1. Teachers Treating Students as Friends
When teachers treat students as friends, they tend to behave well without the need for strict measures. They know when to joke around and when to focus on their studies. To achieve this, teachers should dedicate time each week to have casual conversations with students, not just about academic subjects, but about everyday matters. This creates a bond, making students feel closer to their teachers, and as a result, they are more likely to behave well on their own.

2. Reward System with Competition
Encourage students to compete within their groups. Students who behave well are praised by the teacher and rewarded with a sticker, while those who misbehave have stickers deducted from their group. These stickers are kept in a pencil case. At the end of the week during the class activity session, the groups tally their stickers. The group with the most stickers wins and each member gets a prize. However, students who misbehaved within that group receive smaller prizes or none at all. Additionally, in other groups, 2-3 well-behaved students are chosen by a class vote to receive prizes. This competition motivates students to keep quiet when they hear praise for a peer. Teachers can also regularly organize fun games to create a lively classroom atmosphere, which makes learning more enjoyable for students. For more talkative students, seating them next to stricter classmates can help maintain order as the stricter students can remind them to stay focused.

3. Avoid Yelling or Criticizing Students
Students generally don't respond well to harsh scolding; it often leads to negative results. Instead, teachers should approach students with kindness, especially those who are more difficult to manage. Outside of class, teachers can spend time engaging with these students, offering individual guidance, and avoiding criticism in front of the class. If the teacher needs help, asking these students for assistance can also make them feel valued. When meeting with parents, it's important to first highlight the students' strengths before discussing areas for improvement, as parents prefer a balanced approach rather than focusing on frustrations.
Additionally, teachers should assess whether their teaching methods are truly engaging and stimulating for students. Incorporating humor and posing thought-provoking questions can spark interest and stimulate intellectual engagement. During practice sessions, assigning tasks for students to evaluate each other encourages responsibility, and teachers should focus on offering encouraging feedback.

4. Gaining Attention from Chatting Students
If a teacher notices students talking excessively, a simple approach is to pause, stand still, and make eye contact with the student for 1-2 minutes. Then, the teacher can ask, 'What are you talking about? Please share your thoughts and then sit quietly and listen.' If two students are involved, they can be asked to step outside for a brief 2-minute discussion and return with a no-talking rule. If multiple students are chatting, this method can be applied to all. Once the students express themselves, the teacher can resume the lesson and expect silence. Additionally, changing seats can be a reasonable strategy to improve behavior.

5. Maintaining the Teacher's Authority
If you're a class teacher, working closely with parents is essential. A teacher's success often depends on the strength of their collaboration with parents. To have a successful class, you need to dedicate time, effort, and sometimes even money (e.g., phone calls), while understanding your students' emotions. Praise and discipline should be directed towards the right students for the right reasons (avoid favoritism). Organizing small events for the class, such as casual gatherings, can improve morale and maintain a positive atmosphere. It's crucial to monitor students' issues closely; for example, visiting the class several times during breaks or checking on students during other teachers' lessons. Any issues, no matter how small, should be addressed promptly, with communication to the parents, ideally when they’re home preparing dinner. After a few reminders from parents, students will usually adjust their behavior.
For students who repeatedly misbehave, inviting parents to the school or visiting the student's home to talk directly is an effective strategy. Ultimately, there are many ways to guide students, but the teacher's demeanor in the classroom and their collaboration with parents are key. Initially, this requires time and effort, but after a few weeks, you will see clear improvement in the class.
There are various methods to handle students, but the principle remains that the teacher's authority must be maintained. Depending on the class’s age, strategies will differ. Each student is different, and you’ll need to adapt your approach according to their personality, being firm or flexible as needed. It’s best for teachers to avoid loud scolding; instead, approach the class with understanding. However, if a student misbehaves, keeping them behind after class to reflect on their actions, write an apology, and discuss the issue calmly helps them realize what they did wrong. Informing the parents immediately after is crucial. At the end of the week, a gentle reprimand for misbehaving students in front of the class sets a good example for everyone.

6. Engaging and Captivating Lessons
If students are talking excessively, the teacher should reconsider the class organization and teaching methods. Are the students engaged? Are they motivated? Currently, there’s a trend that prioritizes form over substance, which may contribute to the disruption caused by chatting students. Many teachers blindly follow the standardized methods dictated from above, seeking safety, but lose their creative approach to teaching. Every student is unique, and so the methods and styles of teaching should be personalized and adaptive to different backgrounds and regions.
Each day, teachers should introduce a new and exciting method to engage students, avoiding dry lectures that lead to boredom. It’s crucial to understand that if the class is noisy, it may be due to teachers overwhelming students with irrelevant information, making them disengage and resort to talking instead. Therefore, teachers should aim to make lessons dynamic by incorporating fun learning activities. They can break the class into teams—boys versus girls—and have them compete to answer questions. Those who get it wrong might have to do a chore, which will keep everyone focused and engaged.

7. Investigating Why Students Chat So Much
Why is this student talking so much?
- Is it because they are hyperactive, or perhaps they finish their work faster than others and have free time to chat?
- Or is it because the teacher’s explanation is unclear?
- Could it be due to a more relaxed, home-like attitude towards learning?
- Is it just this student, or are others talking too?
If a student is talking but still absorbing the material, the teacher can ask them to stand up and repeat what was just taught. If they cannot, a gentle reminder can be given, such as: 'You’re not focused in class right now. Remember, school is for learning, not for chatting.' The teacher could explain that absorbing knowledge is like filling a balloon with air—if they don’t pay attention and miss information, it’s like letting the air out. Eventually, the balloon will be useless. It’s important to stay focused so that the knowledge can 'stay' inside the student’s mind.

8. Starting the Lesson with a Joke
Teachers can kick off a lesson with a joke or light conversation to set a relaxed tone. During the teaching process, humorous situations can be inserted. This way, students who are not paying attention or talking amongst themselves will miss out on the fun, prompting them to focus. Gradually, they’ll tune in and stop chatting.
Alternatively, if students are chatting during the lesson, teachers should stop, keep the mood light, and tell a funny story or do something engaging to capture their attention. Children love to talk, and strict punishment often has the opposite effect. Instead, try to draw them in with humor. If done a few times, students will begin to enjoy this approach. Once the teacher has their attention, they can offer a deal: 'Let’s finish this lesson, and then we’ll do something fun together.'

