Aquarius Compatibility in Love, Friendship, and Work

Born between January 20 and February 19? You likely have an Aquarius sun sign. Known for their ingenuity and uniqueness, Aquarians often wonder about their compatibility in love, friendships, and professional environments.

According to master astrologer Shannon Aganza, founder of MoonGathering Astrology and Numerology Coursework, "Aquarians prioritize liking someone before falling in love." If you're drawn to an Aquarius, keep in mind that "emotional connection matters more than physical attraction," she explains.

To grasp zodiac compatibility, start by understanding synastry. Synastry examines astrological connections between individuals (or events). It involves analyzing two charts together — yours and the other person's. Synastry goes beyond sun signs, considering the houses Aquarius governs and the positions of planets such as Mars and Venus.

What this means for you: Having an Aquarius sun sign? Don’t dismiss a Virgo or Scorpio solely based on sun sign compatibility. While some sources claim "Scorpio-Aquarius is incompatible," this is far too simplistic to be true.

Get to Know the Aquarius Personality

Even if your birthday isn’t in late January or early February, Aquarius still plays a role in your astrological chart.

"Aquarius is deeply committed, especially when it comes to friendships," says Aganza. As the traditional ruler of the 11th house, Aquarius emphasizes community and social connections.

"Understand that Aquarians highly value their friendships. If you feel insecure in a relationship (e.g., 'They prefer their friends over me'), avoid interfering, or it could lead to a breakup," Aganza cautions.

Aquarius Personality Traits

Elemental Overview: Air + Fire

A straightforward way to grasp compatibility is through elements. Astrology identifies four: fire, air, water, and earth. Fire and air are Yang (active), while water and earth are Yin (passive).

Aquarius, like Gemini and Libra, is an air sign. When two Aquarius suns unite, it creates a conjunction, usually a harmonious connection. Similarly, Aquarius paired with Gemini or Libra forms a trine, another favorable aspect. In essence, air signs naturally understand and connect with each other.

Air signs also harmonize well with fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), as both are Yang elements in astrology. When Aquarius connects with Aries or Sagittarius, it forms a sextile, which is generally favorable. (Sagittarius-Aquarius can be a great match.) With Leo, it creates an opposition (Leo and Aquarius are on opposite ends of the zodiac), which can be challenging or rewarding, as opposites often attract.

This elemental framework helps simplify compatibility. "You can already infer that other air signs (especially Gemini) and fire signs naturally share similar desires with Aquarius," explains Aganza.

This doesn’t imply Aquarius can’t connect with water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) or earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn). Compatibility depends on other chart aspects. "There’s much more to consider," says Aganza. "Even signs from 'opposing' elements can find shared strengths and grow from their differences." So, Aquarius-Virgo compatibility isn’t off the table!

Two individuals might have sun signs in different elements (like Aquarius and Cancer, which seem incompatible on paper), yet other planetary placements in their charts could create strong chemistry and harmony.

Aquarius Compatible Signs

"When discussing Aquarius compatibility, remember that friendship and love are intertwined for them," explains Aganza. "Ruled by Saturn, they prioritize creating a solid foundation for lasting relationships through strong friendships. Saturn’s influence emphasizes long-term commitments, so with Aquarius, a deep friendship must precede any romantic connection."

Whether you or your partner is an Aquarius, understanding this dynamic is crucial, regardless of astrological alignments. "Many clients express concern that their relationship isn’t progressing quickly enough," says Aganza. "But if you’ve earned their friendship, you’re in. For Aquarius, everyone must start as a friend, and these bonds often develop slowly over time."

Aquarius Love Compatibility

For Aquarius love compatibility, Oak, founder of Oak Astrology School (a supporter of queer, Filipinx, and BIPOC astrology students and clients), highlights key factors. "Romantic attraction often stems not from matching sun signs," they note, "but from the harmonious interplay between the sun and moon, or Venus and Mars."

To uncover compatibility, examine your sun and their moon, or vice versa. Aquarian harmony may emerge between these celestial bodies. Delving deeper, analyze the positions of Mars and Venus in both charts. If both placements align in Aquarius, expect Saturn-inspired chemistry to ignite.

Returning to the idea of romance rooted in friendship, remember that emotional connection outweighs physical attraction for Aquarius. "You’ll also need to win over their circle of friends," adds Aganza.

In romantic relationships, Sagittarius can be a great match for Aquarius. "Aquarians are drawn to open-minded individuals who think beyond themselves," says Aganza. "Sagittarius considers the broader impact of their actions while maintaining a fun-loving spirit, making them a strong partner for Aquarius."

When it comes to Gemini compatibility (another air sign like Aquarius), romantic potential is high. "Aquarius and Gemini? Absolutely!" affirms Aganza. However, she cautions, "Aquarians may lose interest if conversations remain too superficial."

The Libra-Aquarius pairing is equally dynamic. "Libra enjoys engaging in debates with Aquarius, leading to productive discussions and effective problem-solving," explains Aganza.

Aquarius Friendship Compatibility

Want to become best friends with an Aquarius? Examine Mercury and Venus placements in their chart. "Aquarius creates tight-knit friend circles," says Aganza. As the final air sign, Aquarius naturally brings together groups of like-minded individuals. Befriending an Aquarius means joining their entire social circle.

Aquarius, a fixed sign like Leo, Taurus, and Scorpio, is known for its dedication and reliability in friendships. However, Aquarius-Taurus compatibility might not thrive as well in friendships.

If Your Sun Is in Aquarius...

"Keep things lively, engaging, and dynamic," advises Oak. This suggests forming friendships with those who have their sun in another air sign. "Sun in Libra or Gemini feels so natural that you’ll likely find many of your closest friends share these placements [or other Gemini and Libra influences]."

If Your Mercury Is in Aquarius...

"Who doesn’t enjoy stimulating conversations?" Oak remarks. "If you’re fortunate enough to have a friend with Jupiter in Aquarius, prepare for endless discussions and the most witty, engaging meme exchanges among your circle."

If your Mercury, the planet of communication and intellect, is in Aquarius, you’re likely sharp and quick-minded. "Mercury in Aquarius is known for rapid thinking and constant inspiration," says Oak. "A sun in Aries would further ignite that intellectual spark."

If Your Venus Is in Aquarius...

With Venus in Aquarius, the 11th zodiac sign, "the key to a fulfilling friendship is aligning on social and political values," explains Oak. Signs like Sagittarius, Pisces, and Libra often resonate with Aquarius’s ideals, creating a strong foundation for lasting friendships.

For deeper insights, Oak suggests, "To ensure a friendship that endures, check if your friends have Saturn in an air sign."

Aquarius in the Workplace

While you might not always have access to a coworker’s full natal chart, this tool can be useful when establishing business partnerships.

A straightforward workplace partnership could be with an Aries colleague. Although elementally compatible (recall the air and fire synergy), Aries’ self-focused nature might clash with Aquarius’ collective mindset in friendships or romance, notes Aganza. However, she emphasizes that Aries and Aquarius excel as business partners.

"When considering Aquarius as an activist, Aries complements them perfectly," she explains. "Aquarians often have grand, innovative ideas but may lack execution. Aries steps in with their go-getter attitude, saying, ‘Let’s make it happen!’"

If Your Sun Is in Aquarius...

Workplace compatibility can be straightforward — focus on the sun sign of your business partner or colleague to find shared interests. For dynamic brainstorming, consider a fire sign. "Aries or Sagittarius can infuse energy and synergy into the workplace, matching Aquarius’ creativity with action," says Oak.

If Your Mercury Is in Aquarius...

"In creative or social industries, having the moon or Venus in Gemini or Libra can effortlessly spark innovative ideas," explains Oak.

If Your Mars Is in Aquarius...

Opposite zodiac signs can sometimes achieve remarkable synergy. "A partner with their sun or Mercury in Leo offers a striking contrast to the visionary Aquarius," notes Oak. While Leo thrives in the spotlight and Aquarius focuses on the collective, "this contrast can yield exceptional results, as Leo excels at making ideas accessible and engaging for audiences. Together, they create brilliant concepts with compelling delivery."