1. 'Dialogue' Lesson Plan No. 4
Social Roles in Dialogue
1. Relationship between characters in the dialogue: Aunt-Grandchild
- The aunt is in the superior role, while the child is in the subordinate role.
2. The aunt’s behavior is criticized:
- She uses harsh words to hurt her grandchild.
- Even after the grandchild sheds tears, she continues speaking.
3. Details showing the child’s efforts to suppress his anger to maintain politeness:
+ Bowing without answering
+ Smiling in response to the aunt
+ Remaining silent with head bowed
+ Smiling through tears
+ Asking and answering politely
- Despite his anger, the child maintains politeness out of respect for his elder.
1. Exercise 1, page 94, Textbook.
Answer:
In the essay 'Hịch tướng sĩ', Trần Quốc Tuấn critically addresses the misconduct of those under his command, while also advising them to reform and offering forgiveness to those who repent. Look for details that reflect this attitude.
2. Exercise 2, pages 94-95, Textbook.
Answer:
Social role: Lão Hạc, though older than the teacher, holds a subordinate social position compared to him. Their attitudes are reflected in how they address each other, their choice of words, and their gestures.
Question 4. Identify the social roles and attitudes of the characters in the excerpt below (Note the bold words):
Anh Dậu stretches and yawns loudly, sluggishly resting on the bed. He was startled as the local official and his men barged in, threatening him with whips. The official shouted harshly, 'You! We thought you died last night. Still alive? Pay your taxes! Hurry up!'
Panicking, Anh Dậu hurriedly set the bowl aside and collapsed onto the bed, unable to speak. The official's men laughed mockingly:
'He’s about to collapse again like last night!'
Then he pointed at Chị Dậu:
'You promised to pay your taxes by tomorrow, right?'...
Chị Dậu replied nervously:
'We are struggling, and now we even have to pay the tax for my uncle. We didn’t intend to neglect the state tax. Please tell the official to give us more time...'
(Ngô Tất Tố, 'Tắt đèn')
Answer:
This exercise aims to recognize the social relationships and attitudes of the characters in the dialogue.
The social roles and attitudes are expressed through their forms of address. Anh Dậu’s helplessness is reflected in his inability to respond, and his fearful behavior after hearing the official’s words.

2. 'Dialogue' Lesson Plan No. 5

3. "Dialogue" Lesson Plan #6
I. Social Roles in Dialogue
Answer the questions
There are two characters: Hong and the old woman.
The relationship between these two characters is a familial one, where Hong's aunt holds a higher position, and Hong is in a lower position.
In familial relationships, the aunt's behavior is inappropriate, lacking the affection and respect typically expected in such relationships.
As an elder and someone in a higher social position, the aunt does not show the proper respect towards her younger relative.
Hong, being aware of his lower position, tries to suppress his feelings because he understands his duty to respect his elder.
II. Dialogue Practice
1. Question 1/94 in 8th Grade Textbook, Volume 2
Strict: You must recognize the dishonor of the master and feel shame for your negligence…
Tolerant: If you follow my advice and study this book, you will fulfill your duty to your master… I have written this memorial so you can understand my intentions.
2. Question 2/94 in 8th Grade Textbook, Volume 2
a. Social Status: The teacher is of higher social rank, but the old man, Lão Hạc, is older.
b. The teacher addresses Lão Hạc with gentle and respectful language, kindly offering him tobacco, water, and sweet potatoes. The teacher refers to Lão Hạc as 'Cụ' (an elder), and calls himself 'chúng con' (we, as in younger people), indicating a relationship of respect and equality.
c. Lão Hạc refers to the teacher as 'Ông giáo' (Teacher), using the verb 'dạy' (to teach) instead of 'nói' (to speak), showing respect. He also uses informal language like 'chúng mình' (we, us) and 'nói đùa thế' (just kidding), indicating a friendly, informal tone.
However, Lão Hạc’s manner still reflects some sadness and distance. He smiles weakly and declines to stay for the meal and conversation, demonstrating his inner discomfort and the burden he feels at that moment.
3. Question 3/94 in 8th Grade Textbook, Volume 2
Lan: Hey, what are you doing?
Nam: I'm feeding the cat.
Lan: Let me help you.
Nam: Sure, come here, there are still a few left.
-> Lan and Nam have a sibling relationship. Their interaction shows a respectful and appropriate tone.

4. Lesson Plan "Dialogue" No. 1
I. Social Roles in Dialogue
Question 1: The relationship between the characters in the excerpt is one of hierarchy:
1. The relationship between the characters in the dialogue is one of superior and subordinate:
+ Aunt Hong is in the superior position.
+ Hong is in the subordinate position.
Question 2: The aunt fails to show respect and familial affection for her niece.
+ She plants negative thoughts in her niece's mind, making her dislike her mother.
Question 3. Hong restrains her anger to maintain a polite demeanor:
- Recognizing the venomous tone and dramatic expression on her aunt's face, I lowered my head and remained silent.
- I kept my head bowed, feeling my heart tighten, my eyes stinging with tears.
- Before my aunt could finish her sentence, my throat was choked, unable to speak without crying.
Hong had to endure in silence because she understood her role in the conversation and showed respect to someone older than her.
II. Practice Exercises
Exercise 1 (page 94, 8th grade Literature book, Volume 2):
The general's speech to his soldiers exemplifies a dialogue between Tran Quoc Tuan and his subordinates:
- He is stern when pointing out mistakes, for example:
+ Now, you see the lord's humiliation but do not feel ashamed of your own disgrace... If we are captured, how painful it will be.
- He shows leniency when offering sincere advice to his soldiers.
+ Moreover, we are in a time of turmoil... we must make the best of limited resources.
+ The enemy is our mortal foe... how can we still hold our heads up in this world?
Exercise 2 (page 94, 8th grade Literature book, Volume 2):
a, Social roles
- Old Hac: his social status is low, but his age surpasses that of the teacher.
- The teacher: his social status is higher, but he is younger than Old Hac.
b, The respectful yet friendly attitude of the teacher towards Old Hac is evident in his words:
... now you sit down on the mat... and smoke your tobacco...
c, Details showing Old Hac's respect for the teacher:
- He speaks familiarly as though talking to a peer: "For us, this is a good life."
- He shows respect for the teacher's knowledge: "The teacher is right!" and "I was joking, but the teacher can decide another time."
- The excerpt also illustrates Old Hac's sadness and restraint through details: "He only gave a forced smile, turned down the offer of sweet potatoes, and stopped drinking and talking with the teacher."
Exercise 3 (page 95, 8th grade Literature book, Volume 2):
A dialogue between Dế Mèn and Dế Choắt:
One day, Dế Mèn visited Dế Choắt's home, noticed how messy it was, and said:
- Why are you so careless? The house is a mess. If someone comes and causes trouble, you'll be in big trouble.
Dế Choắt replied sadly:
- Sir, I want to be wise, but I can't. I am so weak, I can't even get up to clean anymore.
Dế Mèn displays a superior, condescending attitude, full of arrogance:
+ His use of "I" and "you" shows the superior-subordinate relationship, despite both being of the same age.
+ He belittles Dế Choắt for the disorganized state of his home.
+ The description of Dế Choắt as weak and unattractive, like a drug addict, highlights Dế Mèn's arrogance towards his friend.
- Dế Choắt, on the other hand, is respectful, shy, and cautious:
+ He addresses Dế Mèn as "sir" and speaks humbly: "I want to be wise, but I cannot," and "When I try to move, I can barely breathe."
- Through their words, gestures, and attitudes, we can understand the roles they play and how they treat one another.

5. Lesson Plan "Dialogue" No. 2
Part I:
Question 1 (page 93, Literature 8, volume 2)
What is the relationship between the characters in the dialogue from the excerpt (pages 92, 93 of Literature 8, volume 2)? Who holds the superior role and who holds the inferior role?
Answer:
The relationship between the characters in the dialogue is one of superiority and inferiority.
- The aunt holds the superior role
- Hong holds the inferior role
Question 2 (page 93, Literature 8, volume 2)
What behaviors of the aunt are to be criticized?
Answer:
The aunt's behavior is reprehensible as she instills negative, fabricated ideas into Hong's young mind, causing him to develop a hatred toward his mother.
Question 3 (page 93, Literature 8, volume 2)
Find details that show how the character Hong tries to suppress his displeasure in order to maintain a respectful attitude. Explain why Hong must do this:
Answer:
Details that show Hong trying to suppress his displeasure and keep a respectful attitude:
- Realizing the aunt's malicious intentions, Hong "bows without responding", “smiles in reply to her”, "quietly bows his head to the ground”, "smiles through tears"
Hong must do this because the dialogue partner is his aunt. In a family hierarchy, Hong, as a nephew, must still show respect in his speech and actions towards his aunt.
Part II: PRACTICE
Question 1 (page 94, Literature 8, volume 2)
Find details in the essay 'Hich Tuong Si' that show the strict yet lenient attitude of Tran Quoc Tuan toward his soldiers.
Answer:
- Details showing Tran Quoc Tuan's strict attitude: focus on sections where the author points out the faults of the soldiers and criticizes them.
- Details showing Tran Quoc Tuan's lenient attitude: look for sections where Tran Quoc Tuan analyzes and advises the soldiers.
Question 2 (page 94, Literature 8, volume 2)
Read the following excerpt and answer the questions.
I gently held the old man's bony shoulder and said:
- Life may not be truly blissful, but there is something that is: now, you can sit here on this mat while I boil some sweet potatoes and brew a strong pot of tea; we’ll have the potatoes, tea, and smoke some tobacco… That’s the simple joy of life.
- Yes! The teacher is right! For us, that is happiness.
He smiled faintly. His smile was forced but still warm. I cheerfully replied:
- That's good, isn't it? Now, sit down here, I’ll get the sweet potatoes and tea ready.
- Just kidding, teacher. Maybe some other time.
(Nam Cao, Lão Hạc)
a) Based on this excerpt and what you know about the story 'Lão Hạc', define the social roles of the two characters in the conversation.
b) Find details in the dialogue and descriptions showing the teacher's respectful and affectionate attitude toward Lão Hạc.
c) What details in Lão Hạc's dialogue and the author's descriptions show Lão Hạc's respectful and affectionate attitude toward the teacher? Which details reveal his discomfort and restraint?
Answer:
a) Socially, the teacher holds a higher status than Lão Hạc, a poor farmer. However, in terms of age, Lão Hạc is the elder and thus holds a higher position in that regard.
b) The teacher speaks to Lão Hạc with kind words (gently holding his shoulder, inviting him to tea, offering sweet potatoes and tobacco). He refers to Lão Hạc with the respectful term 'Cụ' and even calls himself 'Mr. Son' (showing respect for the elderly). The teacher also uses 'I' to refer to himself, not treating himself as a superior in social status.
c) Lão Hạc calls the teacher 'Mr.', uses the word 'teach' instead of 'speak' (indicating respect for someone with higher social status). In his speech, Lão Hạc also uses phrases like 'our group', 'just kidding', which show simplicity and warmth in their relationship.
This excerpt also reveals Lão Hạc’s sadness and restraint. For example, Lão Hạc smiles weakly, avoids continuing to eat or stay for more tea, and hesitates to continue the conversation with the teacher. These details align with his inner turmoil after selling his dog.
Question 3 (page 94, Literature 8, volume 2)
Recall a conversation you have read, witnessed, or participated in. Analyze the social roles of those involved and how they treat each other based on their words, gestures, and attitudes.
Answer:
Example:
- Are you going to Đầm Sen with the class tomorrow? Minh asked
- Of course, I am! Nam answered happily.
- What about you? Nam asked Minh
I'm afraid I can’t go. Minh replied sadly. Nam looked at his friend, noticing the deep sadness in Minh's eyes. Nam's heart suddenly sank.
+ They are on the same level (friends) shown by the use of 'cậu - tớ'.
+ Their interaction is warm and close.
+ Minh’s mood is down, reflected in his sad and unenthusiastic response.
+ Nam’s attitude toward Minh: sympathy and understanding as “Nam’s heart suddenly sank.”

6. Lesson on 'Dialogue' #3
I. Social Roles in Conversation
Question 1: The relationship between the characters in the excerpt is one of hierarchy:
- The aunt occupies the superior position.
- Hong occupies the subordinate role.
Question 2:
- The aunt's behavior does not align with the expectations of family relationships.
- As an elder in the superior role, the aunt fails to treat the younger with the respect due to children.
(Using "tao" and referring to the child as "mày" → indicates a lack of warmth and closeness.)
Question 3: Details showing how Hong restrained his feelings of discontent to maintain politeness:
- I lowered my head without responding.
- I remained silent, head bowed to the ground... my throat choked, unable to cry out.
Hong had to do this because he was in the inferior position and had an obligation to show respect to his elder.
II. Practice
Question 1:
- Details showing Tran Quoc Tuan's stern attitude: "Now you all see the master’s plight and remain indifferent, witnessing disgrace without any shame... How painful this is!"
- Details showing Tran Quoc Tuan's compassionate attitude: "If you follow my teachings, you will fulfill the duties of loyal servants... I wrote this proclamation to share my true feelings with you."
Question 2:
a. Social Roles:
+ Lão Hạc: Low social status, but older than the teacher.
+ The teacher: Higher social status, but younger than Lão Hạc.
b. In gestures: The teacher speaks kindly to Lão Hạc, gently placing his hand on his shoulder, inviting him to smoke, drink tea, and eat sweet potatoes.
In words:
- He calls him “Cụ” and refers to himself as “Mr. Son” (showing respect for the elderly).
- The teacher uses “I” to show equality.
c. Lão Hạc calls the teacher “Mr.,” showing respect for an educated person:
+ “The teacher is right!”
+ “Just kidding, but we’ll leave it for another time, Mr.”
- Lão Hạc also uses phrases like “our group,” “just kidding” to express simplicity and warmth in their relationship.
- This excerpt also reveals Lão Hạc’s sadness and restraint. Details such as his forced smile and his refusal to eat sweet potatoes or stay for tea reflect his inner turmoil after selling his dog.

