Top 5 Most Meaningful and Impressive Wedding Speeches from Both Families in Engagement Ceremonies

Representative from the Groom's Side:

"Honorable guests, distinguished members of both families, and dear friends, first and foremost, I would like to extend my best wishes for health, prosperity, and happiness to all present. I am here today on behalf of the groom's family. My name is …, and I am … to the groom, representing the groom's side. Along with me are: Mr. …, who is … to the groom; Mrs. …, who is … to the groom, and other members of our family. After getting to know each other over several months, the groom and bride have decided to take the next step in their relationship and seek marriage. Today, we are gathered on this auspicious day to present the engagement offerings on behalf of the groom's side, hoping that the bride's family will accept this union. I would now like to invite Mr./Mrs. …, who is … to the groom, and Mr./Mrs. …, who is … to the bride, to present the engagement gifts for all to see. We hope that the bride's family will give their blessing for this union and allow the couple to proceed with their lifelong commitment. Thank you."

"First, allow me to introduce myself. I am …, … to the bride, representing the bride's family, and along with Mr./Mrs. …, who is … to the bride, and other family members, we would like to wish everyone good health and prosperity. Today is a perfect day, and we are honored to welcome the groom's family for this engagement. We would like to express our sincere thanks to the groom's family for their thoughtful preparations. On behalf of the bride's family, we gladly accept this union and wish the couple a lifetime of happiness together. From now on, the bride and groom are officially husband and wife. As they are still young and may need guidance, we ask for the support and counsel of both families to help them fulfill their duties as daughter and son-in-law. We hope that the couple will live harmoniously and thrive, and we wish them great success in all their endeavors, with hopes for children in the future. On behalf of the bride's family, I would like to invite the groom's family to share a drink and a betel nut as a blessing for the couple."

"On behalf of the groom's family, I would like to express our heartfelt thanks to the bride's family for their warm hospitality and for making today’s engagement ceremony a great success. We hope that the couple will love and support each other as they journey through life together. We also want to express our gratitude to the guests here today, and we look forward to seeing you again at the upcoming wedding and celebration. As we depart, we wish the bride’s family well and look forward to our next gathering for the wedding festivities. The bride's family will also return some gifts, and we are grateful for the warm wishes. We pray for a safe and joyful journey for the groom's family on their return."

Groom's Family Speech:

"Honored elders, esteemed guests, and respected relatives present at today's engagement ceremony, I would like to begin by wishing everyone good health and happiness on behalf of the groom's family. Today is an auspicious day, and we, the groom's family, are here with offerings for both our ancestors and to seek the bride's hand in marriage for our dear [groom's name].

Allow me to introduce myself; I am [name], the uncle of [groom's name], and here with me today are [groom's name]’s grandparents, parents, and other relatives. We, as a family, are pleased to announce that after a period of courtship and mutual understanding, [groom's name] and [bride's name] wish to come together in marriage with the full consent and support of both families.

Today, with great respect, we formally ask for [bride's name] to become the wife of [groom's name], and we humbly present these engagement gifts as a symbol of our sincere intentions. We hope that these offerings are accepted as a demonstration of our commitment.

Once again, we thank the bride's family for their warm hospitality, and we wish them continued health and happiness."

Bride's Family Speech:

"Esteemed elders, honored relatives, and family members from both sides, I stand here today on behalf of the family of [bride's name] with the authority of our elders. I would like to first express our deep gratitude for the presence of the groom's family, despite the long journey they have undertaken. We wish the entire family good health and happiness.

After a period of acquaintance, courtship, and mutual affection, and with the approval of both families, we are gathered today for the engagement of [groom's name] and [bride's name]. On behalf of our family, I gladly accept the engagement gifts from the groom's family and bless this union.

Now, I invite all to share in a meal, betel leaves, and tea as we discuss the upcoming wedding of the couple. Thank you!"

Groom’s Family Response:

“On behalf of the groom’s family, we thank the bride’s family for their thoughtful preparation and hospitality. We hope that the couple, [groom's name] and [bride's name], will continue to love and support each other as they build a life together. We also thank all the relatives who have joined us today, and we look forward to seeing you at the upcoming wedding and celebration.”

Bride’s Family Closing Words:

“On behalf of the bride’s family, I would like to express our appreciation for the groom’s family’s arrangements. We are fully in agreement with the sentiments expressed by the groom’s side, and we too have prepared some gifts to send back with them. Once again, I extend our sincere thanks, and we wish the couple a lifetime of happiness and a strong, lasting relationship between our two families. Our family now invites the groom’s family to join us for a simple meal.”

Groom's Family Speech:

"On behalf of the groom's family, I would like to extend a warm greeting to the bride's family and wish all the elders, uncles, and aunts good health. Allow me to introduce our family members present today: I am [name], father of [groom's name], and the representative of the groom's family. With me are [groom's name]’s grandmother, mother, and other family members.

After months of getting to know each other, [groom's name] and [bride's name] have decided to take the next step in their relationship and seek marriage. As per their wishes, we have come here today to formally present our engagement ceremony to the bride's family.

Today, we are bringing [number of trays] trays of gifts for the bride’s family, and we hope that the bride’s family will accept these gifts as a token of our sincere intentions and give their blessing for this marriage. I would like to invite [bride's mother] and [groom's mother] to open the trays of gifts so that the bride's family can inspect them. We hope that the bride's family will accept our offerings and bless the couple to move forward in happiness.

After the gifts are presented, the representative from the bride’s family will share their thoughts and opinions on the matter."

"First, let me introduce myself. I am [name], the eldest aunt of [bride's name], and the representative of the bride's family. Present with me today are [bride's name]’s grandparents, parents, and other relatives. Today is an auspicious day, and we are honored that the groom's family has come to formally propose marriage. On behalf of our family, I want to thank the groom’s family for their thoughtful gifts, and we gladly accept them as part of the engagement ceremony.

From this moment forward, [bride's name] and [groom's name] are officially members of each other’s families. We also hope that both families will support them as they grow and fulfill their duties as son-in-law and daughter-in-law. Our family wishes for the couple to live a long, happy life together. On behalf of the bride's family, I invite the groom's family to drink a cup of tea and enjoy some betel nut as a sign of our blessings for their happiness.

After the bride’s speech, the groom's family will stand to express their thanks and respectfully ask the bride's family for permission for the groom to greet the bride and introduce her to both families. The engagement ceremony will continue with discussions about the wedding date and other details. Meanwhile, the bride and groom will offer refreshments to all guests and relatives.

Following the tradition, the bride and groom will be escorted by the bride's parents to offer incense to the family ancestors, and the bride’s family will return gifts to the groom’s family. When the ceremony concludes, the groom's family will thank the bride's family and offer final words of advice to the couple."

"On behalf of the groom's family, I would like to thank the bride's family for their warm hospitality. Today marks the official union of [groom's name] and [bride's name], and we hope that both families will continue to guide and support them as they move forward together. We also thank all the guests for being part of today’s celebration, and we look forward to seeing everyone again at the wedding. As we leave today, we wish the bride’s family a safe and joyful journey ahead, and we look forward to our next gathering at the wedding."

"On behalf of the bride’s family, I would like to thank the groom’s family for their thoughtful preparations. We also agree with the sentiments expressed by the groom’s family, and we have prepared a few gifts to return with them. We look forward to our continued relationship and the upcoming wedding. We wish the groom’s family a safe and pleasant journey home. May the couple be blessed with a lifetime of happiness."

Groom's Family Speech at the Engagement Ceremony:

Once both families have taken their seats to begin the ceremony, the representative of the groom's family will stand to greet everyone and explain the purpose of their visit.

"Honorable guests from both families, and distinguished friends present here today, I would like to extend my warmest greetings from the groom's family to the bride's family. We wish all the elders, uncles, and aunts in the bride's family abundant health, success in their endeavors, and everlasting happiness in their family life.

Allow me to introduce the members of the groom's family present today: I am [name], the uncle of [groom's name], and the representative of the groom's side. With me are [groom's name]’s grandmother, father, and other close relatives.

After a period of getting to know each other, [groom's name] and [bride's name] have developed a deep bond and wish to unite under one roof, to become husband and wife. At the request of both children and with the permission of the bride's family, we, the groom’s family, have come to formally introduce ourselves and seek the bride's family’s approval for this union.

For today’s engagement ceremony, the groom's family has prepared seven trays of gifts to present to the bride's family, and we hope you will kindly accept these gifts as a token of our sincere intent to have these two lovely people wed. I would now like to invite [bride’s mother] and [groom’s mother] to open the trays of gifts so that the bride’s family may see them. We sincerely hope that the bride's family will accept our offerings and grant us their approval for this marriage."

Bride's Family Speech:

After the bride and groom’s mothers have opened all the gifts, the representative of the bride’s family will stand to share their thoughts and express their position:

"First, allow me to introduce myself. I am [name], the aunt of [bride's name], and the representative of the bride's family. Today, the bride’s family is joined by the bride's grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, and siblings.

Today is an auspicious day, and we are grateful for the groom’s family’s thoughtful proposal. On behalf of the bride’s family, I would like to thank the groom’s family for their meticulous preparation of the gifts. We are happy to grant our approval for the marriage, and from this moment on, [bride's name] and [groom's name] are now officially daughter-in-law and son-in-law of both families. We trust that both families will guide and nurture them, ensuring they fulfill their duties as children of the family.

The bride’s family also wishes that the married life of the couple will be smooth and full of happiness. On behalf of the bride’s family, I invite the groom’s family to enjoy a cup of tea and a bite of betel leaf as a token of our blessings for their new journey together."

"On behalf of the groom's family, I would like to thank the bride's family for their warm hospitality, ensuring that today’s engagement ceremony has gone smoothly. As for [groom's name] and [bride's name], they are now officially members of each other’s families. We hope they will love and support each other, walking through life hand in hand and fulfilling their duties to both families. We also thank all the guests who joined us today, and we kindly ask to take our leave. We look forward to meeting the bride’s family again at the wedding and the upcoming celebrations."

"On behalf of the bride’s family, I also extend my deepest gratitude to the groom’s family. We also have a few gifts to return to the groom’s family. As agreed, the two families will reunite at the wedding day, and we wish the groom’s family a safe and joyful journey home."

Speech from the Groom's Family:

"Honorable elders, esteemed guests, and dear friends from both families, I would like to begin by extending my warmest greetings and heartfelt wishes for good health to the elders, family members, and friends from the bride's side. May you all enjoy continued happiness and prosperity.

Allow me to introduce the members of the groom's family present today. I am [name], the [relation] of [groom's name], and the representative of the groom's family. Here with me are [groom's name]'s grandparents, father, and other relatives.

After spending time getting to know one another, [groom's name] and [bride's name] have decided to take the next step and join together in marriage. At the request of both parties and with the permission of the bride's family, we are here today to officially meet with you and seek your blessings for their future together.

For this engagement ceremony, the groom's family has prepared [number] trays of gifts to present to the bride's family. We hope the bride's family will accept our offerings and help us select a favorable date for the wedding ceremony, when we will bring the bride home to the groom's family.

This is also an opportunity for both families to meet and discuss anything that may need attention or clarification. We hope this conversation will lay the foundation for a long-lasting and happy union for both families. Thank you."

"Thank you for the kind words from the groom's family. On behalf of the bride's family, I would like to say a few words:

My name is [name], and I am [relation] of [bride's name], representing the bride's family. Today, we are joined by the bride’s grandparents, parents, and other family members.

Today, [bride's name] and [groom's name] celebrate their engagement, and we are honored to officially accept the gifts presented by the groom's family. On behalf of the bride's family, I am pleased to approve this marriage and wish them a future filled with love, joy, and success. From this moment, [bride's name] and [groom's name] are now children of both families, and we trust both families will guide them as they fulfill their duties. We hope their married life will be smooth and prosperous, with lifelong happiness together. On behalf of the bride's family, I invite the groom’s family to share a cup of tea and a bite of betel leaf as a symbol of our blessings for their future."

"On behalf of the groom's family, I would like to thank the bride’s family for their warm hospitality. We hope that [groom's name] and [bride's name] will love and support each other through life, fulfilling their responsibilities as children to both families. We are grateful to everyone who joined us today, and we look forward to meeting again at the upcoming wedding and the celebrations to follow."

"The bride's family also wishes to thank the groom's family and has prepared a few gifts to send with them. As agreed, the two families will reunite at the wedding, and we wish the groom's family a safe and joyful journey home. We hope the bond between our families will remain strong and enduring."