1. Home Alone


2. Listening to Others
Once your child reaches the age of 2, their language and cognitive skills develop rapidly. At this stage, they become eager to engage in conversations and ask questions to family members about things they observe around them. However, they don't yet understand when it's appropriate to ask questions, and often interrupt conversations, even when you are talking to someone else or giving them instructions. This behavior, commonly known as 'interrupting,' is often seen as undesirable.
But this is not the child's fault. You should teach them to listen to others, explaining that when parents or grandparents are talking, they should not interrupt. Instead, they should wait patiently until the conversation is over before speaking. With regular reminders, this habit will gradually develop into a positive trait for them.


3. Standing in Line
In modern times, pushing and shoving when it's time to queue seems to be a common bad habit for many people in Vietnam, regardless of age, gender, or social status. This behavior negatively impacts the image of the Vietnamese people in the eyes of international friends. So, it's important to teach your children the value of patience and the need to stand in line, waiting their turn when they are in crowded places. Moreover, you should lead by example and always queue up yourself to show them the right behavior.


4. When Being Criticized
When a child does something wrong and is scolded by their parents, grandparents, or teachers, their typical response is to feel sad or upset. This is because the child doesn't always recognize their mistake and may feel unjustly blamed. Before criticizing your child, make sure to explain what they did wrong and how they can correct it. Teach them that when they are criticized, they should not react with sadness or anger but instead listen and learn from the feedback to improve their behavior. Over time, this will help them become more aware of their mistakes and learn to correct them to avoid making the same errors in the future.


5. Tidying Up Toys
From an early age, teach your child to tidy up their toys after playing. It takes time and patience to make this a habit. Often, when a child leaves their toys scattered around, we scold them and then clean up ourselves. But how can we encourage the child to form the habit of putting toys away? Like any habit, it requires consistent practice. Instead of scolding, call the child to help you put the toys away and teach them to return items to their proper place once they're finished. If they don’t clean up after themselves next time, you can tell them they won’t be allowed to play with toys anymore. Over time, they will learn the importance of tidying up without the need for scolding.


6. Not Picky About Food
Currently, picky eating, food aversion, and a lack of appetite are common concerns for many parents. As children begin to recognize different foods, they develop preferences for certain dishes and dislike others. Rather than catering to their every demand, it's important to teach them the benefits of eating a variety of foods. If your child dislikes a certain food, explain to them its benefits and the potential consequences of not eating it. Let them know that a balanced diet is essential for their growth and development. Additionally, try changing how you prepare the food to make it more appealing to them.


7. Going to School and Coming Home
When your child turns two, they begin to speak more clearly, and some children may even start preschool. This is the time to teach them the importance of greeting people. Encourage them to say goodbye to family members before leaving, greet their teacher at school, and say hello to strangers they meet, using the appropriate terms based on the person's age. Be patient, and gently remind them if they forget. Over time, this will turn into a habit. Once your child naturally greets people without prompting, praise them to encourage this positive behavior.

8. Interacting with Friends
As children start to develop their understanding, they often prefer to play alone and may not want to share their toys with others. However, it's important to teach them that this is a behavior they can improve. Explain that sharing toys with friends and siblings not only makes playtime more enjoyable but also fosters a sense of cooperation and harmony. Sharing is an essential trait that helps build strong relationships with others.


9. When Traveling
Children love to go on trips, and it's always an exciting adventure for them. However, parents often worry about the possibility of their child getting lost, as kids are naturally curious and enjoy exploring. This is especially true when they go on field trips with teachers and classmates. Teach your child to stay close to adults, friends, and teachers, and explain that wandering off alone can make them easily lost, preventing them from returning home with their parents.


