks with Hà helped me improve tremendously. I learned Hà’s method of tackling math problems, and even during difficult exercises, Hà showed me how to approach and solve the problems effectively. From being a weak student in math, I developed a new passion for the subject.
Once, during a math test, I found myself unable to solve a problem. I sat there struggling for almost the entire duration of the test. Hà noticed and wrote down some notes on a piece of scrap paper, then folded it up and quietly handed it to me. I felt grateful for her help, but at the same time, I felt uneasy. I took the crumpled note and tucked it into my desk, recalling my teacher's words: “Failure is the mother of success.” I didn’t want to continue being bad at math. Hà encouraged me to open the note and copy the answer, but I firmly refused. I decided to keep thinking and try to figure it out on my own. With only about five minutes left, suddenly the lessons I had learned from the teacher started coming back to me. After scribbling some formulas, I realized I had missed an important calculation. I quickly corrected my work. As the bell rang signaling the end of the test, I had just finished my paper.
When the teacher returned our tests, I scored 8 out of 10, a result that reflected my efforts. Hà was also happy to see my progress. Even now, when I think about it, I feel a sense of joy.


11. Reference Assignment 3
I will never forget that day of returning our assignments. It was the most shocking and painful moment I’ve had since entering sixth grade because I received a score of 3 in my Writing exam.
Teacher Thanh handed back the test papers to the class. She placed my notebook on the desk with an unhappy expression. My instincts sensed something was wrong, and I quickly flipped through the pages. 8s and 9s greeted me with red markings, my pride as the top Literature student of the class. But as I flipped to the next page, my heart sank. A huge 3 stared back at me. Stunned, I almost fainted in disbelief at the harsh reality.
No, this can’t be true! I tried to focus and recheck, but there it was—a clear 3 in the grade box. I quickly closed the notebook and glanced around at my classmates, all of whom seemed to be happily chatting about their good grades. They probably thought I was among them, enjoying a good score like always. The thought of that made me feel so ashamed, and I lowered my head. When I looked back at my paper, I saw the teacher's comment: 'Off-topic!'
I reread the prompt and realized she was right. The task was to describe a river (a field, or a street) tied to a childhood memory, yet I had written about a meaningful childhood experience. It wasn’t a difficult task for me, but my overconfidence and failure to read carefully led to my mistake. I remembered handing in my paper first, before my classmates, proud and satisfied with my work, ignoring the teacher’s advice: 'Check your work before submitting.' Perhaps because I had grown complacent with my past successes, I had become arrogant without realizing it.
At that moment, my friend Ha whispered with joy:
'Lan, I got 7 today! After so much effort, I finally got a good grade. My mom will be so proud! But why do you look so pale? How many points did you get? Show me!'
Hearing Ha, I felt even more downcast and embarrassed. Ha was celebrating her first 7 in Writing, while I, who used to think a 7 was mediocre, had just received a 3! I can't fully express the sorrow I felt in that moment. I felt as if the teacher’s gaze was filled with sadness, surprise, and disappointment: 'How could this happen, Lan? I’m really disappointed.'
On the way home, I was anxious and distressed. My parents had high hopes for me. If they knew about my 3 in Writing, what would they think? My dad always encouraged me to study hard and dreamt that I would become a lawyer like him. And my mom—how many nights had she stayed up, knitting while waiting for me to finish my studies before we could sleep? She only wanted me to succeed. I couldn’t disappoint them, so I thought of hiding the paper and claiming that the teacher hadn't graded it because the whole class had done poorly. These dishonest thoughts filled my mind as I arrived home, still lost in confusion.
When I reached the gate, my mom gently came down the steps to greet me. Her face turned pale when she saw how exhausted I looked. I ran into her arms and burst into tears. No, I couldn’t deceive my beloved mother.
That evening, I reviewed my paper carefully. The score of 3 reminded me to reflect on myself. I promised myself: This will be the only time I get a 3. I will earn 9s and 10s again, and I’ll win back the trust and love of my parents, teachers, and friends.


