1. Sample Essay 4
A father's love is as warm as the sun
Sweet like the stream flowing from its source
A lifetime of hardship for the sake of his child
Endless affection, deeper than any other
Father, oh Father, beloved elder...
(A Father's Love)
One of the most profound emotions in the human heart is familial love—especially the love between a father and his child, and the love between a mother and her child. This is why it is also one of the most enduring themes in literature, inspiring countless poets and artists to compose poems praising the selfless devotion of parents to their children. Y Phương, a poet from the Tày ethnic group, in his poem 'Nói với con' (1980), captures this love perfectly through the heartfelt advice a father gives to his child, urging him to grow and flourish. The poem’s tone expresses a deep and sacred love between father and child, which extends from family love to a broader sense of national pride and the value of life itself.
The poem begins with the father’s tender words to his child about the source of his nurturing: the child grows under the love of his parents and the embrace of his homeland. The father starts by speaking of family—this first and most fundamental bond:
"Right foot steps towards father
Left foot steps towards mother
One step brings the sound of speech
Two steps bring the sound of laughter"
Through these vivid and evocative images—'right foot,' 'left foot,' 'sound of speech,' 'sound of laughter'—the poet paints the picture of a young child taking his first steps and babbling his first words, surrounded by his loving parents. This not only evokes the warmth and joy of family life but also illustrates the delicate care and anticipation of parents as they support their child's growth. The love that parents give their child is as boundless and sacred as the vast sky above, and it is something the child should cherish deeply.
Beyond familial affection, the father wishes to instill in his child a sense of pride and connection to the broader community, to the bonds of the village, the homeland, and the neighborly love:
"The people of my land, I love so much, child
They weave nets and decorate them with flowers
The walls of homes echo with songs
The forest gives us flowers
The road gives us hearts of kindness."
Through the expressive imagery and simple yet profound language of the poet, Y Phương illustrates the deep, mutual respect and affection shared among the people of the land. The phrase 'The people of my land' refers to those who share the same region, homeland, and ethnicity. The poet’s use of the term 'I love so much' conveys deep pride and love for his homeland, showing the reader the joyful, hardworking, and harmonious life of the people. The activities described—such as weaving fishing nets and building homes—are more than just daily tasks; they are symbols of a hardworking, community-centered life, filled with shared joys and shared struggles.
Continuing the theme of the homeland, the father speaks of the enduring bond between the people and the land, highlighting the intimate connection to nature and the shared efforts to build the community:
"The forest gives flowers"
The road gives us hearts of kindness."
The forest here represents not just the physical gifts of nature, such as timber and bamboo shoots, but also the beauty and harmony that nature offers. The forest is a source of life and a reminder of the strong connection between nature and the people. The roads, too, represent more than mere pathways; they symbolize the connections between people, the relationships that bind them together through shared experiences, hardships, and joys.
The father then shifts the conversation, from speaking about the homeland and community, to a deeply personal reflection on love and marriage:
"Your parents will forever remember the day we wed
The first day, the most beautiful day of all."
Some may wonder why this sudden shift in focus. Y Phương explains that love between a couple is deeply rooted in their love for their homeland and their shared life of labor. In his view, when people are deeply connected to their land and community, love for one another flourishes. The child is not only born from the union of love between his parents but also from the love and care of the entire homeland. The father is teaching his child that the love of the parents is intertwined with the love of the land, which nourishes and protects them from the very beginning of life.
The father continues to inspire pride and confidence in the child, encouraging them to be proud of their homeland and the strength of the people. He reminds the child that the people of their land are strong, resilient, and capable of overcoming adversity:
"The people of my land are so dear to me, child
We measure our sorrow by our hopes
We keep our dreams alive, no matter the hardships
Whether on rough stones or in poverty-stricken valleys
We live as rivers and streams
Climbing mountains, crossing rivers
Without fear of hardship."
Through the repetition of 'The people of my land are so dear to me,' the poet reinforces the connection between the people and the land. He contrasts the difficulties of life with the indomitable will of the people to persevere and thrive despite challenges. The poet uses a range of images—such as 'rough stones,' 'poverty-stricken valleys,' 'climbing mountains,' and 'crossing rivers'—to convey the toughness and resilience of the people, who face obstacles with determination and strength.
The poet concludes by reminding the child to take pride in their heritage, to carry the values and strength of the homeland into their own life:
"Child, though our bodies may be rough and simple
We are never small in spirit
We shape our homeland with our own hands"
"The land shapes our customs and traditions."
This contrast between the external simplicity of the people and the vastness of their inner strength serves to emphasize the dignity and pride of the people. Even though they may appear 'rough and simple,' they are rich in spirit and determined to shape their future and preserve their traditions. Through their labor and effort, they create the customs and values that make their homeland unique.
The father’s final words urge the child to embrace these values and carry them with confidence into the future:
"Though simple in form, your spirit is vast"
"Walk forward with pride, my child."
Thus, the father’s message to the child is clear: live with pride, resilience, and a deep sense of connection to your homeland. Embrace the values of your heritage and always walk forward with confidence, knowing that you carry the love and strength of your family and your people within you.
In conclusion, through its vivid imagery, natural flow, and heartfelt message, 'Nói với con' is not only a beautiful portrayal of familial love but also a tribute to the strength, perseverance, and deep pride of the people and their homeland. The greatest lesson the father imparts to the child is the importance of pride in one’s roots and the confidence that comes with living true to one’s heritage.

2. Reference Example 5

3. Sample Reference 1
Family love is widely regarded as one of the most powerful and profound sources of inspiration for poetry. Among them, poems celebrating the sacred bond between mother and child, as well as the precious relationship between father and child, are prominent. Finding poems about maternal love is not difficult, but to truly capture and express paternal love, perhaps only the poem “Nói với con” by Y Phương does so completely. The poet skillfully weaves family affection into the love for the country and nation to guide children towards becoming better people.
Family love is the greatest strength each person possesses. It is both a source of motivation and a powerful weapon to help us overcome life’s difficulties. The first impression of this poem is the image of a child growing up surrounded by the love, care, and anticipation of their parents.
“Right foot steps to father
Left foot steps to mother
One step meets a word
Two steps meet a laugh”
These images invoke a sense of nostalgia, evoking memories of a child’s first words and steps, taken with the longing and hope of the parents. As the saying goes, family is the most precious cradle that raises a child into life. But it is not just family that nourishes a child; it is also inseparably tied to the love of one’s homeland, in the face of hardship, and the kindness of the working people.
The people of my homeland love you dearly, my child...
......their heartfelt kindness
Here we encounter the term “Người đồng mình.” So, who are the people of the land? It is a local expression referring to the ethnic groups from the mountains, people who share the same origins, homeland, and ethnicity. The poet cleverly incorporates this unique regional expression into the verse. Most thoughts are depicted vividly through each line, describing the skilled hands of laborers creating baskets and the construction of homes from songs. The forest here not only provides precious wood and rare products but also gifts the world with beautiful flowers. The tireless labor of the people has brought many blessings. The road is not just a path, it is the journey that shapes a child’s growth.
The poet then transitions the poem to reflect on the roots and happiness of one’s homeland:
Parents...
...in this world
Not only does the father teach the child about the origins of life, but he also imparts valuable virtues of the “people of the land” while nurturing great dreams for future generations. This includes the love of hard work, the enduring strength to overcome any hardship:
The people of my homeland love you dearly, my child
…
Never afraid of hardship
The rhythm of the poem quickens, almost like a song, teaching the child valuable lessons about how to live and become a good person. The first lesson is about unity, mutual aid, and love. The care and protection of one’s community is the strength that helps the people of the land overcome countless challenges. The mirrored lines “high measures sorrow” / “far leads to big dreams” emphasize the steadfast, resolute spirit of the people.
Life may be hard, and poverty may persist, but people always take pride in and remain loyal to their homeland. Ultimately, the father wants to remind his child, no matter where they go or what they do, to always remember their homeland. They must rise above all struggles with determination and unwavering faith, never betraying or despising their homeland. The repetitive rhythm in the poem, fast, strong, and decisive, reinforced with parallel words and structures, touches the heart of anyone who hears it.
In conclusion, “Nói với con” is one of the finest poems about the sacred and noble love between father and child. Like wine that becomes sweeter and deeper with time, family love is a precious and sacred bond, intertwined with the love for one’s country and homeland. It is the driving force that nurtures and strengthens the soul of every person.

4. Sample Reference 2
As you may already know, maternal love has always been a rich topic for poetry. However, poems that explore the bond between father and child are rare. Among them, the poem "Nói với con" by Y Phương stands out as a precious and unique work. This poem reflects the warmth of family affection, the deep love for the homeland, and the celebration of the traditional values and strong vitality of the people of the mountains.
The nurturing origin of a child begins with the family cradle, where a child grows up under the loving care of both parents. The parents experience joy and happiness from the child’s first steps and the first words and laughter. The simple language, combined with the technique of repetition, evokes a warm and loving family atmosphere.
"The people of my homeland love you dearly, my child
Weaving baskets with flower strands
House walls built from songs
Forests give flowers
Roads give hearts"
More than that, the small cradle of the family is embraced by a larger cradle: the homeland. The child grows and matures amidst the laboring life, within the nurturing environment of the homeland. The author uses the language of the mountain people to craft vivid images that are both specific and universally meaningful. The people of the land, the mountains, and the ethnic group all hold dear, my child. Weaving baskets, building walls, working tirelessly, the labor that binds and strengthens us together.
"Forests give flowers, roads give hearts"
The beautiful, poetic nature is personified, emphasizing the affectionate nature of the homeland. The father wishes to convey to his child the beauty of the people of the land, encouraging love and connection with the place. Thus, while joyfully holding the child in his arms and witnessing the child’s growth, the father reflects on the love and values of their village and homeland.
Parents will always remember their wedding day
The most beautiful day in life"
The noble qualities of the people of the land and the father’s wishes for his child are conveyed through simple yet unique expressions. The poet continues to illustrate the beauty of the people of the land through striking imagery.
"The people of the land…
...
never afraid of hardship"
The repetition of "the people of the land" three times reveals the poet's deep emotions. So many sacred, heartfelt thoughts for the homeland and its people pour out as the poet calls out, "I love you so much, my child." In the face of the challenges facing the homeland, the only source of spiritual support and confidence is the belief in the strength of tradition and loyalty to one’s homeland. Even though the homeland, the people of the land, may still face poverty and hardships, the poet insists, "Do not criticize the rocky terrain or the poverty of the land." Be optimistic, like the river, like the stream. In the poet’s words, there is a special feature: the poet measures the sorrow and will of the people using the vastness of the earth, advising the child that even though sorrow may be as great as the mountains, the will and spirit of the people will be as long as the rivers, as vast as the oceans. One must cherish and love the place they come from, no matter how difficult life may be. Do not criticize or abandon it, and never act against your heart. Strive to be diligent and optimistic in order to rise above and live a life worthy of your heritage.
The people of the land may be simple and unrefined, but they are strong and full of dignity.
"The people of the land, rough in body
No one is small, my child
The people of the land carve the stones to raise the homeland"
The poet’s words are specific yet profound. The poet repeats "the people of the land" and describes them as rough in body and speech but strong in spirit. They are not small in determination and will, but rather are powerful, open-hearted, and full of faith. This distinctive style highlights the mountain people’s values.
"The people of the land, rough in body
No one is small, my child
The people of the land carve the stones to raise the homeland"
"Carving stones to raise the homeland" is a direct reference to the mountain people’s tradition of building homes, symbolizing the idea of strengthening and protecting the homeland. The poet uses this image to represent the duty of preserving and developing the homeland, honoring its customs, and keeping its traditions alive.
In the closing verses, the poet affirms that he wants to pass on the strength of tradition to his child. Though the people of the land are simple, their lives are noble. The father wishes that his child grows up to live a life that is as honorable and dignified as the traditions of their people. The free verse structure of the poem, with its unstructured lines and flexible rhythm, aligns naturally with the flow of emotions, offering a light and uplifting tone.
Through the father’s words to the child, we see a deep affection and tenderness, with the father wanting to impart the best values to his child. Therefore, each of us must cherish and work hard to preserve the beautiful traditions of our ancestors.

5. Sample Reference 3
"What is homeland, mother dear?
Why does the teacher say we must love it?
What is homeland, mother dear?
Everyone who goes far away remembers it so much."
Everyone has a homeland, the place where we first cried as we arrived into this world. When thinking of our homeland, each person is reminded of a unique, beautiful image filled with sincere emotions and pride. This is why, despite many people having written about their homeland and composed poems about it, the homeland in Y Phương’s "Nói với con" still stirs deep emotions in us.
Perhaps, like everyone else, when people think of their homeland, they recall the simplest, most rustic things. If Đỗ Trung Quân ties his homeland to images like "sweet starfruit clusters", "the path to school", or "the blue kite"... Y Phương presents to her child the following:
"The people of my land love you dearly, my child
Weaving baskets with flower strands
House walls built from songs
Forests give flowers
Roads give hearts".
This represents a region of mountains and forests, still undeveloped, yet the people are incredibly precious, coming from a land rich in cultural traditions. It is a place that nurtures the soul, with simple, kind-hearted people. The people of the land are deeply cherished, but they also possess immense courage in both their sorrow and ambitions (Measuring sorrow high; distance nurtures great aspirations). The homeland in "Nói với con" is unique, yet also holds something universally recognizable.
But perhaps, the most enduring aspect for every child (and for us as readers) is the advice and counsel of the father. The child, before both father and homeland, remains an image of love, forever small and always in need of protection and guidance. The father’s lessons serve as a driving force that helps the child grow strong and resilient in life.
No matter the obstacles, father always wishes:
Live on the rocks without complaining about their ruggedness
Live in the valley without complaining about the poverty
Live like the river, like the stream
Climbing up waterfalls and descending into gorges
Never fearing hardship
The people of the land are rough in body
No one is small, my child".
The tone in these verses creates an emotional impact, conveying the father’s heartfelt, sincere, and urgent advice. No matter the circumstances, one must rise above them and live with strength. "Sorrow" teaches us to endure, while willpower helps us to strive forward and climb higher. The lines "Measuring sorrow high / Distance nurtures great aspirations" serve as a source of encouragement and motivation, a gift the father wishes to pass on to his child. This advice helps the child navigate life with confidence and always carry hope. No matter how difficult life gets, one must always hold onto great aspirations to make life meaningful. This is the father’s hope for the child’s journey through life’s challenges.

